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The Return Of Rothkoid
21:07 / 26.11.02
Oh, and Palace's "New Partner". Fucking hell.
 
 
lentil
09:20 / 27.11.02
"Naive Melody (This Must be the Place)" by Talking Heads. The most beautiful love song.

"Home is where I want to be
But I guess I'm already there
I come home, she lifted up her wings
I guess that this must be the place.
I can't tell one from another
Did I find you or you find me?
There was a time, before we were born
If someone asks this is where I'll be (where I'll be)
Oh - oh, we drift in and out
Oh - oh, sing into my mouth
Out of all those kinds of people
You've got a face with a view
I'm just an animal looking for a home and
Share the same space for a minute or two
And then you love me till my heart stops
Love me till I'm dead
"

Shit, I didn't mean to write out that much of the lyric. I've boldfaced the bit that rilly rily gets me, because i hardly ever read the whole thing on the "Lyrics of Your Life" thread. It's the way David Byrne's voice seems to simultaneously sweep and break on "love me till my heart stops". I was welling up just typing it. Also the whole "animal" thing - for me that perfectly sums up the experience of falling in love. There you are, meeting a nice person and whatever, before you know it this fucking LOVE thing has appeared. *sniffle*
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
14:33 / 27.11.02
wow, thinking on Talking Heads, 'Heaven' gets me every single time I hear it:

When this kiss is over it will start again.
It will not be any different, it will be exactly
the same.
It's hard to imagine that nothing at all
could be so exciting, could be so much fun.

Heaven is a place where nothing every happens.
Heaven is a place where nothing every happens.


It's partly the words, partly the sparseness of the arrangement (especially on the 'stop making sense' version - gorgeous harmonies, as well as they way DB sings...) eep.

The Chrissie Hynde cover of 'Angel of the Morning': it's just so beautiful.

Orbital's 'the girl with the sun in her head' also gets me feeling all wobbly...
 
 
The Natural Way
15:00 / 27.11.02
Wild Life gets me every time, because it's so bloody ecstatic.

Doesn't make me sad, though.
 
 
grant
15:23 / 27.11.02
I like singing "Heaven" myself, with just me and an electric guitar.

The thing I like best about it is that there's this unusually potent sense of backstory to it - like he's somehow reached this point where heaven would be a place where one just sits and waits and is safe from all the stuff OUT THERE. There's also something Buddhist about it, too, with images of cycles stopping and the wheel going around and around and around.

That's a good one.

I dreamed of this one last night though: The wordless bit in the Beatles "A Day in the Life," right after Paul "fell into a dream" and John just starts howling like an army of angels.

It's just four chords, repeated twice. Gets me every time.
 
 
lentil
15:30 / 27.11.02
Orbital's 'the girl with the sun in her head' also gets me feeling all wobbly...

Deffo mate!

Quite soon after it had come out I was playing it for a friend, we were both tripping and I was attempting to describe to him the gorgeous moment when the "sun rises" in the track - you know, near the start, the first appearance of those chords, before the beats or anything - when he asked me "so when does this wondeful moment occur?" and i realised that I'd actually talked over the entire track. Damn those drugs and their propensity toward the manifestation of entirely unnecessary and undoubtedly inaccurate locquaciousness.
 
 
suds
16:13 / 27.11.02
i always cry over "keep on livin" by le tigre because it reminds me of bad times and how strong i am and how fucking cool jd is.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:22 / 27.11.02
MC.

That's tres funny; am always doing things like that. 'but just listen, the really good bit's coming up any minute now, and then you'll really thank me... oops'

The tune doesn't make me sad, but it does overwhelm me (which makes me teary) with with the intensity of the emotions, as does so much of Nick Drake's stuff, espesh: Cello Song, Fruit Tree, At the Chime of City Clock and Time Of No Reply.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
16:24 / 27.11.02
I like this long and miserabilist list.

To which I must add Tiny Dancer. I know, I know, but Madman Across The Water was a great album.
 
