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All Acting Regiment
14:34 / 17.06.08
I've jut got a FIRST!

 
 
Evil Scientist
14:40 / 17.06.08
Congratulations!

Now get to work on that Cylon detector, we don't pay you to look pretty.

Well, I suppose we do, but still...
 
 
All Acting Regiment
15:42 / 17.06.08


RAW
 
 
Mistoffelees
16:11 / 17.06.08
And now you´ve jut got a THIRST?
 
 
Whisky Priestess
16:25 / 17.06.08
Congrats!

What's it in?
 
 
electric monk
16:37 / 17.06.08


Frist!
 
 
Ava Banana
16:54 / 17.06.08
Many congrats!'Ware that Sambuca though, I know it of old and 'tis a sneaky beggar.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
16:02 / 19.06.08
I ought to have listened to you, Ava.

English innit.

My head hurts
 
 
Ava Banana
16:10 / 19.06.08
Ouch! I remember the pain too well. I hope you enjoyed your celebrations and can remember at least a little of them! *dims lights and offers cold compress*
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
16:12 / 19.06.08


amidoinitrite
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
16:16 / 19.06.08
Congratulations, AAR!

Could you run me off ten collated copies of this? Also, I like mine quite strong, with milk but no sugar.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
16:19 / 19.06.08


'It's made out of dandruff'
 
 
Phex: Dorset Doom
18:14 / 19.06.08
I got a 2.1. The 2 is for 'Well at least' and the 1 is for 'you turned up'. Then in my graduation photo my fly is undone and you can almost see my

 
 
All Acting Regiment
18:29 / 19.06.08
Someone I know has 'the proud owner of a 3:1 degree' twice on their CV.
 
 
Princess
20:25 / 19.06.08
I got my FIRST payment for sex work today. I feel very ambivlent, but good ambivalent, not shit ambivalent about it.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
22:29 / 19.06.08
It's like Achievement Plaza over here!!!
 
 
Whisky Priestess
10:42 / 20.06.08
Someone I know has 'the proud owner of a 3:1 degree' twice on their CV.

Heh. At least employers can't say they weren't warned. Twice.

Stupid sex work question for Princess: does the definition of "sex work" include people like strippers and dominatrices, whose work is sexual but does not (normally) include having sex with people for money?
 
 
Closed for Business Time
11:51 / 20.06.08
Two firsts today!
First first: First time in Scotland.
Second first: First time vacationing in a goddamned castle! YiHAA!

Best of all, all I'm paying for is the return trip to the airport.

Also, RIGHT ON PRINCESS!
 
 
grant
13:29 / 20.06.08
Just out of curiosity, what castle were you in? Anywhere near Glencoe?
 
 
Princess
16:57 / 20.06.08
Yeah, strippers are sex workers. Dominatrii and those fully clothed ladies that sit on men's faces count too.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
18:10 / 20.06.08
I think it's dangerously oversimplistic to define strippers as sex workers: in the vast majority of regulated environments in which people take their clothes off for money, the regulations are there to make it clear that what is going on is NOT a sex act. There's a difference between performing for money in such a manner that other people may become aroused, and engaging in sexual acts (however broadly defined i.e. including BDSM) for money. I'd speculate that there are a great deal of people identifying as strippers who would be uncomfortable being defined as sex workers.
 
 
Mistoffelees
18:33 / 20.06.08
Today was the first time I had a yoga session with just me and the yoga teacher. It´s also the first time ever, I got wafts of dog fart while doing shavasana. It smelled like rubber soles. Thankfully, I remembered I could breathe through the mouth just in time. Just two seconds later the teacher told me to "inhale deeply". The boxer had come into the room and was walking around me and left a note.

Later, the teacher asked me, if I had noticed that the dog had entered the room and had visited me. I said, yes, I did.

Last time, he at first sat next to me, then decided to sit in front of me, when I was supposed to lean forward and put my arms on the mat. That was also a first!
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
18:49 / 20.06.08
I think it's dangerously oversimplistic to define strippers as sex workers: in the vast majority of regulated environments in which people take their clothes off for money, the regulations are there to make it clear that what is going on is NOT a sex act.

There is an arguement to be made that for some, BSDM, role-playing, etc... Is not necessarily sexual, hence "Sex-work", either.

However, despite what an establishment owner says to get around certain municipal or regional by-laws and ordinances, when you have a place where people get naked for money with the specific* purpose of titillating customers, I think it can fall under the umbrella of "Sex-work", even if there are those in the trade uncomfortable with the word.
Same for people with nude webcam sites, or porn film distributors: It's a part of the sex industry.

*If people were getting naked for, say, a stage production, or performance where titillation is not the primary goal, this would not be sex-work.

OK... I can see where this becomed blurry, but I think it boils down to intent: Even if a "Gentleman's Club" successfully argues in court that the purpose of hiring topless waitresses is not sexual, you can safely bet that they're full of it.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
19:01 / 20.06.08
What about busters? Are busters sex workers?
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
19:03 / 20.06.08
Because if they are, then people really shouldn't look at Barbelith at work!!
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
19:03 / 20.06.08
Unless they work in SEX.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
19:10 / 20.06.08
Depends on the type of "Buster", I suppose...
 
 
Proinsias
20:50 / 20.06.08
 
 
Shrug
21:20 / 20.06.08
Is the question this thread is leading to;
Would you sex-work Phil Collins .... for a first?

Congratulations, Legba!
 
 
All Acting Regiment
12:35 / 23.06.08
Thank you! I'm still moderately fucked! It's not sex-work, though, just more fucking Sambuca.
 
 
Whisky Priestess
13:19 / 23.06.08
Congratulations, AAR!

Could you run me off ten collated copies of this? Also, I like mine quite strong, with milk but no sugar.


Come now Tamara, with a little application and a lot of hard work* young AAR could surely have a moderately well-paid job in a not-unboring sector by the time he's 30?
We must look on the bright side, after all!

*or a lot less, but a lot harder SEX-work
 
 
Thaddeus "B." Glands
14:12 / 23.06.08
I got a FIRST!

That is, I got a 2:1, but I got it for the FIRST time.

Yeah!
 
 
Closed for Business Time
14:18 / 23.06.08
grant: It was Castle Pittormie, just inland from St. Andrews. On sight I guess most people would've called it a mansion rather than a castle. Ridiculously sumptuous whichever way, with two butlers and a range of staff at hand to cater for our every whim. And did I mention the Michelin star-quality chef who slaved in the kitchens to sate our depraved cravings? Maaan.... To bad I've had a sinusitic meltdown for the last week or so.

Oh, another first for me on that trip: Landing at London City airport. Please to go there everytime and not have to endure Stansted, Heathrow, Luton or Gatwick?
 
 
grant
02:18 / 24.06.08
Dude. First.
 
 
Pingle!Pop
12:49 / 27.06.08
I got a first too!

... It was, annoyingly, in psychology, whereas for the rest of my degree I'm basically going to be doing politics. But oh well, it's a first of some kind.
 
  

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