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How to Cheer Yourself Up in A Relatively New City with Next to No Money

 
 
Cherry Bomb
16:11 / 06.11.02
I don't want to write a "boohoo I'm depressed" thread again 'cuz I've all ready written a thread like that. Instead I thought I'd try positivity. So... any ideas on how to cheer oneself up in a relatively new city with next to no money? All will be appreciated. Gracias!
 
 
Our Lady of The Two Towers
16:14 / 06.11.02
Find out where the free entrance museums and art galleries are?
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:14 / 06.11.02
run around taking pictures of cool and interesting people/places/things.

wait till you ahve some cash, develop, and use as postcards for friends... you get to get in contact with people and realise how the city you're in will look to your friends back home....

and your friends will love you..
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:16 / 06.11.02
send off for tix to free comedy shows - a free night out...
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:17 / 06.11.02
more free comedy
 
 
Persephone
16:39 / 06.11.02
The Late Shift thread has a very congenial atmosphere.

Otherwise I'd say... stay warm, cold makes me sad for some reason. Wear a hat! Also I tend to rely rather heavily on high-starch foods in wintertime... I can send you my recipe for bolognese sauce, if you're not a vegetarian?
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
16:47 / 06.11.02
Yep - eating well always cheers me up... and good food can often be very cheap to make...

*whoops* Oh look there's a new gastronomicon thead - this dahl recipe is like natural prozac!
 
 
Lilith Myth
17:17 / 06.11.02
It's the time-money trade-off. Here's stuff I'd think about:

1 I used to be a hair model at the Vidal Sassoon Academy (no idea if they still do this)... you sit around for a couple of hours, but get an uber-trendy haircut for not that much money. http://www.vidalsassoon.co.uk/vidal.html

2
 
 
Mourne Kransky
17:18 / 06.11.02
We are in the same boat at the moment, Oh Effervescent Fruity One, which is why we haven't had the pleasure of a night on the piss with you for so-o-o long. Here are my top tips for indigent expats:

I am
[ 1. ] reading lots (Peter Ackroyd's "Biography" of London is filling my head with useful historical colour and trivia and, when I tire of that, there are umpteen places practically giving away battered but intriguing old paperbacks),
[ 2. ] walking lots about this excellent new city and looking at everything (all the way along one embankment last weekend, then all the way back along the other, how can they be of different lengths?),
[ 3. ] seeing lovely stuff for free in Tates Modern and Britain, NPG and National Gallery,
[ 4. ] cooking lots of cheap and cheerful meals for me and Babar the Elephant (hitting the supermarket after 5pm is good for picking up the fresh stuff cheap - and it's amazing how many ways you can disguise a couple of potatoes, a lump of retired Cheddar, and a tin of own-brand baked beans...)
[ 5. ] surfing serendipitously for hours,
[ 6. ] window shopping so that when I do have some spare cash, I will know exactly where to find the beautiful things I desire at miserly prices,
[ 7. ] reading all the (ridiculously over-priced) magazines for nothing in Waterstones,
[ 8. ] listening to reliable old Radio 4,
[ 9. ] worrying about a wet November breaching the bulwark of the Thames Flood Barrier, and
[ 10. ] inventing ways to rejuvenate my Struwwelpeter hair when I can't afford to get all the grey cut off. I'm thinking Maominstoat pink next.

We need to think of cheap things to do together!
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
17:21 / 06.11.02
o, 'nother thing is to talk to nice people. ring friends etc..

I'll be at home in about an 1hr if you fancy a chat...
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
17:26 / 06.11.02
oh, and on the cheap food front - shopp;ing at supermakets int he last hour before they close is a good (am abnout to go and do!) as lots of the flashy tasty fresh stuff (reaaly good bread, for eg) is reduced to bargain point...

take care hon.
 
 
Kit-Cat Club
17:33 / 06.11.02
Get your mates to come out with you and buy you beer and give you hugs. Just say the word - need about four hours' notice, but apart from that...
 
 
Lilith Myth
17:36 / 06.11.02
If it's the old time-money trade-off, then I'd suggest:

1 getting your hair cut as a model at the Vidal Sassoon Academy. You have to hang around for a while, but you get an uber-trendy haircut for not much money

2 if you don't mind getting up at the crack of dawn, or indeed, not going to bed, Bermondsey Market is a fabulous experience... get there from around 4am, rummage around for a few hours. Take a torch. You don't even have to buy anything to have a good time. It's one of the oldest markets in London, based on the legal principle of "market ouvert". New Caledonian flower market is really near, too.
http://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g186338-d188880-Reviews-Bermondsey_Market-London_England.html

3 my personal favourite of free musuems, is the Wallace Collection (http://www.the-wallace-collection.org.uk/), Manchester Square, just behind Baker Street. Private collection of fine art that's now a national museum

4 recently, I've been specialising in the Seven Quid Kilburn-esqe special, and would recommend The Crescent Tandoori (47 Cricklewood Broadway), Small & Beautiful Cafe (by Brondesbury British Rail), and The Little Bay (by Kilburn High Road station). Obviously these places aren't that close to you, but should you be in my neck of the woods, I'd be delighted to hang out.

5 no idea if you're a typography fiend, but I've always fancied doing this Public Lettering walk (probably when the weather's a bit better) http://www.publiclettering.org.uk/

6 I have been called twice in the last week by mobile phone companies wanting me to be in a focus group - 2 hours for eighty quid. I wonder if there's a way you can get in with market research companies?

Just realised that this is some suggestions, some other stuff. Anyway.
 
 
Perfect Tommy
18:40 / 06.11.02
Getting a new library card and getting all free-associative for a few hours in a maze of books never fails to cheer me up.
 
