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Lilith Myth
17:15 / 08.03.04
Without wishing to get into a slanging match with the poster who started the thread in the conversation about "bad girls", I'd like to know what the, er, policy is on this?

Seems to me that someone has come onto the board and made a racsist comment/comments. There's been some remark about whether it should be removed, but no action.

It's not the first time - in the Kilroy thread in the switchboard recently, a poster wrote a new article, a pastiche of the Kilroy one. While there was debate about whether this should be removed, it wasn't.

I'd like to know what the Barbelith view on racist remarks is. It worries me.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
17:41 / 08.03.04
Well, you're dealing with two completely different things here.

In the first case, we're simply faced with an idiot. I think it's been dealt with the best way by ridiculing the original post, but if it's deleted I won't have a problem with that decision. It's easier and more effective not to delete straight away in this kind of situation, because you can quite often create a bigger problem for the board by doing so (hello, 100%).

In the second case, the post needs to be viewed in the context of the thread it's in.

I'm not sure what the worry is here. Is there a specific instance of Barbelith tolerating racism that I'm not aware of?
 
 
grant
17:43 / 08.03.04
I'd like to think of Barbelith as a place where any idea is permissible, and every idea is given the response it merits. In a perfect world, maybe.
 
 
Jack Fear
17:50 / 08.03.04
The two procedures in place seem to be (a) mock it into oblivion, and/or (b) discuss it to death.

Both approaches serves to take the sting out of the comments by discrediting the person who posted them. As is only right and proper.

What's to be gained by deleting the posts outright? Who would we be protecting? Who benefits?

I'm with grant on this one: in the bazaar of ideas, let the market decide.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
18:30 / 08.03.04
Well, yes. But it isn't.

Generally, the position on this was discussed during one of our previous trolling episodes. If somebody behaves like a troll persistently, it becomes excusable to move his posts and threads for deletion. The best indication that this position is agreed is if other moderators agree with the deletion. Non-moderators are free to draw the attention of moderators to messages they believe are trollsome and the moderators are then free to act on it as they feel appropriate.

Members with little to bring to the table but racist or arguably racist attention-seeking may end up getting deleted or bannned (Knodge on no few occasions), but may also be simply ridiculed (the case of the baby-killing Bengalis) or even pitied (the poor nonce-sniffing, jew-fearing Greenland Posse). In general, a post like "bad girls", which is either a work of stupidity or deliberate trolling, will have the piss taken out of it for a while and then, if the poster persists, lead ultimately to an increasing will to delete.

That's not a perfect system, and it does require both consensus and a reasonably small number of incidents before the moderators risk getting overstretched, but it's where we are right now.

Personally, I don't think Barbelith should tolerate racism. Fortunately, the construction of the site at the moment means that many of the people whose posts might be accused of racism are either dim, in which case a bit of remonstration and then moderation if necessary seems appropriate, or unworldly, in which case a bit of gentle "maybe we should ask why people aren't happy with that example" - see here for an example. Other times it is clear that the poster is just trying to offend, and a quiet throttling should follow, but that does depend on other moderators agreeing...that is, people fairly rarely turn up *expecting* their racist beliefs to be supported and approved, although at times they appear not to notice that their beliefs are racist.

Do we need a code of conduct on this one?
 
 
Tom Coates
19:39 / 08.03.04
We basically have a code of conduct on this stuff. Comments which are considered to constitute harrassment aren't allowed on the board and I think we have agreed on previous occasions that homophobic, racist, sexist or whatever comments that describe a group of people as a type can be considered to be a comment upon any board members of that type. In other words, a racist comment is tacit harrassment of any members of that ethnic type - as is a homophobic comment tacit harrassment of any and all gay members of the board. As such they are not considered appropriate and may be removed.

The question about whether something is racist or just stupid is one for the board to discuss. Note that we are not saying that the person should not be racist, just that it is considered appropriate behaviour to be vaguely sensitive to the other members of the board and to not insult their race, gender or sexuality. Also note that there's a distinction between being critical of a culture or the behaviour of group of people within an ethnic group / sexuality or gender and insulting all the members of that group. I'm not sure how clear the distinction is, but - for example - I don't think I would have a problem with someone criticising gay culture for glamourising easy sex or that Muslim culture (or orthodox Judaism) was inately misogynist (whether I agreed with them or not). I would have a problem with someone saying that gay people were promiscuous and that muslims or jews were misogynists. Perhaps that's too fine a distinction. Thoughts?
 
