'Cracked narcissism' and 'disturbed individual' - and, for that matter, 'martyr complex' - are descriptive terms rather than necessarily "derogatory". I challenge you, or anyone else, to find them inappropriate labels.
At this stage in the proceedings - and with our prior knowledge of Andrew's behaviour - I think it highly unlikely that what we say or do in this forum will influence him either way. If he's planning to return and spam us senseless again, that's what he'll do. If not, he won't. "For good" is a rather weighty assumption.
The 'Mumra' thread's been debated many times. I'd argue strongly that it's important to have a single thread in which that individual's behaviour can be discussed - otherwise we leave ourselves open to numerous new threads asking 'who was the knowledge and why have you banned him'. At present, moderators can direct the inquisitive to the 'Mumra' thread and delete new ones as they open. Again, I'd suggest that many of those "insults" are, in fact, fairly accurate descriptions of his actions and probable motivation.
And, after all, IT'S ONLY WORDS!!!! LIGHTEN THE FUCK UP!!!!
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