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I'd go along with what impulsivelad said; is it "almost had sex" because something stopped you, or because you had almost-sex? Big difference.
I'd be cautious. Given that amongst my friends, sex has been the point of no return. I mean, no matter what it was beforehand, afterwards, it was all or nothing. It didn't really help our social group one bit. This is of course given my particular friends (who I wouldn't judge the rest of the world on by any means), and as people say an awful lot on usenet, Your Mileage May Vary.
Play things by ear, then, but also answer the obvious questions yourself: did you want it? Would you want it again? Have you wanted it before? More to the point, why has the relationship worked so well without sex? It does depend on the people you are, and what you want, and also on the importance and relevance you place, both consciously and unconsciouly, on sex. Because if you don't share the same attitude to it, there could be trouble. There are a whole host of outcomes and only a select few are remotely good. Go careful. For your sake. That's about the best advice I can offer. Final question: do you know their perspective on all this? You sound worried; are they? Things like that are what you need to be asking. Hope that's of some use. |
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