 
Baz Auckland
02:17 / 09.03.04
Given bcj's thoughtful posts in the gay marriage thread, I think he's proving himself to be a worthwhile member...
 
 
Jub
08:45 / 09.03.04
That's not too a fine a distinction at all Tom. In general, and I think especially on Barbelith people are able to see that difference - the former are points for debating - based on a reasoned (but not necessarily correct) views; the latter are wide generalisations whose language precludes the possibility that they are wrong. As such they invite confrontation, or as we have seen, ridicule.

The difference between these statements and how people express them, is really a point of intent. Someone may express a racist/homophobic remark incredibly articulately, equally someone may make a good point about race/sexuality badly. The point is the other members will be able to decide for themselves - and this is what they've done in bcj's case.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
10:25 / 09.03.04
Personally I think the offending remark has been fairly effectively shouted down... (as also seems to be the case with the equally moronic one in the Gay Marriage thread). If this shit keeps up, we may have a problem. As is, I think we've made a pretty good statement of where the consensus lies.

Actually, I think that's all already been said... just thought I'd throw my hat in the ring.
 
 
Lurid Archive
10:57 / 09.03.04
I think it has all been said above, but I thought I'd reiterate some points. On the whole, I favour giving a poster the benefit of the doubt and allow offensive remarks to be dealt with in threads themselves. I think this is useful in defining Barbelith and is much more effective than moderator actions, since it relies on participation from the community. I also have a lot more patience for racism that is expressed in a reasonable way - I'm thinking of a poster defending something like The Bell Curve, for example - though I realise that is a tricky area.

Also, I'm a firm believer in giving people space to be stupid or misguided for a little while. Some people can be argued round and deleting them is a sure way to close down lines of communication.

The problem is that, given my inertia, racist remarks can go unchecked for longer than some would like. Ultimately, I like to feel that in performing a moderation action like deletion, I am doing something that most members would approve of. So a good way to get me, and other moderators, to respond to something is to start a thread like this or use the PM function.

As for the specific cases brought up by Lilith, I thought the Bad girls thread should be given the benefit of the doubt to see how it developed. And the post in the Kilroy thread was clearly a problem, though I thought an inthread comment was probably better than a moderator action. More posts on the same lines would have been deleted pretty quickly, I think, probably along with the original.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
11:59 / 09.03.04
As regards the Kilroy thread post, I also found it uncomfortable reading... but I think its context stopped it being just a stupid piece of racism, and (I may be attributing things to the poster that aren't there, of course) I thought it was obviously satirical, seeing as how such a thing had been suggested (in concept) earlier in the thread. I never got the impression that the poster in question was expressing their own racism... I can see how that impression COULD have been taken, and had I thought that was the intent, I'd have been among the first to nominate it for deletion. In the event, discussion ensued... usually (to my way of thinking) a constructive result.

Yup. There's wiggle room on that one, imho.

But the other... well, I've said all I have to say. And I have to say, defensive PMs from the poster responsible aren't really appreciated, especially when constructing a proper sentence seems to have been too much fucking effort. (Not that he/she'll be reading this, but... y'know...)
 
 
grant
13:36 / 09.03.04
Well, the gay marriage post yonder and the following four replies I'd put up for deletion if I was (*sob*) still an admin, because they're adding pretty much nothing to the discussion, and I get far more anal about that stuff in the Revolution area than in Conversation or Spectacle, for whatever reason.
 
 
passer
14:47 / 09.03.04
I already asked this in the thread, but I have a feeling I might get a better, i.e. intelligible, reply here. What is racist about the gad girls thread? I'll be the first to gladly file it under stupid, but I did not see anything inherently racist in the post.

As for the greater topic, I think deletion feels too authoritarian for barbelith. Perhaps my eyes are too rosy, but I feel that there is something productive that comes out of the discussions offensive comments have generated here. I also think that community wide negative reactions such posts invariably generate significantly reduce the chances of any persecution complex. It's hard to stand there and shout to the rafters that moderator X is out to get you when you have a slew of posts explaining exactly what's wrong with what was said.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
14:54 / 09.03.04
"Should I go out with a black girl?"
 
