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Char Aina
08:33 / 11.09.06
i was assuming miss wonderstarr's British Asian accent reference was intended to be relevant to the issue at hand, i assumed as a sort of parralel or analogy.

how did you read it?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
09:40 / 11.09.06
Well, t, you make a good point.

I would suggest that response to someone doing another "voice" textually does depend on how the speaker's cultural position is perceived, in relation to the "voice": that is, as I suggested above, someone whom I know or believe is white, putting on a jokey British Asian accent, has associations for me with a racist way of doing the same thing.

So, indeed, there is an analogy there with the hypothetical British Asian accent and PW's actual (insert description here) accent. You have stated:

a) That whenever you do an accent it is to celebrate rather than mock.
b) This (a) is OK, as there is a big difference between an accent done in mockery and one done with love.
c) This (a) is what Paranoidwriter is doing.
d) Therefore, his post does not bear anything more than a superficial resemblance to the words of a racist.

My point was that (d), here, is not entirely relevant, inasmuch as nobody is saying "Paranoidwriter's post contains the words of a racist (to wit, because PW is a racist)". They were being highlighted as words the use of which caused confusion and discomfort, in part because of the association of that rather stylised accent with a rather stylised version of a particular part of the greater African dispora (Jamaican and then Black British). Flyboy has questioned (a) and (b) already, and (c) appears to me to be also not entirely relevant, as Paranoidwriter is not facing accusations of being a racist.

Having said which, I'm afraid that I have to refer back to Persephone's comment, in a broader discussion around, among other things, "padywhack", where she noteed that in her discussions with advantaged people about acceptable usage of terms that applied to her but not to them, it seemed to her that the arguments frequently seemed to be why it was OK for those white people to carry on behaving with complete freedom. Short of actually installing a loveometer in the posting screen, where people can state with how much love they were doing something, I'm not sure to what extent one can be confident about controlling how people react to what you say in online environments.

And I think that's part of the problem here. We've already agreed fairly comprehensively that is was unfortunate that this went in a thread called "racism", if only because it discouraged discussion of the actual action and the feelings it engendered and encouraged the much more nuclear question "are you calling me a racist?", which actually never needed to be asked, IMHO. As a result, a post which started off as simply inexplicable has become a locus of what seems to me to be unfortunate and ungrounded personal conflict. However, I think that the whole "putting this in a thread called 'racism' was a mistake" discussion has now happened enough times that to continue to talk as if PW is or was being called a racist is, I think, to indulge in threadrot.

Personally, I'd probably change the title of this thread and then possibly boot it into Conversation, since we may need a proper thread on racism in the Policy at some point and this probably isn't it any longer.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
13:15 / 11.09.06
A SINCERE ATTEMPT AT A NICE AND DECENT APOLOGY

Hi everyone. Yep, I'm back. No. Please. Don't get up. Hear me out. Please?.. It's fairly long, but hopefully it's worth it, and I've been working on and practicing it for ages, so it's a shame if it all goes to waste.. why you getting up to leave?...

Sheesh...OK.... For those who are still here and listening...

I'm really sorry, Barbelith, for my actions of recent days, in this thread and a few others, specifically the post that reignited this thread. All my posts, like some (if not a few more) of yours (I believe) were well intended, but my posts went wrong somehow, somewhere at the begging and towards the end, I think. I dunno, yet, for definite.

However, my most controversial and somewhat misleading post to date, was a low point, all round. For many reasons. And for which I will offer no further reasons or attempt an excuse, just this apology, in this thread. I'm still working out precisely where, when, and why I did what I did, and exactly what it was that I did wrong. But from the reaction I got: something obviously went waaay wrong, somehow and people felt bad. Period.

I WILL therefore continue to take a break from regular posting, then return much later to these threads with even fresher peepers; to try to work it ALL out properly. Promise. If that is and still remains cool with everyone, of course?

Again, Barbelith, you have my deepest and sincerest apologies for being a trisksy and slightly ignorant swine at times recently (even if I didn't always realise it at the time). Sure, I have my reasons, but then so do we all, eh? In many ways I'm a cultural magpie and I'm proud of that; it's one of teh few things in life I am proud of.. But I don't leaving a relationship badly...so...

Ta-ra a bit, chucks! I've had a Lorra lorra laughs and plenty of surprise, surprise!

Best wishes, one and all.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
13:28 / 11.09.06
Now he's pretending to be Liverpudlian, the bastard!

Only joking, see you around PW.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
22:51 / 13.09.06
I still have some notion that discussions about Policy-related themes (ie. potentially-offensive racial stereotypes) should be on Policy

Oh certainly, it's simply a more specific thread.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
22:59 / 13.09.06
I have put forward a request to move this topic to conversation. If it is moved and anyone has serious objections then it can always be thrown back again but I don't think its content really lives here.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
23:18 / 13.09.06
I'd rather we leave it here.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
23:26 / 13.09.06
Why? For reasons of context (the same reason I asked for the thread title not to be changed)

e.g. maybe miss wonderstar wouldn't have bumped / used this thread if had been in conversation. Ze wanted to discuss this issue more seriously, non? Personally, I know my response would have been a whole lot different if this had been Conversation, as well.

