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How do you avoid 'Solipsism'

 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
15:16 / 13.10.03
Solipsism is not exactly what I mean. More like near-terminal-relativism...which I guess is almost the same kind of thing really. What I mean is that I am paralyzed to inaction in life a great deal at the moment through terminal doubt about,well, nearly everything. I just can't really be arsed a lot. My basic, core take on many things (which I don't really like, and only recently identified as being due to this very recently) is 'only in your opinion' or 'only in my opinion'. And I just don't particularly have strong opinions. I mean, for the sake of actually getting up in the morning, and interacting, one tries out ones musings on those one interacts with, but I would never say I really care or believe in any of it, particularly.

This is doing me no favours...er, I 'think'. I don't really care for much of that which is presented to me as being meaningful and worthy and valuable and worhty of cultivation or acquisition or pursuit. And for some reason this is creating a sort of ennui which is interfering in my day tgo day functioning a little, and more than I care for.

Bob Sake, this sounds really fucking Oprah and whingey doesn't it? But I'm interested to know, how do you avoid solipsism? And why should you? Any reading references, further investigations appreciated, as well as your thoughts/feelings.

Apologies if its all a bit angsty-wank.
 
 
nowthink
15:56 / 13.10.03
isn't solipsism where one guy thinks the whole world fits into his head and when he dies the world does too? By the way, angst is a good thing-kurt cobain is a legend because of it. Just be careful, he's dead too. just a thought
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
16:04 / 13.10.03
Yes, hence the qualifier that it's not exactly what I mean...more that what's in my head is mine, and what's in your head is yours, and the 'truth' exists know-where. So your die-hard solipsist might claim that you don't exist.

Or howsabout this one : 'Do you believe in God?'
Answer: 'No, but I doubt very much if She belives in me, either'.

Knowwarrimean?

Hence, giving much of a shit becomes a bit of a moot point. It makes you arrogant and lazy and feckless. And this, by common consent, appears to be A Bad Thing.

Boil it down to the fact that everything is only either in Your Opinion, or in My Opinion. Then add the fact that My Opinion is not really heartfelt or passionate. I just don't fucking care. Certainly not enough to Do Something About It. And this, again, is Bad. Like all these horriblt capital letters for emphasis.

I think relativism inevitably leads to a sort of solipsism. I'm interested in how one can avoid this, you know, philosophically and intellectually and wotnot. Humour me.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
16:06 / 13.10.03
Oh, and what do you mean "He's dead too"? (Italics mine)
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
16:09 / 13.10.03
Sorry, one last thing (at least this way the mods don't have to fart around approving moderations):

I am not a teenager.

Just so we're clear.
 
 
SMS
16:15 / 13.10.03
W.T. Stace on the inescapability of solipsism, despite the fact that the word arouses feelings of loneliness and futility.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
16:28 / 13.10.03
Nice link, I'll check this dude out. Doesn't really help with the question 'How do you avoid solipsism and why should you?' though...
 
 
nowthink
16:39 / 13.10.03
are you sure you're not just a nihilist with a latent xenophobic
streak that will creep up on you whilst waiting in line at the post office and cause you to pull out the jammie and start blastin' fools?
Cause if you are you better tell mummie. Now as for me, I happen to know that I'm alone in this world and I'm OK with that, the world begins and ends when I wake up and go to sleep. Outside of a need for warm, feminine fat and certain vices like liquor and weed I probly (sic) wouldn't give a DAMN geena!
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
16:52 / 13.10.03
Dude, I already said I ain't sure...

Watch yer back buyin' stamps and cashin' your welfare, yo.
 
 
We're The Great Old Ones Now
16:57 / 13.10.03
Solipsism fundamentally makes no difference to how you live. If everything around you is an illusion you cannot penetrate, if there is no way you can detect what is real and what is not, and if the illusion possesses the capacity to make you experience pain and pleasure, then why would you treat it any differently from 'reality' - even assuming that there's a difference between an illusion which is perfect and a reality.

This article talks about reality and simulation, and the second page mentions the following:

If there really were myriad universes, Davies argues, then some would contain advanced technological civilizations that could use computers to simulate consciousness and create endless virtual worlds. So, he continues, taking the multiverse theory at face value means "there is no reason to expect our world—the one in which you are reading this right now—to be real as opposed to a simulation."

It's not that you need a reason to believe the Universe is real - it's that the term 'real' is defined by reference to the Universe you perceive.

