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I've moderated online communities for a variety of specific groups with high levels of instant identification (beagle-lovers, gays and lesbians, recovering alcoholics, clinical anti-socials). I find the de-individuation or disindividuation or anonymity -- let's call it what it is -- the fortress of distance -- to be a life-enhancing experience for a lot of people. Unfortunately, trolls, as I've covered in an article called "How American Message Boards Encourage Violent Stupidity," fit the mold already pointed out: expression without consequence. The opposite end of the spectrum, however, is the lonely girl or boy, man or woman, stuck on the Isle of Man or in Iowa who has little social recourse, for whatever reason, but that found online. I think this leads to an unintended aggressiveness (typing in all caps when s/he thinks no one is "listening," getting outrageous with language, or over the top with humor, or, as slinkyvagabond alludes, revealing more information than many people want to read) that is tempered, quite often, by a face-to-face meeting.
In the summer of 1997, I organized a group of board moderators for a meeting in Paris. Moderators came from Denmark, Australia, America, Mexico, Fiji, New Zealand, Indonesia, Japan, England, and, yup, the Isle of Man. Within this group were some of the most provocative online communicators I have ever met, ranging from the hilariously lewd to the buttoned-up and implacably self-righteous. Bereft of our computers, we spent an entire day trying to figure out how to communicate with each other -- after 15 months of sweating together to build our online community. I can't think of a more humbling experience, and it's really informed the way I communicate with others online ever since.
I am sometimes too forward with complete strangers (online), humorously alluding to affection or non-sexual groping in a way that has drawn surprisingly vitriolic attacks from people I would have thought didn't care, or would welcome my cheekiness.
In my article, I recount, in agonizing detail, how, particularly on political boards, people who would NEVER voice their opinions in offline life are usually the most venal and violent online. They are also the ones who almost never understand a deserved or undeserved counter-attack, and bring all their insecurities to life in ASCII. I believe that for some trolls, blathering hostilely online is a pathological game. Or a lack of diplomacy or a complete insensitivity to the power of the written word is at work. For the truly mean, soul-shrivelled trolls, I can't vouch. Stupid trolls aside, the eloquence of some haters is frightening, creating a climate of doubt or discomfort that far exceeds its oral analog (since all inflection and emphasis relies more on the reader's perspective than the writer's).
Sexual aggression? By that, do you mean unbridled sexual openness, which is not necessarily a bad thing, although it may be inappropriate or ill-timed. Or do you mean attacks of a sexual nature?
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