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'Tolerance' vs 'Acceptance' in Practice

 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
10:43 / 19.05.04
Speaking to a non-white friend of mine recently about Trevor Phillips and his recent CRE speech, my friend said that they "didn't want to be tolerated in the UK, they wanted to be accepted." Now, we can all understand what that means, but we were both at a loss, on the spur of the moment, to work out how that would work in practical terms. Toleration in this sense tends to mean a reluctant gritted-teeth acceptence of someone elses right to exist while acceptence it's less of an issue, but when most organisations have it within their codes or practice not discriminate on the grounds of race or ethnic background, what differences are there between the 'accepting' society as opposed to the 'tolerating' society.
 
 
Jester
12:19 / 19.05.04
Maybe you can legislate for a tolerant society, but a change of attitudes has to happen for it to become an accepting society?
 
 
Jub
12:45 / 19.05.04
Yes - I think you're right Jester.

I think part of the confusion lies with the semantics of the toleration/acceptance dichotomy. I see your distinction Flowers and I concur that there is an apparent starkness of these extremes. However, I think the Equal Oppurtunity provisions in our society bridge the gap (for the most part) between these, so that acceptance is legislated for.

I see what you mean though, and it is a bit odd. It always gets my goat when you hear people on about "tolerating" blacks/gays/muslims *whatever* etc. In the long run the very notion of acceptance seems strange, that is, if you were fully accepted there would be no talk of your acceptance in society.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
10:44 / 21.05.04
I can't help but think that perhaps in an 'accepting' society we wouldn't repeatedly call on Muslim religious leaders to speak for all Muslims and act as guarentaurs of their good behaviour.
 
  
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