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40%
08:53 / 05.02.04
For the record, I'm not of the opinion that eye colour would be a useful piece of information to show on a person's profile. Measurements, maybe...
 
 
40%
09:48 / 05.02.04
Don't feel dense Matthew. It was a pointless remark. You've not missed any great meaning behind it.

Please excuse the lame FHM-style humour of the above post, folks. I don't appear to be on form this morning.
 
 
40%
10:17 / 05.02.04
And 40%, why not, in your location box, write "Brighton, England, and my penis lives there too"

Just the two of us...We can make it if we tryyyyyy...
 
 
Ex
10:27 / 05.02.04
I suspect that the posters who would use the extra box to reveal their gender would be the posters who were openly gendered in their name/posting style/comments anyway, which would make it a bit pointless on the 'gender' front.

I don't mind giving personal information in specific discussions, when it seems that ommitting it would be insufficiently admitting how embedded in the argument I am, but I wouldn't want most of the info available all the time. It's the difference between locating myself when I find it necessary, and having other people locate me when they feel it's necessary.
So - I might out myself in threads, but I'd lie or obfuscate on a tickbox.

And bloody hell (not at Deva, just a general "bloody hell") anyway, what would "gender" mean in a tickbox system anyway? Felt gender identity? "Read" gender? State of fluffy bits? Gaffer-taping all those together would prove a nightmare, I tell you.

I quite like the idea of a line/box for web pages, or a twenty-word summary of self, but then again, I am quietly thrilled by how far you have to take someone at post value on this board. No extraneous info.

"Brighton, England, and my penis lives there too"

This is genius; but I left my penis on an Edinburgh-London fast train over the Christmas break, what do I put?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
19:45 / 05.02.04
A call in to lost property?

I don't really see the point of a "gender" box, TBH, although an optional box people could fill in if they felt like it would probably not cause too much harm, except to the idea that one might be able to interact with others without the constant unspoken polite interrogative "yes, but what kind of crockery are you packing in the camphor trunk?"

People who really need to express their gender, for reasons relating to the discussion or their personalities, tend to be able to do it in thei rinteraction with the board. In a way, having a gender box (not useful in quite the same way even as a "location" box) seems to be redolent of a desire that gender, and how one decides to represent or express it, should be a question that, even if unanswered, is constantly to be asked.
 
 
Cat Chant
09:00 / 07.02.04
Ooh! Ooh! You know what we should have? A "butch/femme" field! And then we could have a running scorecard - we could build software that could detect every time one poster flipped another, and we could have a huge ranking of all 3367 members from High Butch to High Femme!

And then every year the High Butch and the High Femme would have to have sex, in a thread in the Magick, to ensure the future fertility of Barbelith.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
14:37 / 09.02.04
OMG. Wow.

*sings*

I think I love you, Deva.
But what am I so afraid of?
I'm afraid that I'm not sure of
A gender there's no cure for....

Personally I'd rather find out people's gender *if* they wish to reveal them either explicitly or through suit presentation. Like alot of people here it doesn't feel particularly relevant to know this before/outside of it coming up in context.

That's assuming they know/identify stably in one identifiable gender, of course. Like D, my immediate response is a list of posters who this wouldn't apply to, or to whom wouldn't apply in any meaningful way.

And I'll armwrestle anyone who says different.

(PS, I'll take three air kisses, two to the right, one to the left. )
 
 
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16:00 / 10.02.04
Stuff the fucking profiles, no ones real anyway! Your all figments of your own imaginations! Your all Heamaphrodites!
 
 
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16:21 / 10.02.04
Don't ban me without a warning! Don't piss on my buddha flame by warning me! I'm a long standing member of this board! I'm not psychadelic! I don't dance with demons! My middle name is not ghandi! I own no sandles! This is NOT an ego trip! Don't reverse psychology me! I love this board and will fight to protect it! Don't quote this post!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
18:43 / 10.02.04

Don't ban me without a warning! Don't piss on my buddha flame by warning me! I'm a long standing member of this board! I'm not psychadelic! I don't dance with demons! My middle name is not ghandi! I own no sandles! This is NOT an ego trip! Don't reverse psychology me! I love this board and will fight to protect it! Don't quote this post!


Oops.

Looks like Eon is a more able wizard than I; I can't even summon interest. Try to stay ontopic, Eon.
 
 
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20:06 / 10.02.04
Yeah ok sorry. I have the same problem most of the time, try putting the mad proffessor suit on it usually works for me.
 
  

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