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Well I think it's clearly about enjoying that someone would do that for you, but I think you could make that more complex than your formulation would suggest. I mean, agreed the liquid itself isn't chocolate syrup and that the way that it can explode from the penis in question (complete with the convulsive invasions) could be considered extremely uncomfortable / gag inducing. Hence there might be a suggestion that you'd had to be made to do it, that you were being kept their for your face to be - basically - fucked, whether you liked it or not.

A less aggressive but no less passionately satisfying position might be where a person felt strongly about another and wanted to find ways of incorporating them into their bodies might swallow their cum. That the boundary between people might be broken in that way is I think always going to be emotionally significant. Bragging about it then could be seen as no more than trying to evidence how sexy or manly one was that a woman could want you and your seed THAT MUCH (where it would probably be better if the woman was clearly unforced and felt no obligation).