 
Cherry Bomb
20:43 / 06.11.02
Hmm, these are all great ideas, I must say! Who's up for a tour of the John Soanes?? I'm DEFINITELY going for the free haircut! YES YES YES!!

All poor people in London and on Barbelith, please contact me.

Keep the ideas comin' folks!
 
 
Seth
21:12 / 06.11.02
On the library card front, it can also be a source of mucho cheap music. Stock up on your classical and jazz, that kinda thing. Kinda takes me uncomfortably close to pirate territory...

Save money during the summer, when you can just sit in the park with cheapo offy beer and rollies. Stock up cash for the winter (erm... not much use now, of course).
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
05:17 / 08.11.02
I can spend hours getting lost (literally) in the British Museum. It's ace.

Drinking cheap beer's always good, too. And reading, writing, and listening to the radio. (Fuck TV- it's poo.)
 
 
pointless and uncalled for
08:55 / 08.11.02
You could always while away some time designing and spreading Stencilgraf goodness across the fair city.
 
 
jUne, a sunshiny month
09:05 / 08.11.02
- go into some big huge commercial library chain, sit somewhere with a selection of everything that you wonder how it is. you read quietly, in the middle of other people in some quite similar situation (done it for you while sleeping in the street in my bad bad bad years)
- do some walk around, with your eyes permanently looking for the roof : always things to see that we miss when looking in front of us. (done it for you while art classes, amazing and suprising experience sometimes)
- markets. look at people in markets. it's sociology at its best, plus you probably can have some conversation with some nearly forgotten uncle raspberry of your family, somewhere.
- and make plans about all the nice things you'll got to do when you'll got money in your pockets !
us subjects of this consummation society loves to think about how we'll spend our money, uh ?
 
 
Shortfatdyke
13:31 / 08.11.02
I've been reading this thread for hints, too! Not that I'm depressed. Or in a city. There's one art shop in this village and the paintings are terrible! But St Ives has a load of places to wander around. London has more for free - go to the Photographers' Gallery, just off Charing X Road, the British Museum is lovely (just the building alone is worth going to). Beg/borrow or steal a great book, settle down in a nice coffeebar and stay there all day, reading and writing letters.
 
 
Persephone
14:07 / 08.11.02
I can spend hours getting lost (literally) in the British Museum. It's ace.

Funny story. When Husb was in grad school, we stayed for three weeks in London (as you may know). Although he was not Husb at the time, he was Boyf. Anyway he had reading privileges in the library at the British Museum, so he would go read in the library all morning; I would stay in the flat writing the outline to my novel and go to meet him at the museum at lunchtime. Sometimes he would be absorbed in his reading, so I could be waiting for a while and walking about looking at the Rosetta Stone and the stuff they have around there; but after about two weeks, I ran out of amusements and told him to please pay attention to the time. He was apologetic but a bit bemused about how I could get bored of the British Museum in just two weeks. Well I've seen everything --the Rosetta Stone, blah-blah. But what about the rest of the museum? What rest of the museum? The rest of the museum through the door at the end of the room with the Rosetta Stone. There's something through the door??
 
 
Cherry Bomb
08:30 / 09.11.02
Heh. I'm feeling better, though still horrifyingly financially destitute, (all those rich benefactors out there, get in touch!), and also hungry thanks to the wonderful comfort food thread! Gracias!
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
17:21 / 09.11.02
What Potus said. Stencils are good. One of my junior sibs saw Bob in a few places round London and is now supplementing his Pokemon Demonology with a healthy dose of Discordianism.

Or you could make stickers.
 
 
Char Aina
20:32 / 09.11.02
i love the idea of being lost in a new city. but in a city.

at the moment i am back to living with my dad...well, i say back, but this is really the first time since the parental split. thats a conversation for another time, though.

my point, lest i forget, is that i live in surrey. in bleak and mundane suburbia. all the stencilling in the world can't shake off the fact that i am far from people, and unlikely to meet any of the residents of all the personal prisons that surround. akin to fahrenheit 451, you stay in till you leave, at which point you go straight where you NEED to go. in a car. no one is interested in a little diversion, and i have tried.
i guess the main problem is with the lack of like minded souls, most of whom live in the city.
and the fact that it costs so damn much to get there, each and every day. it does mean that i have seen barbelith for the first time since the invisibles ended; something my previously full life had excluded my mind from even considering.

going to the library rules, i also picked up the first animal man book for a first read too.
they have swamp thing 1,3,5, and can get me nine.
i have read 1, and have taken out three and five, but am loath to read them. i am one of those people who would consider killing you if you ruined a movie for me. a good movie, mind.

i will probably start stencilling, if i can find a cheap place to buy auto sprays, or somewhere where they dont watch too closely.
any hints on technique? i mean, it seems pretty straightforward, but i am sure that like everything, there are a few mistakes everyone makes at first. i did used to do graffiti, so i do know how a can of paint works, but have never cut out a mask.


i am realising that i havent given any suggestions here....
what i do is play my guitar. i play my bass. i learned to beatbox in the last few months, and now can do it pretty well.
i am working on my singing, and am looking to get playing in bands again.

music is one of the best things you can do, it clears that chattering monkey mind the buddhists talk about, without even having to breathe funny. well, without having to try to breathe funny. talk to someone with the phone on their shoulder as they play guitar, and listen...that aint normal. it sounds like they are wanking, which is true in a sorta way.


i would love to think all you people out there have brilliant ideasa for the exorcising of middle clas greyness in M25 zone limbo...but i am quite sceptical. willing to be persuaded, but sceptical.
 
  
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