Fair enough?
 
 
grant
23:47 / 13.09.06
I have put forward a request to move this topic to conversation. If it is moved and anyone has serious objections then it can always be thrown back again but I don't think its content really lives here.

I'm abstaining from voting right now -- the first page and original post are clearly Policy material, and I think the last two pages almost clearly aren't. I tend to weight the OP and the abstract (which is supposed to keep these things on topic) more than the rest of the thread, but understand that others might give more weight to the most recent contributions than the starting point.

I also think there's a kind of object lesson going on throughout the odd last couple pages, although it gets so strange in there it's hard to draw it out post by post.

I wish we could split topics like the phpBB, but we can't.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
23:53 / 13.09.06
Why not let it sink and be used again properly later, when it's needed?

Nadezhda Krupskaya, you could always start a new thread; that is, if for some reason you think this one doesn't suit our purposes where it is and the way it is, non?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
23:56 / 13.09.06
I valued the recent contributions more because the thread was started a couple of years ago but I see your point. Unfortunately I think there's a very sound argument that it's never going to return to its original purpose. It's been rotted away from the title and the summary and frankly the contributions can be a lesson anywhere.

PW a thread doesn't have more value in Policy than it does elsewhere, that's something to question in your response to this place.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:01 / 14.09.06
Yes, but the subject matters are different, and the way they're treated is different.

Just look at the 'Universal Declaration of Members Rights?' thread I tried to start in Conversation. When it was moved into Policy, the tone changed. No more poems and jokes or anything so "funny".

Can you tell me why you've decided to move this thread now? I'm confused as to your reasons.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
00:05 / 14.09.06
This is about organisation and relevance. If you want this thread to be relevant to Policy you need to make it relevant to Policy. We can't keep threads in places because we feel they have more significance and this particular part of Barbelith is prone to holding significant threads. That way lies chaos and absurdity. This is not the significant threads forum, this forum is called Policy and Help. It is about Barbelith's internal structure, this thread is not, the majority of it is a discussion of individual racist language and not about our policy on racist language. The discussion here does not even currently follow the summary of thread.

Your thread on member's rights belonged here because it was a proposition for Barbelith policy.

Sorry, I believe in defined filing systems for information, my need to move this thread is a reflection of the way my brain works.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:09 / 14.09.06
And I believe in contextual filing.

Please respect my wishes.

The last two pages or so came about for specific reasons, that I did not literally start. I would therefore like my responses to stay in context.

If not, you are about to open an even bigger can of worms -- I fear.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
00:11 / 14.09.06
This isn't your thread.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:12 / 14.09.06
It isn't yours, either.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:20 / 14.09.06
It's great that we're discussing this like adults.

OK, people. Arguments:

1) Nina - you're arguing that the thread has no purpose in the Policy because it is not stipulating any moderator actions of, at least for the last four pages, discussing how Barbelith should deal with an issue, yes? And that, further, the last four pages make it unlikely that it will be returned to its original purpose?

2) Paranoidwriter - you're arguing that it needs to remain in the Policy because, if moved, it would give the impression that it had not originate in the Polcy, which would in turn make people look at the responses in a different way?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
00:23 / 14.09.06
No but I'm suggesting we move it for practical reasons because it doesn't fit the definition or purpose of the forum. You're suggesting we keep it here because it fits a vague context. You don't want the name to change but this thread probably isn't recoverable for its intended purpose. You don't want it to move but that means we will likely have two threads in Policy with very similar names at some point. I don't think contextual filing works very well with regards to this, we should do something to make it workable. Practically what do you suggest? That we somehow turn the subject back to original intent? If so then you had better do it and link it to the purpose of the forum.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
00:23 / 14.09.06
Sorry, that was to PW.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:24 / 14.09.06

Nadezhda Krupskaya ... If it is moved and anyone has serious objections then it can always be thrown back again but I don't think its content really lives here.

I have expressed that I have a serious objection.

So why bother with the fuss of moving it twice?

Is it still up for being moved, or has that been vetoed? How do I, a non-moderator know when this decision has been made by (is it?) two others?

Haus, why not leave this thread alone? One could even start a new one in Conversation, as I suggested.

We're only adding more rot. Yes?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:24 / 14.09.06
Grant: you may be able to help, here. What's the object lesson you think the last pages provide?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
00:27 / 14.09.06
I'm attempting to understand why your objection is serious.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:29 / 14.09.06
OK, PW. I think you're doing it again. You have registered an objection, but I don't understand what that objection is. You keep using the word "context", but just as "irony", on its own that doesn't help me to understand your argument. Since I am a moderator in the Policy, and this thread will be read by other moderators in the Policy, your best bet is to provide a cogent argument in open field why you believe it should not be moved.

Now, personally, I'd like to see the title changed and the thread locked, so that in future nobody wanting to flag what they perceive as racism will have to wade through a hundred posts of soup to find out if this is the thread for it. However, I don't know if I feel strongly enough about that to mod for it, and I figure it might be wise to sort this one out before we move on to other options.

