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I came up with this as the result of what happened in the Sadness is happiness as sadness.
I figured I would post it here in Conversation so that it could go off in whatever direction the conversational winds care to take it...
From my perspective, critical thinking takes work, whereas cynicism is a simple act of negation. To be cynical is to simply reject that which doesn't neatly fit with your already presupposing assumptions about how something operates. In contrast, critical thinking challenges one to look at all sides of an issue before drawing any conclusion. In this regard, cynicism can all to often act as a defense mechanism, shutting out anything that may challenge ones world view. This observation of cynicism can fit a number of different points of view, including many (if not all) orthodoxies.
In communication, cynicism shuts down all but the internally congratulatory self-agreement of any given school of thought- it creates a vacuum that is all but impossible to penetrate. These hermetically sealed environments are destined for stagnation. Critical thinking, on the other hand, can facilitate an opening up to new possibilities, pruning away the dead-weight of old assumptions and allowing for new growth to occur. Exercising critical thinking within communication can take a bit of extra work, it means taking pause for reflection- when something strikes you as wrong, take the time to think about why- is it a possible factual error? Then do a bit of research to check if you have your facts right and state that, according to your research, the facts are... Be aware that it may be a case of a communication break down, the person you are disagreeing with may have stated their point in a way that you misinterpreted, in which case a clarification may be all that is necessary. Something I try to do is dig below how somebody is saying something in to what it is they are actually trying to say, asking for clarification when necessary to do so, to me, anything less is linguistic snobbery. If what is being discussed is a matter of opinion, then try to state your response as such, opinion is relative, important- yes, absolute- no. You don't have to agree with someone else's opinion in order to learn from it, that's why it can be extremely valuable to take in other people's opinion, it can help to enhance your own, and that can be a pretty good thing- challenging, yes, but rewarding as well.
All this of course, is just my opinion and, as such, I don't mind having it challenged- as a matter of fact, I enjoy having my opinion challenged. What I don't appreciate is being personally attacked or insulted, that accomplishes nothing but hurt feelings. That's my opinion anyway. |
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