 
The Strobe
16:30 / 27.11.02
Waltz #2 (XO) by Elliott Smith, some of the third Eels album certainly (It's a motherfucker is a prime candidate), and Coldplay's The Scientist are prime candidates. Sometimes I just cannot cope with the Coldplay being on the air all the fricking time.

Oh, and if I'm pissed and miserable enough, and the conditions are right... Take That's Back for Good suddenly turns into the most poignant song in the world. Frick.
 
 
Laughing
17:25 / 27.11.02
The Magnetic Fields' "The Book of Love" brings a sting to my eyes every damn time.

And "Candles in the Rain", an oldie from Melanie (I think). That one gives me chills and makes me weepy at the same time, which I just can't handle.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
22:24 / 27.11.02
Melanie Safka indeed. Come and join the fan club Cherry Bomb and I have formed! Myself, I find "In my mind, I'm gone to Carolina..." nearest to eye-watering.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
10:36 / 28.11.02
Props to Rothkoid for mentioning 'I See A Darkness'. That song is bleak perfection: the battle between hope and despair is continous, and , as Jack Fear says about 'Downtown', that's what makes it so affecting. It starts off with a quiet, possibly drunken confession about how much the narrator cares for his unnamed drinking partner, and in fact for everyone else - "you know I have a love, a love for everyone I know" - but there are Bad Things coming, and the big question is, can they get through it? Ultimately there's just enough hope in the song, I think, for it to be uplifting, in that kind of oddly cleansing way that comes after gazing into the abyss (melodramatic music critic ahoy!). It's always darkest before dawn.

Other nominations: lots of Tindersticks stuff, particularly off Curtains, particularly 'Dancing' and 'Walking'.

Plus Mobb Deep's 'Streets Raised Me', which might be because I was coming up when I heard it first, but not necessarily. Listen to it late at night, in a big, strange city, and you will feel its power...

"Why'd you have to raise me this way?
I'm surprised we alive today
But how long only time can say
Forever you're a part of me..."
 
 
Bear
10:57 / 28.11.02
I thought for one horrible second Flyboy said that Moby made him cry

Georgia on my Mind always gets me but that's only because of that episode of Quantum Leap!
 
 
The Natural Way
11:01 / 28.11.02
Speaking of HipHop, I was strangely moved by Tupac's version of 'That's Just the Way it is" (to the point of feeling really tearful) t'other day: that bit (can't remember the lyrics now) about how he still had to watch his back because of some stupid, violent thing he did years ago to some guy he can't remember... Just awful - the idea of never being able to escape that stuff... And, of course, it just segues into the chorus 'That's just the way it is'.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:37 / 28.11.02
Ah, you mean 'Changes'. Yeah, that's strangely affecting.

Moby does make me cry, bear. Tears of anguish. Tears of embarrassment. Tears of rage.

"Heal the world. By buying a big car."
 
 
Kit-Cat Club
14:50 / 28.11.02
Other nominations: lots of Tindersticks stuff, particularly off Curtains, particularly 'Dancing' and 'Walking'.

Oh dear, yes, but for me the killer is 'Let's Pretend' on that record. Also Nick Cave's 'I let love in'.
 
 
ephemerat
16:09 / 28.11.02
Um, more votes for the Tindersticks, most prominently 'Dancing' and 'Don't Look Down', but pretty much any song off 'Curtains':

"So, take me home tonight
Turn out the light
You're just alone in the dark"


Also backing Cave, Waits and the Dirty Three's 'Everything's Fucked'.

Absolute killer song for me 'The Last Time I Saw Richard' by Joni Mitchell.
 
 
jeff
22:52 / 28.11.02
Starless and Bible Black, from King Crimson's Red album. Gets me every time.

Sundown dazzling day
Gold through my eyes
But my eyes turned within only see
Starless and Bible Black

Old friend charity
Cruel twisted smile
And the smile signals emptiness for me
Starless and Bible Black

Ice blue silver sky
Fades into grey
To a grey hope that all yearns to be
Starless and Bible Black.

....
 
 
wonderful wino
08:09 / 29.11.02
Roland Kirk's "the Inflated Tear". 1967 (whole album)
Many Tom Waits songs, like "A Little Rain", whew...