 
Tryphena Absent
15:25 / 09.03.04
What is racist about the gad girls thread? I'll be the first to gladly file it under stupid, but I did not see anything inherently racist in the post.

Hello? What? Erk? 'Should I go out with a bad girl?' is a normal question but as soon as you specify race you're seeing a difference between a bad white girl and a bad black girl because obviously there is one? If race comes in to the question than you've got a thing about it. Having a thing indicates some kind of racism somewhere inside you. Your eyes are waayyyy too rosy.

Something might come out of these topics if they were fewer between but frankly we have this discussion once every three months and I sure as hell can't think of anything new it's giving me. Perhaps someone newer would disagree?
 
 
passer
15:30 / 09.03.04
"Should I go out with a black girl"; "should I go out with a pretty girl"; and "should I go out with Samantha, my next door neighbor" are all fairly stupid polls to take on a message board. However, just because the question specifies that the potential mate in question is black rather than named Samantha or pretty does not make the post racist. In fact, in defense of our new little friend, he specifies that the "girl" in question is a bad black girl, which at least implies that he does not think that all black girls are in fact bad.

I'm not arguing that he might not be racist in intent, but I feel that this coloring of him has less to do with this stupid thread in conversation and more to do with his less than brilliant contributions to the gay marriage thread.
 
 
raelianautopsy
16:05 / 09.03.04
This is dumb. Racism means diffirent things to diffirent people. One man's politically incorrect humor can be another's racism. And some people really do look for ficticious examples of racism just so they can feel self-rightous, whether they realize it or not. (Am I sexist for using the generic phrase 'man' above?) People need to stop being offended so easily.

Racism implys hatred. Making a racial observation is not necessarily the same thing. And sometimes one forgets to add the word 'culture' when making an observation, when that's what they mean.

We should be all about free speach. The only time anyone should be censored is if they are actively promoting violence against a group of people. Never if they are making a joke about dating black girls or if they are showing a hypothetical example of how people would react to an anti-Jewish article.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
16:51 / 09.03.04
Jesus...

You know what's dumb? Dumb is accusing people of 'acting up', of pretending to be offended so that they can score Political Correctness points. That's dumb.

Dumb is contradicting yourself in the space of two paragraphs, of admitting on the one hand that different people will take offense to different things, that some will honestly spot racism wher others honestly won't, then saying that people need to stop being offended so easily. That's dumb.

I think it'd also be a lot more beneficial to the board if we could have this discussion without doing the whole "Censorship! Free Speech!" thing [i]again[/i]. The fact is that we're on a moderated board. Sometimes, posts will get deleted because of their content. The question is under which circumstances that happens, not whether it should happen at all.
 
 
Tom Coates
07:17 / 10.03.04
Racism isn't about hatred it's about discrimination. It's about making a choice or a decision on the basis of race where race should make no qualitative difference. It's saying given two people of equal qualification, we'll choose the white one every time, or the black one every time or the gay one every time or the Christian every time.

With regard to racial observations not being racist, well frankly that's a more complex area than I think you give it credit for. Because the whole point of racism is that it's not about judging individuals on the merits they individually might have (athletic, intelligent or whatever) but on the generalised qualities you think everyone of that type has.

Genetically there is more variation within any racial group than there is variation between them. It's almost impossible to make statements with any degree of accuracy about the character or personality or behaviour or attributes of an individual on the basis of their ethnicity alone. Frankly, then, using racial observations in the judgement of individuals is not only racist, it's also clumsy and stupid. Particularly when you actually get right down into it and start asking whether white Englishmen have much in common with white Americans or whether white working class people have all that much in common with the royal family. Or whether asian americans have the same value systems as the agrarian Chinese. There's just no similarity between the life experiences of those people, no way of predicting on the basis of their ethnicity how they will behave.

What you could probably say is that black, asian, indian and white americans in California have a certain amount in common with other people of their races based upon their shared experience of growing up as part of an ethnicity in a place like California. You could probably also argue that all the groups share experience and values based upon being American and more specifically Californian. And you could probably have some interesting guesses about their character and behaviour if you knew which ones voted democrat and which ones voted republican. Their age would probably have an impact on their behaviour as well, and whether they were first/second/tenth generation Americans. Probably their weight might colour their behaviour. Their biochemistry. Their health. Whether they're on anti-depressants or not. Whether their boyfriend or girlfriend dumped them that morning. Whether they're gay or straight. Whether they have children or don't have children. How well educated they were. How much available money they have. Whether they're atheists or Christians or Muslims Etc. etc. etc.

