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Music to play when one is wistful

 
 
farhan
21:26 / 24.12.07
right now i am playing the album A Meeting by the River by Ry Cooder and V.M. Bhatt. definitely one of the best east-west fusion albums i ever came across. i'd usually play it when i am feeling wistful and pensive. something slow and melancholy to go with the mood. then if i am thinking electronic, perhaps Animal Magic by Bonobo or Summer Make Good by múm.

what would you suggest? anything special that you like to play? please share.
 
 
Triplets
11:39 / 25.12.07
I usually listen/try not to listen to The Zookeeper's Boy by Mew which, basically, talks about someone leaving a relationship and not even being sure his paramore was with him in the first place. Kind of appropriate considering my ex got me into Mew entirely and then, promptly, chucked me. The song itself is fab containing all the good bits of their signature style; distorted vocals, almost free-association poetry lyrics; great guitar work. I'd recommend anyone downloading that track. You'll be hooked.

Where's that cd...
 
 
grant
14:06 / 26.12.07
Jesus, this is too big for me to think of anything to say.

Almost everything I listen to would fit into this category.

One of the best bands I ever knew for this was Things In Herds, but I don't think they're still around - at least not under that name.

Oh, I am delighted to be wrong!

More albums!!
 
 
Peach Pie
16:19 / 28.12.07
Mansun - Six.
 
 
Jack Fear
18:51 / 28.12.07
...because...?
 
 
johnny enigma
18:08 / 30.12.07
If I'm looking to indulge my wist rather than escape from it then the music of choice is definitely Nick Cave in his more reflective moments. In fact, I'm getting a bit sad now just because I don't have any of his music to hand.
 
 
Automatic
09:27 / 10.01.08
For true-gravel voiced melancholy you can't beat the Eels. Electro-Shock Blues and Blinking Lights are the best for this.

They contain some of the most downbeat subjects for songs you could have; E's mother's cancer, his sister's suicide, his Dad's alcoholism and so on. It's not all a crushing cavalcade of doom though - there's always a glimmer of hope in even the most darkest places. PS I Love You, the final song ends on a note of;

"And I've been thinking about how,
Everyone was dying.
Maybe it's time to live."

Blinking Lights ends on 'What the Grandchildren Should Know' which, after much of album having been made up of how reclusive and fucked up E is, it's nice to hear how he's come to terms with himself and his past.

"I'm turning out just like my father,
Though I swore I never would.
Now I can say that I have love for him.
I never really understood,
What it must have been like for him,
Living inside his head.
I feel like he's here with me now,
even though he's dead."

(and then the music rises in a way that gives me the shivers just thinking about it).
 
 
ghadis
17:14 / 11.01.08
A bit off topic but... Mr Flunchy, did you catch the recent BBC4 documentary, Parallel Worlds, Parallel Lives in which E explores some of his fathers (the famous quantum physicist, Hugh Everett) theories about parallel universes. Facinating stuff and pretty emotional as you'd expect. Great soundtrack as well!
 
 
Cookie H. Monster
18:58 / 11.01.08
Neil Young - Harvest.
 
 
Jack Fear
19:53 / 11.01.08
...because...?
 
 
Breefield
06:06 / 13.01.08
Eve 6, because they make me think about other people's problems rather than my own. "Inside out" is especially good.
 
 
Automatic
10:14 / 14.01.08
I saw the documentary E put out a while back, fascinating stuff. I was surprised at how much access he let the cameras have into his life as he's always seemed like quite a private gentleman.

I've got his book on order from Amazon at the moment, so hopefully that'll be more of the same.

Is there an eels thread on the 'lith?
 
 
Jack Fear
10:52 / 14.01.08
Yes.
 
 
grant
13:46 / 14.01.08
One of the best albums for driving around an unfamiliar city in the rain with nothing particular to do and no one you'd like to talk to is Gillian Welch's Time (The Revelator).

It's described as a country album, but I don't think it is. It's country in the same way Harvest is country - simple folk music with just enough ornamentation to make it sound like it wasn't done on someone's front porch; thus, is evocative of the wide open spaces that teeter on the edge of hopelessness and vertigo - the emptiness that imprisons.