Bawled for a half hour straight to "Love Boat Captain" off the new Pearl Jam.
Nina Simone almost set me off last night.

I's pretty drunk for the last two.

What a great list! I mean for reference any way... you guys are great...aww shit here we go again
 
 
captain piss
12:22 / 29.11.02
Dead Can Dance's 'Solvean' is one i've been getting dewy-eyed to recently- a kind of mournful, epic orchestral number, with a sense of tragedy or foreboding or something lurking behind it (well, to me).
And i also find Husker Du's Mary Tyler Moore theme tugs the old heart strings in a good way.
Tindersticks- oh yes
One or two Japan songs, like 'Ghosts of my life' get me goin a bit as well
 
 
Saint Keggers
16:03 / 29.11.02
These sort of fit into that category..not so bad as to break down and cry unless I've been drinking.

Mazy Starr: Fade Into You
The Beatles: Fool On A Hill
Cat Stevens: Wild World
Crash Test Dummies: Superman
Tradgically Hip: Fiddle's Green
Hootie and The BLowfish: Let Her Cry & Hold my hand
 
 
Strange Machine Vs The Virus with Shoes
22:09 / 29.11.02
'A bridge over troubled water' by Simon & Garfunkel and Bright Eyes by Garfunkel always set me off.

'All that I got is you' by Ghostface Killah is a real tear jerker. 'Jesus don’t want me for a sunbeam' from Nirvana unplugged is another.
 
 
rizla mission
14:05 / 30.11.02

Moby does make me cry, bear. Tears of anguish. Tears of embarrassment. Tears of rage.

He elicits tears (and possibly howls) of pure animal repulsion..

Whilst it haven't actually made me weep, I'm findding a lot of the songs on the Flaming Lips 'Day they Shot a Hole in the Jesus Egg' reissue pretty moving .. we're familiar with how beautiful more recent 'Lips stuff is, which makes it all the more affecting to hear Wayne Coyne howl choruses like "She's gone mad again, and everything is fucked!" over layers of splintering feedback..
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
14:29 / 02.12.02
Gawd, have been hiding from the Tindersticks for ages, but can a feel a moment coming on now

The Second Album is guaranteed to have me in a mess, especially
'Travelling Light' and 'Sleep Song.' 'City Sickness' is probably my all-time Tindersticks weepie though.

I also find The Carpenters really weep-inducing: 'We've Only Just Begun', 'Yesterday once more', 'Rainy days and mondays', and of course:

"And solitaire's the only game in town
And every road that takes him
Takes him down
And by himself it's easy to pretend
He'll never love again

And keeping to himself
He plays the game
Without her love
It always ends the same
While life goes on around him everywhere
He's playing solitaire"


And while I'm on a Bacharach/David's kick, 'I'll never fall in love again' in pretty much any version, but the Dionne Warwick and Carpenters versions get me pretty wobbly.
 
 
gridley
20:06 / 03.12.02
Kegboy, I'm right there crying with you on "Fool on the Hill." "Nowhere Man" as well. For most of my life, I thought John was just making fun of the Nowhere Man. Then a few years ago, I realized the compassion in the lyrics and identification with him, and now it's quite the eyeblotter.

I lost it a few times lately listening to "Perfect" by Maureen Ord (located on the Crazy/Beautiful soundtrack) because I decided it was about a girl who's lover had commmitted suicide and I started imagining me and my girlfriend into the story of the song.

Then there's this song called "Don't Look Now" by the Williams Brothers (from Harmony Hotel) that just makes me weep like a mother fucker if I listen to it, so I have to be careful. I think I subconsciously associate it with a friend who died around that time, but it's more than just that...
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:01 / 04.12.02
And while I'm on the Manics kick, 4st 7lb never fails:

Days since I last pissed
Cheeks sunken and despaired
So gorgeous sunk to six stone
Lose my only remaining home

See my third rib appear
A week later all my flesh disappears
Stretching taut, cling-film on bone
I'm getting better

[...]