With such an incredibly dense set of pieces of information that colour our character and behaviour and place in the world, to judge an individual on the basis of ethnicity alone seems ludicrous in the extreme. The more you know about an individual, the more able you might be to guess how they might react in certain circumstances, or to take issue your understanding of the type of person they are or even with the culture that you feel they represent. But even then, you'd probably be better served by just having a conversation with them.

With regard to passer, there's actually a pretty clear distinction between saying 'shall i go out with a black girl' (which basically says you'd write anyone off on the basis of their ethnicity alone, no matter how attractive or interesting they were) and saying 'should i go out with samantha' (which is basically a question about a very specific individual that one would hope you'd know in some detail). If you can't see the distinction there, then that's a problem. With regard to the gay thread thing - I'm gay and I don't really care about his post on the gay marriage thread. It's facile and it's stupid and I wish the world wasn't full of pillocks like him, but hey, it's not the end of the world. This is not the end of the world either, but it's still bloody rude and it IS racist.

To raelianautopsy - yeah there are loads of circumstances where making transgressive jokes is entertaining and useful and there are also contexts where it is not. If you're going to make a joke like that you really do have to choose your audience carefully, make sure they understand it's a joke and be prepared if something goes wrong. Politically incorrect humour is funny because it's a risk. When it goes wrong you realistically only have yourself to blame!
 
 
Bill Posters
12:17 / 10.03.04
A related aside - is Greenmann currently banned from the board because of his controversial post in the Kilroy thread? (He's a mate of mine from the anarcho-pagan scene, and is rather worried about the whole business, and coupled with the fact he can't access the board atm, he's assuming the worst...)
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
12:46 / 10.03.04
No, he's not, unless Tom's done it and not told any Mods, which is beyond unlikely. I think GM is a little bit paranoid about these things: when technical problems meant that no-one could access the board, he emailed me to ask whether he'd been banned because he dared criticise Israeli policy, apparently unaware that other people do that all the time here...
 
 
passer
14:08 / 10.03.04
I suppose my point is that in order to see a distiction between pretty, samantha, and black, you have to assume that black is more than a physical descriptor. And without further information from the poster, you can only base that assumption on outside information like his post in the gay marragie thread. I'm not saying that it's not more complex than that, but I am saying that because it is more complex than that you can regard the post with suspicion, but calling it racist without more input is jumping the gun.

My problem with immediately decring such a question as racist is that there is the implication that to consider race at all makes you racist. I think all to often that silences the dicussion. If we're playing the personal experience card, it is my sincere hope that people who date me will consider the issues that arise from dating a black woman. Sure it's all well and good to say that you don't think about it at all, but the first time you run into racism, denial of race as existing cripples your ability to discuss the incident.
 
 
raelianautopsy
20:53 / 10.03.04
Jesus people are so serious about this subject. And I thought this should be about whether or not racist comments should be deleted, not an arguement about why you shouldn't be racist.

I believe that it is nurture not nature and that culture has the more profound impact on how one turn's out. But no one can deny that race and culture overlap profoundly. Not always, but there is such a thing as black culture, American culture, muslim culture, and they may or may not overlap on many points.

What is so bad about the term 'black girl'? So black is an adjective describing her race because that pertains to what he is talking about.
What's the big deal?

Fine racism doesn't HAVE to imply hatred, but if someone is not hateful than why censor them? There are levels of racism, making a comment that is a racial observation does not neccesarily make one a Nazi racist. Whether we admit it or not, everyone is a little bit racist. It is simply subconscious conditioning that you cannot completely escape. Even Jesse Jackson famously said that he is more nervous when black kids are around him at night than white kids.

I do not believe in pre-judging people before you meet them. I don't believe that anyone should be judged only on the basis of race. But I will have to admit to letting culture (which overlaps with race) be one part of information I use to judge people. And if you disagree with me, so what? What's the big deal that you have to be so serious over?
 
