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Illmatic: That wasn't necessarily aimed at your piece above, unless your mentioning American "national pride" was meant to suggest that something similar should be taken up when celebrating the "loads of things [you] love about England. By all means, celebrate the fact that one can now practice whatever religion one likes without being burnt at the stake. Or celebrate tea, if you like.
But I think pride in something which has nothing to do with one's actions is rather misplaced, and that the way to celebrate any of the positive things which may be associated with "Englishness" isn't to go around waving a flag in everyone else's facing, shouting, "Yay, we're so great! And we as a whole being so great makes me so great!"
However, as said, that certainly doesn't mean "continued self-loathing". Why should you personally feel guilty if (sticking to the examples) some English people happen to go around smashing things to pieces and beating each other up every time they go to a football match? But likewise, why should one gain self-worth from the fact that more people in the country in which they live have certain traits than people in most other countries do? If you feel strongly enough about, say, the level of homophobia in our society, then write some letters, raise awareness, do something positive which will give you a reason to feel good about yourself for having done something about the problem, but don't feel guilty just because of its existence. If you feel overjoyed by the progress that gay rights movements have made, then celebrate and enjoy it, but I don't think anyone who hasn't played a part in that really has as right to actually feel proud about it.
Does a positive self image always equal contempt of others? Mmmm... well, no. But the idea that one's self-image should come from associations with where one happened to be born seems a bit suspect. And, arguably, I think perhaps actually intentionally waving one's "greatness" in everyone else's face might well be. |
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