So, PW, again - what do you think the argument is for me or another moderator to veto Nina's proposal? Or do you feel that you have already made a case, because I'm afraid I don't think you have.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:31 / 14.09.06
I'm attempting to understand why this is such a big deal to you, right now, this late at night in the UK.

I think it's obvious that my points are serious.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:32 / 14.09.06
(my previous post was a reply to Nadezhda Krupskaya)


Haus, start a new thread if you like, and we can talk about it.

For now, we're only rotting this one further.

Has the decision been vetoed or not?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:36 / 14.09.06
I think it's obvious that my points are serious.

I disagree over whether this is obvious. I don't even know at this stage whether you mean your points in the thread up to this discussion, or the points you are now not making in arguing for the thread to stay here. That's just it. I don't understand why you object to Nina's proposal, and as such I am finding it hard to judge your respective cases. If you would like me to understand your case better, and/or put it better for other Policy moderators, please outline it. Personally, I think that threads should stay where they are unless there is a good reason. I think there should be the opportunity to have a thread on racism in the Policy. Nina believes that this thread's presence in the policy endangers that opportunity. I am still thinking about it. The move has not been vetoed - it is still a live issue.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:39 / 14.09.06
Then let it be re-proposed once everything has been discussed.

I would like to go to bed now, but if I have to, we can stay up all night and discuss this further; so long as the "move" is an action rather than a discussed proposal.

New thread?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:44 / 14.09.06
A new thread to discuss a move to move a thread to Conversation? Honestly, this thread is such a horrible pit of slurry that discussing it here will probably not make much difference, but if you want to talk about it in the moderation requests thread go for it - put a link in here. However, either way, please provide an actual explanation of why you want it to be kept here - one at least a paragraph long, I recommend, and addressing the points for moving it raised so far here.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:46 / 14.09.06
I will. As soon as we have equal rights on this particular move.

Agreed?

(Seriously I want to go to bed, but if I wake up and see this thread in Converstion, because a moderator has just clicked "yes" without knowing my objections?.... well... I might be rather annoyed.)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:50 / 14.09.06
You don't have equal rights, PW, or more precisely you don't have equal moderation rights. You're mot a moderator in the Policy. You can certainly attempt to persuade the moderators of why a particular action should or should not be taken, but if you want to do that I suggest you do it by actually stating in the clearest terms possible why you do not want it to be moved. So far, I don't think you've done that, and I have only the vaguest idea of your argument - something involving context, and something else involving a can of worms, but without a coherent explanation of either. All I'm asking for, here or in the Moderator Requests Thread, is to understand your reasoning.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:53 / 14.09.06
Regarding a moderator clicking "yes" without knwoing your objections - a moderator should click "reference" and read the context around the moderator action suggested. If they do not, that is bad moderation. That's what I have done. I am still waiting to read your objections, though - I know that you object, but I don't really understand why, and I would like to, as I imagine any other moderator coming to this thread would.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:59 / 14.09.06
You don't have equal rights, PW

I thought the moderators had no special privileges over other members? Hmm...

And Haus, do my eyes deceive me, or did you just ask me to talk more about all this in the Moderation Requests thread -- wouldn't that be threadrot, the likes of which you complained about (erm) over a week ago now in that very same thread, when discussing a previous display of potentially bad moderating (and requests)?

Just veto the move. Then we'll discuss it somewhere. Then you can always re-propose it if the majority deems fit. Yes? In the meantime, I can't do much else but ask you to be respectful, eh? And maybe discuss other related issues here and add to more threadrot.

(It's very late here)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
01:09 / 14.09.06
I thought the moderators had no special privileges over other members? Hmm...

Moderators have the special privilege, or duty, of voting to agree or veto other moderator actions, and to propose moderator actions of their own. As such, we cannot have equal rights here, because you are not a moderator. If you were, we would not be having this conversation, although we might be having a conversation about why you vetoed the move. As such, I don't understand what you mean by "equal rights", and to be honest I'm not sure you do, either. I can't give you the right to compel moderators to do your bidding. You already have the right to discuss moderator actions, which right you are exercising here. However, if you want a moderator to obey your wishes, you need to make a case, which you are so far refusing to do. I have no idea what you mean by "the majority" here - are you suggesting a public vote be held before moderators are allowed to make requests about threads in which you have been involved? That seems to demand a right unequal with the other members of Barbelith. You have the right to disagree a move, and the retroactive right to challenge that decision, but where the majority comes into it I'm not sure.

Incidentally, the reason this might be discussed in the Moderator Requests Thread is because you are requesting that a moderator do something. You might want to think this through before casting aspersions. Thanks.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
01:11 / 14.09.06
You have the right to disagree a move

That is, disagre with, of course, rather than disagree in the moderatorial sense of preventing.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
01:12 / 14.09.06
I give up.

Haus, re-read your ow posts in the morning and talk to me then about "rights".

Respect?

Yeah...
 
  

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