Things that are implied: Girls who never see the ocean, old men who drink themselves to death. But because of the familiarity of the music, it feels like these are songs about someone's (your?) cousins and uncles and alter-egos that are yearning for places to go where they can be themselves. They've been waiting to leave for those places for a long, long time. Maybe tomorrow, they'll go.
 
 
Feverfew
17:46 / 15.01.08
It used to be that I would always feel wistful whenever I heard "God moving over the face of the waters" by Moby, used on the Heat soundtrack, because it has a very dappled sound and seems to want to spur people on it knows aren't goint to change. Now, I'm not sure what I would think of as wistful, but I'll have a think...
 
 
Baroness von Lenska
21:23 / 21.01.08
On that note, Moby's Everything Is Wrong album very much fits the bill, I think, especially the title track and "When It's Cold, I'd Like to Die" which, because of the time and place it entered my life, always conjures up vague feelings of hospitals, insomnia, the awful realization that death is only a tragedy when it's someone else's, and the feeling of drifting off to sleep at last, sinking in a warm bath. I can't recommend that song enough, or convey how beautiful it is, regardless of one's feeling toward the rest of Moby's output. Even on a technical level alone, the drifting, warbling effect used in the fadeout near the end perfectly expresses the song's coming to terms with, and accepting, death as a part of life, and again calls up images of sinking in warm water, calmly losing consciousness and drifting off to sleep. Makes me misty just thinking about it.

Mark Isham's Tibet is another I'd throw in there. The rambling, muffled, almost shy guitar work coupled with minimal electronic (I'm assuming) effects give it an air of melancholy, sadness, being outside at night under the stars in cool air; and then Isham's horns gradually introduce themselves, bringing reflection, hope and the knowledge of where the night wind blows with them. All said, very good reflective music.

Much of Steve Roach's work is very pensive. I'm personally partial to Structures From Silence, the title of which pretty much sums it all up quite well enough. Small, smooth beeps and blips that build themselves into a shadowy house of music with melancholy wallpaper, mysterious lighting and carpets of underplayed grandness. Best listened in a dark room while lying on something soft.

Donnacha Costello's Together is the New Alone is also good for most of the reasons listed above, although it has more of a "sick and awake at 4 AM and unable to sleep" flavor.
 
 
grant
18:48 / 13.02.08
It's been raining for days and there's strife in the extended family prompting us all to withdraw, sit quietly and think and think.

So there are two more old albums:

The Closer I Get by Hayden. One of the first-name-only lo-fi guys probably best known for doing the soundtrack to Tree's Lounge, Hayden has a knack for acoustic melancholy with just enough tension to keep things interesting. The album before this is a little more abrasive - on that one, he sings serious songs using nearly the same vocal inflections as Adam Sandler's novelty songs, which can get grating quick. In this album, he tends to stay more subtle, quiet and polished, with meditative songs about guitar lessons and the death of Elvis Presley.

The standout tracks for me are "Between Us to Hold" and "Instrumental with Mellotron," which are both somewhere between Neil Young on Harvest and Iron and Wine. There are samples on Amazon.

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And writing this as a reply to a request for wistful music is a bit like saying, "Oh, you like rock! Have you heard about this great band called Led Zeppelin?" but here, a decent complement to the above is R.E.M.'s Murmur.

This is, of course, one of the records they made before they filled arenas, when they were still this odd little college band from Georgia. Back then, they had a strange, magical knack for summoning up waves of nostalgia for a pre-psychedelic 60s that never was, like a band that slipped through a dimensional rift from an alternative history of the Byrds and the Boxtops, all jangly guitars and reedy harmonies.

They were one of the first bands I knew that used lyrics that seemed intensely meaningful without actually saying anything comprehensible - it was an art that Nirvana mastered, but R.E.M. did it first. "Radio Free Europe" is a great song, and "Perfect Circle" is wonderfully uplifting and hopeful without any sense of self-assurance or trust that what one hopes for will actually come to pass. Which makes it, I guess, a song about faith, at least for me.

Anyway, on the off chance you've never heard it, you really should. Samples, again, on Amazon.
 
  
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