Similarly with the kind of relativism which says "this is just my opinion". It's pointless - if you care about something, if you believe it, then you argue for it, work for it, and in extreme cases fight for it. The attempt to link your opinion to some objective truth - rather than to the best available information and understanding - is about fear of taking responsibility for being wrong. We invest huge amounts of time and money, as a society, in making sure we don't have to take individual responsibility for our part in the actions of our societies, ethnic and social groups, and so on. We distribute what you might call 'answerability' and separate it even from the notion of 'responsibility' - so that someone can be 'responsible' for a situation and yet not 'answerable' - as in the case of the MoD, the PM, and Dr. David Kelly.

If your problem is genuinely philsophical, you should be able to get past it. Neither solipsism nor relativism really makes a huge amount of differnce to how we live. If you're just having trouble getting up in the morning, it's probably more to do with what you have to do once you're out of bed. Maybe a lifestyle change is in order.
 
 
nowthink
16:59 / 13.10.03
yo B, I ain't on welfare anymore....that hurt.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
17:30 / 13.10.03
No offence meant, I was being flippant and unnecessary...

Nick, I sort of see what you're saying : Shut up and get on with it, only politely...Or change 'it', then shut up, and get on with it...again, politely.

Fair comment.
 
 
Lurid Archive
17:41 / 13.10.03
The attempt to link your opinion to some objective truth - rather than to the best available information and understanding - is about fear of taking responsibility for being wrong. - Nick

I don't think you can criticise "objectivity" by suggesting "best available information and understanding" as an alternative. To do so just invokes the beast you are seeking to dispel by another name.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
17:48 / 13.10.03
OK, I thought about it a bit, and I see your point that neither relativism nor solipsism make much difference to how we live...but they make a bit more of an impact on why we live surely? Or at least why we live the way we do and care about the things we care about?

And those things boil right down to the utterly selfish from those standpoints surely? All one 'need' be concerned with from a solipsistic or relativistic position is one's own comfort and convenience, surely? Everyone else is just another self important closed system in a sea of self important closed systems, and it is impossible to do 'wrong' or 'right' by anybody but yourself, no?? So get youself sorted and fuck all these other self-absorbed humans who are so self absorbed, they don't even know how self-absorbed they are and keep harping on about 'rights' and 'liberty' and all this other complete bullshit.

Which kind of does impact how we live.

Not sure if this is a very coherent or reasonable conclusion.

And, back to the abstract, how can one counter these positions, and why should it be desirable to do so?
 
 
at the scarwash
18:11 / 13.10.03
Like any faith-based ontology, you ultimately just have to go with what makes you feel right, I think. If the evidence available convinces you that you're a solopsist, then by all means go around raping and pillaging (keep off of my block, if you don't mind), or not getting up in the morning or shaving or eating. You are the king of town, in any case, so who gives a rat's ass what you do? That is, who is there to give a rat's ass. But, if you think that's a lifestyle you wouldn't enjoy, then go ahead and play the consensus reality game as long as it keeps you interested.

Ummm, what Nick said.
 
 
Linus Dunce
18:50 / 13.10.03
Boil it down to the fact that everything is only either in Your Opinion, or in My Opinion.

But that's not a fact, is it? If it was, it would be ... your opinion.

Do you think death is relative?

And I think going "with what makes you feel right" is what got him into this pickle in the first place, isn't it?
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
19:00 / 13.10.03
Not entirely sure how we got to raping and pillaging from comfort and convenience, and I'm really not convinced of fuck all, which I've stated as clearly as possible, but credit where it's due for the advice...I assume the invoice is in the post?

I utterly do not believe that this exchange is some figment of my omnipotent imagination, and that I have invented you to satisfy some sick, smug, masochistic fantasy. I'm just curious to hear how anyone who holds a relativistic model of reality/morality/ethics/conduct etc. avoids a slide into solipsism...and (yawn) why that 'slide' needs to be avoided...Oh, right, the raping and pillaging....

So far, the best counter position (wrong term, but whatever) seems to be : It doesn't make any difference. Get on with it, whatever it is. Concur with the status quo, make up your own quo, fucking kill yourself. Whatever.