I want to walk in the snow
And not leave a footprint
I want to walk in the snow
And not soil its purity


Taking beautiful images and placing them in chilling contexts is something the Manics do really well.

Ulp.

Another guaranteed weepy is Michael Nyman's soundtrack to 'Wonderland'... sweeping strings, images of the film always leap to mind... I dissolve into tears.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
16:27 / 04.12.02
'This Is Yesterday' is the Manics track that makes me want to cry (although I never do): the still small voice in the middle of The Holy Bible's storm, it's utterly devastating.

"Someone somewhere soon will take care of you,
I repent, I'm sorry, everything is falling apart..."

That was a Nicky Wire song as well. Tsk.

Anyway, the rest of the album tends to make me want to smash up cars with my bare hands and then set myself on fire rather than actually cry...
 
 
Spatula Clarke
11:06 / 05.12.02
How did this thread get to two pages without Nick Drake being mentioned? Northern Sky, people, Northern Sky.

I never felt magic crazy as this
I never saw moons knew the meaning of the sea
I never held emotion in the palm of my hand
Or felt sweet breezes in the top of a tree
But now you're here
Brighten my northern sky.


Understated jubilation is a beautiful thing. That kind of lovelorn optimism gets me in a place that overly miserable tracks can't touch.

And... where's Gram? Eh? $1000 Wedding, Love Hurts, the Burritos' take on Wild Horses...

Part of the Redding thing is listening to the songs with the full weight of history behind them... that's part of the reason why Dock of the Bay hits so hard, and it's a similar effect to Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terell's You're All I Need to Get By. It's impossible for me to separate the songs from the events surrounding them.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
13:39 / 05.12.02
V. good point. Strange Fruit has already been mentioned, and alot of Billie Holliday/Otis Redding/Marvin Gaye, while emotive enough anyway, has this added impact for me... Strange Fruit, in particular, sends shivers down my spine...

Oh and Randy, think you'll find I mentioned Cello Song in the third post of the thread.

But if you want 'smore, come outside...or rather:

(from Fruit Tree)

Life is but a memory
Happened long ago.
Theatre full of sadness
For a long forgotten show.
Seems so easy
Just to let it go on by
Till you stop and wonder
Why you never wondered why.
 
 
Murray Hamhandler
15:16 / 06.12.02
Oh geez... "To Zion", Lauryn Hill. I wish I'd remembered that before I started listening to it just now, in a public computer lab...
 
 
Spatula Clarke
17:56 / 06.12.02
Oh and Randy, think you'll find I mentioned Cello Song in the third post of the thread.

Damn my eyes. It's just as well I don't moderate this forum or anything. Yes.
 
 
agapanthus
19:28 / 06.12.02
Waits' 'Johnsburg, Illinois'from Swordfish Trombones.

Was my only true love/ she's all that I think of
Look here in my wallet/ that's her
She grew up on a farm/ there's a place on my arm
Where I've written, her name next to mine

You see I just can't live without her
And I'm her only boy
She grew up outside McHenry
In Johnsburg, Illinois.

Petula Clark's 'Happy Heart', must rival 'Downtown' for swinging sixties joy through pain.

Emmylou Harris & Buddy Miller's take on the old Gram Parsons' cover 'Love Hurts':
Some fools dream of happiness, blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves I guess
But their not fooling me
I know it isn't true/ know it isn't true
Love is just a lie/ made to make you blue
Love hurts . . .

Jimmy Webb singing 'Galveston', Levon Helm and the Band doing 'The night they drove ol' Dixie down', and John Cale's 'Close Watch' and 'Damn Life' from 'Music for a new Society'. Tearjerkers all.
 
 
Jack Fear
19:38 / 06.12.02
I dunno... Music For A New Society always makes my flesh crawl, rather than giving me the weeps. Except for "The Chinese Envoy," of course, which is a wonderfully, terribly sad song.
 
 
The Return Of Rothkoid
20:43 / 06.12.02
For some reason, "Big Rock Candy Mountain" always strikes me as terribly sad, too...
 
  

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