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foot long subbacultcha, I've never seen you around here, but your name has a witty reference to the Pixies and you live in the city where The Office takes place. will you be my friend?
Hey, TeN. Don't make me stalk you. Besides, I finally managed to escape Slough in August and now live in sunny Highbury, not-so-sunny London. Also, the Office lies. There is no Chasers in Slough.
I'm bad, I should post more on Barbelith but if I do that I'll be in danger of creating one of those "help me i'm lost" threads in Conversation.
I got to see Garden State a couple of times on Sunday and found it a difficult, moving experience. In terms of age, issues with the immediate family, and meeting a special girl, I managed to relate quite closely to the events in the movie. I think it's brilliantly contrived. I couldn't help watching the moments between Large and Sam and thinking "it doesn't happen that way. It doesn't. Events don't just turn up and hit you like that so perectly. Two people can't just fall into each other like that. Especially when he's supposed to be so emotionally numb. So all he has to do is decide to feel and the first decent girl he meets can fall for him?"
But I guess it does happen. I suppose my anger at my own situation turned Garden State into melodrama in my opinion, but like I said, it's brilliantly contrived. And the scene in the bathtub did draw a tear from my own eye, because what we see is something we have seen or want to see. And as difficult as the ending is, that's what the film is about. Large realises that he's got something now that he's allowed to need, and he realises that he found it so perfectly, so it would be insane to not pursue it.
My favourite moment is Natalie's grinning-slightlysmiling-grinning reaction to Large's reaction listening to the Shins.
I heart this film, but it's really difficult for me. It's close in sense where I can see the truth in it but at this stage I want to feel separated from it. I need to bask further in Rushmore, I heart huckabees and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. |
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