Surely there's more to life than pondering it's meaning, eh?
 
 
nowthink
19:07 / 13.10.03
cause and effect states that every action blah blah blah
what my man seems to be struggling with is inaction,
which in and of itself, seems pretty innocuous but is still an action-ergo;'I don't know what I want so I don't care and you shouldn't either' will still affect others because dear old mum and dad certainly don't want their pride and joy moping around the bedroom mumbling about the meaning of life and not doing anything with his life.

solipsism ultimately is a pretty selfish attitude..

imho, only rich kids with time on their hands and no sex life have this attitude..
And, back to the abstract, how can one counter these positions, and why should it be desirable to do so?
1. get laid
2.because if you don't, osama bin laden will blow up your home while you sit on the pot, deciding whether to squeeze out that last turd or continue reading the fucking robb report...
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
19:10 / 13.10.03
OK, Ignatius, substitute every sloppy use of the term 'fact' from that paragraph, and substitute it for 'opinion' - doesn't make any real difference for what I was trying to get across...actually makes it more what I meant, even.

Do you think death is relative?

Since I've never died, as far as I can remeber, it would the most bone idle conjecture for me to say...if it isn't then what is it : fixed/unitary/absolute? I couldn't possibly say.

What do you think? Why is that relevant?
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
19:22 / 13.10.03
Touche with the ad hominem nowthink, bravo! Is this cos I made a crack about welfare checks when you mentioned going blitzkrieg in a post-office?

That was a joke, dude. For which I apologised.

I don't really know where to start in dissecting your slightly deranged and paranoid response, but I don't get the impression that your o is especially h, im. Shall we just leave it at that?

See, now we're back to you, me and our o's aren't we? No need for name calling and imaginative supossitions as to each others procreative antics, or marital status, or social standing or wealth, or constipation or any of that baggage. You're a solipsist at heart, yourself, you cuddly old so-and-so!

My comiserations about your new Governor, btw.
 
 
nowthink
20:01 / 13.10.03
it's all good bra-
we still in there like swimwear

yeah, I'm hoping the guv don't fuck shit up too bad, oh well..

I wonder If he's a solipsist too?
 
 
eeoam
22:24 / 13.10.03
Money $hot,
check this out .
 
 
Linus Dunce
22:37 / 13.10.03
Do you think death is relative?

Since I've never died, as far as I can remeber, it would the most bone idle conjecture for me to say...if it isn't then what is it : fixed/unitary/absolute? I couldn't possibly say.


So you're going to avoid being bone idle by ... :-)

OK, so do you think death, your death for instance, would be matter of opinion?
 
 
We're The Great Old Ones Now
23:35 / 13.10.03
Lurid:

I don't think you can criticise "objectivity" by suggesting "best available information and understanding" as an alternative.

I ain't. I'm saying that the attempt to gain knowledge of objective truth and base your actions on it - especially when it's objective ethical truth, be that consequential or absolute - is infintely regressive. When you've accepted that you won't know, you just pick a time t when you have to make a decision based on what you have. Since M$'s ostensible problem is that ze has already accepted that ze won't know the truth, the rest just follows on along...

M$:

I see your point that neither relativism nor solipsism make much difference to how we live...but they make a bit more of an impact on why we live surely? Or at least why we live the way we do and care about the things we care about?

It seems to me that you're looking for some kind of guide to living derived from ontology - or rather, it's reverse: from not knowing What Is. I don't think it's there. I believe that it's all and always about what you can do with the incomplete knowledge you have. Can you be absolutely certain that people you interact with are not parts of yourself? No. But you perceive yourself as distinct from them, and they appear to respond in that way. You can only continue in that way until and unless contrary evidence presents itself. You have no particular evidence to doubt your perception of the world, you just recognise that it is not certain.

And those things boil right down to the utterly selfish from those standpoints surely? All one 'need' be concerned with from a solipsistic or relativistic position is one's own comfort and convenience, surely?

Whether the world is objectively real or not has no bearing on its internal mechanisms. It will respond in the same way whether it's a genuine physical place or a myth projected into your mind as your living brain sits in a vat on my sitting room, admired by my friends as an artwork. So you can expect the same results from it; if you're selfish, people will yell at you, dump you, arrest you, or make you a CEO, depending on how you exhibit it.

Everyone else is just another self important closed system in a sea of self important closed systems, and it is impossible to do 'wrong' or 'right' by anybody but yourself, no??

Well, at that point you're leaving Solipsism, where you're the only person who really exists, and heading towards relativism-as-amoralism, I suppose. There's nothing that says your system of ethics has to be selfish, once you accept that others exist in some form. That you may seek to help others to gratify yourself may or may not be important... it's a long argument. Since there are other people, and we can communicate with them, we have the possibility of sharing views and intersubjective moral truths and cultural norms and so on. My earlier point stands - just because there's no Platonic Right & Wrong doesn't mean that I can't stand up and object to something on moral grounds - it just means I have to be prepared to accept that I'm asserting something as a good, and that decision rests with me, not with God or with something I can put my hand on to back me up.