 
Spatula Clarke
21:49 / 10.03.04
Yeah, what's the big deal? We're only talking about racism, after all.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:46 / 10.03.04
I think that in this specific case the term "racist" has provided a handy origami tiger for Raelianautopsy. It's a thing. Perhaps "objectifying" is closer to the mark.

Which does not alter the question of how moderators deal with posts or threads they find offensive. Where I feel the best answer might be "act according to individual conscience, see whether it fits with the opinion of other moderators".
 
 
raelianautopsy
05:04 / 11.03.04
It's not so much that that the term 'its only racism' applies, but that the term is 'its only offensiveness.'

What is bad is when people don't just objectify but promote discrimination and violence. A little objectifying done in fun or to make a point and add to the debate is not a big deal.

What to do with threads that are offensive? Offensive is far too much a relative thing. If no one was aloud to be offensive than what fun would there be in that? Were would Comedy Central be?
 
 
Bill Posters
13:20 / 11.03.04
Cheers for the info, Flyboy.

Re: Raelian's comments, as Randy says, maybe we shouldn't make such a fuss about such a minor little thing? We're all racists anyway, so I guess it's all okay. And to think, we were all so worried back there! What sillies we were. Thanks for putting us all right Raelian. Hell, they should put you in charge of social policy in an ethnically-diverse city.
 
 
Tom Coates
21:14 / 11.03.04
What is so bad about the term 'black girl'? So black is an adjective describing her race because that pertains to what he is talking about. What's the big deal?

Because (and pardon me getting shirty now) you bloody idiot, it's making a decision about whether to go out with someone on the basis of race alone that's racist, not the description. She could be a Nobel Laureate, Doctor, Sex Worker or Mass Murderer for all the details we've been given, and the important thing to him is that she's black?! She could be really hot or really really ugly - but that's irrelevant too because she's black!?

The only possible way anyone could justify making a decision like this on the basis of race is if they have an idea of what 'black people' are like. And that's bloody obviously racist.
 
 
40%
21:17 / 28.03.04
I largely agree with Passer here. I don’t think the question is racist. In itself, it merely suggests an awareness of the existence of race, and I don’t think to be aware of race as an issue is necessarily racist. In some contexts it may be merely realistic. If someone was to start a thread saying “I am thinking of going out with a black girl, but I am concerned about other people’s reactions. Does anyone have experience in this area?” would there not be some validity in that? People in interracial relationships can face hostility or even violence. Is it racist to want to consider the implications of an interracial relationship beforehand? Is it racist to consider what doors might be closed to both of you by those who didn’t approve?

Not that the poster in question deserves the benefit of the doubt in this case. His failure to provide any context to the question leaves it open to any possible interpretation. He must have known that an interpretation of the statement as racist was more likely than not, and he didn’t appear to care. In the law of misrepresentation, a person is considered equally as guilty if they make a statement which they know to be false, or if they make a statement recklessly, not caring whether it be true or false. Perhaps this situation is analagous i.e. the poster made the statement recklessly, not caring whether it was interpreted as racist or not. Which is not the same as actually making a racist statement, but in its intent, it’s just as bad. So I would agree that he himself was as good as being racist, even if his question, framed in a more sensible context, might not be.
 
 
Tom Coates
21:39 / 28.03.04
Well realistically, in terms of 'discriminating between people on the basis of race' I don't think it makes any particular difference whether or not the comment itself is racist even if there are contexts in which you might be able to justify making it. Whether the person concerned was racist might be another matter, but even then - as you say - I think you'd have to go into considerable detail to make such a statement seem convincingly undodgy.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
14:45 / 14.05.04
Bumping this in the light of recent Holocaust-denying and similar.

I've just--with a qualm--well, more of a qualmlette, TBH--agreed to lock the "Do the Jews really run the world?" thread over in the Switchboard.

Should I have moved to lock it when it first surfaced in the Temple? I did toy with the idea. Instead I mooted a move to the Switchboard for the reason that it was politics and not magick, and for the rather sneakier reason that the premise was more likely to get the reception it deserved in the Switchboard. Sorry, but the level of political understanding is higher there, and the desire for historical accuracy is more pressing.