Incidentally, I was never saying 'get off yer ass'. It was more like 'I've been there, it's a pretty empty place'. I think these are fine questions - even vital ones - but they should not paralyse your life.
 
 
SMS
00:23 / 14.10.03
And why should you avoid solipsism?

Because philosophy is a kind of search for knowledge, and, if solipsism is true, then it seems to put a very significant constraint on what we can know. Certainly, Stace is right that, if solipsism is true, we need to accept it, but If it is not and we can figure out how to get around it, we may have discovered a very powerful tool for finding all sorts of things.

How do you avoid solipsism

I once heard a lecture by Michael Huemer on Direct Realism. He "defend[s] an epistemological principle according to which the circumstance of its seeming to S as if P constitutes prima facie justification for S to believe that P. As a result, we are prima facie justified in believing propositions that are entailed by the contents of our experiences." This is from his dissertation. I'm afraid I haven't read it, but I think he defends that part in chapter four if you want to follow the link.
 
 
Lurid Archive
00:23 / 14.10.03
wow. I think I agreed with all of that, Nick. Sorry, not very constructive, but I thought I'd speak up whilst *not* disagreeing with you for a change.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
07:47 / 14.10.03
Some fine and helpful posts here, I'm gonna have to follow some links and absorb a bit of this b4 I can respond...work's a bit manic today, and I've temporarily lost my home dialup so thanks to all and sundry, back when I can...

:-)
 
 
Quantum
08:51 / 14.10.03
I'm just curious to hear how anyone who holds a relativistic model of reality/morality/ethics/conduct etc. avoids a slide into solipsism
I volunteer. I passionately hold a subjectivist model of everything, and have wrestled with exactly this problem.
The answer (IMO ) is to go all the way, to embrace the absolute realativity, and see where it takes you. If you end up at solipsism and decide you're just a brain in a jar, then what? You either slip into motivationless apathy and end up in an asylum or on the street (in our computer generated reality) or take the illusion on it's own terms- if it's all equally unreal, it's all equally real. Once you have decided it's all an illusion, it doesn't go away- it's a consistent and durable illusion you're trapped in, so you might as well make the best of it. That pretty much consists of living normal life.
If 'there is no spoon' then moral truths like 'be excellent to each other' are as real as my hat.

Beyond the philosophy though, do you really think worrying about solipsism is causing the demotivation? Or is it possible you're feeling the ennui and the solipsism is an effect..

So I guess I agree with those above How do you avoid solipsism? And why should you?- you can't and you shouldn't, it in fact gives you a paradoxically freer perspective.
 
 
Scrambled Password Bogus Email
11:21 / 13.05.05
Thanks to a post in the COnversation I was motivated to dig this thread out, and it reminded me just why this can be such a good board sometimes.

Wise folks. Thanks. I've moved on a lot since this was posted, and find the advice given here was absolutely splendid.

Nice one, Barbelith.
 
 
Seth
16:11 / 13.05.05
I'm just curious to hear how anyone who holds a relativistic model of reality/morality/ethics/conduct etc. avoids a slide into solipsism

The way I do this is by paying attention to the admittedly questionable evidence of my senses. It seems to me that I am one of six billion people, all of whom have their own subjective experience, and I do my best to notice and work with how everyone's subjectivity interacts.

I guess my bullet-point answer is that I balance an awareness of my own little world with trying to notice what I perceive to be everyone else' little world. Even if it's all in my head life seems to play out better that way.
 
 
andrew cooke
01:13 / 16.05.05
i think it comes down to: do you really think everything is relative? are you really unable to rank anything? are you really surprised to see the sun rise every morning? do you really think as much about picking your nose as killing someone?

i suspect you don't.

so why are you even asking the question? because, i would guess, you can't find a strong logical framework that will let you defend things you feel/believe/know working from simple axioms that you find consistent.

so what? the world is complicated. why do you expect to find a self-consistent explanation for everything?

in other words, accept that you can't explain everything and, consequently, stop trying to force your world view into one that is over-simplistic. there's nothing wrong with thinking straight, but it's somewhat optimistic/arrogant to think that you're the person who's going to explain everything in the world consistently.

acknowledge that many (most, all?) the important things in life are outside your complete understanding. find the best heuristics you can.

reminds me of this
 
 
Chiropteran
18:00 / 16.05.05
Money $hot, it's interesting to go back and re-read this in light of your recent (very moving) accounts of your experiences with Santo Daime. As you say, it's a reminder of why Barbelith can be such a great place.
 
  
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