Next time a similar thread arises--for arise it will--what should the mods do with it?
 
 
w1rebaby
16:33 / 14.05.04
Well, hold on - one of the ideas of distributed moderation is that you have to worry less about what you're doing in the context of the board and what people want to see, right? I would advise, if you think it should be locked, move to lock it. If there's mass disagreement, it won't go through.

I don't mind that it was moved to the Switchboard in this instance though, otherwise I might have missed its existence entirely.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:18 / 14.05.04
In the interests of full disclosure - I agreed the move to the Switchboard, nainly becasue I felt it fitted into the historic and political remit of the Switchboard, but also because I felt it could do with a bit of the specific perspective that the Switchboard could offer...
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
11:17 / 15.05.04
Yes, I thought the Switchboard the right place for it... as I said in the thread itself, I still think discussion is the best option... I too thought there's be some debate about the role of anti-semitism in conspiracy theory, but it turned out to be every bit as dumb as the title suggested- it just provided a piece of bullshit to be torn apart by people who actually had an idea what they were talking about. In this case, therefore, discussion was getting nowhere, so I had no problem with the locking.
 
 
miss wonderstarr
22:24 / 06.09.06
Hello everyone; I'm bumping this thread. I don't consider what I'm talking about here to be unequivocal racism, as per the title, but this seemed an appropriate enough place for it.

The post I wanted to flag up was

*


this one, by paranoidwriter.

I'm trying to stay nice, patient, upbeat, light-hearted, warm, postive, and true, yeah?

Well den, right: I started finkin', and I fawt "Yeah, right, I know, I'll find me a silly, happy dance pict-yah, yeah? To post when all dis blows over and the parties kickin' again.." Yeah?... D'ya ged me? Sose anyways, yeah, I typed in "Silly dance" into Google, yeah, and guess what the top result was, blood?...

Nah man, guess...

Seriously, bro. Try it! It's well dark, innit?

An' I'm talking to ALL ma bredrin, yeah? No factions in the community, yeah?


I don't mean to attack or harshly criticise you here, paranoidwriter. I think your intention was just to make a light-hearted joke. I want to just note that my response to this post was... unease and embarrassment, and to maybe discuss why that was, if anyone takes up the thread. If not, that's fine and I will feel I said my piece in the right place.

Why did I feel a measure of unease and embarrassment? Because my impression was that paranoidwriter is a white individual, who doesn't normally talk or write in the dialect represented above; and that the dialect represented above was some attempt at the way a Black person (in London, I would say from my experience) might talk.

I felt unease because I think doing comedy impressions of an ethnic group you don't belong to seems... dodgy territory, clowning and potentially mocking of another group's speech patterns. White people doing impressions of Black (or Asian, or Chinese) people has a particularly racist heritage, I believe.

I also felt a bit embarrassed, the way I might in real life if a white person I knew started doing an impression of someone from another ethnic group in public ~ and because it seemed a pretty ham-fisted impression, a very clumsy way of trying to capture the rhythms and pronunciation of a certain cultural group.

My comment is complicated by the facts that
~ I don't know if paranoidwriter is white, or indeed what ethnic group he identifies as
~ the dialect and accent that I identified as "Black London" is actually (in my experience) not exclusively Black. It has spread to the extent that white people can also be heard talking this way. But I would say its source is in Black communities and culture.

Anyway, as I said, I am not saying "you're a racist, PW!" or even "you've done a racist impression." I thought it was worth noting my feelings though, and seeing if anyone else had a comment on them.


For the record, here was the follow-up:

Me:
I'm almost reluctant to say this as I'm sure was meant as an innocent joke, but ... I kind of cringed at what I assume is an impression of a Black London accent.

[replying to Ganesh] I felt embarrassed by it but not exactly offended...

Alex's Great Aunt:
It's probably best to draw a discreet veil over ... whatever that was; an apology's no doubt forthcoming in any case - why address it elsewhere?

PW:
*Unzips and gasps for air*

I have nothing to apologise for, yet.... Have I?....

Erm... Who have I offended? What accent was that I was employing? What did it sound like to you and why?....

Me:
I think I can answer this one; in fact, I think I already answered it. I said above "I felt embarrassed by it but not exactly offended."

I also said "I kind of cringed at what I assume is an impression of a Black London accent." Why did it sound like that? Because... it... it didn't seem to be a representation of any other accent or dialect I could decipher. Maybe you meant something quite different.
 
  

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