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I agree the issue isn't whether a newbie to the Headshop would get ridiculed for asking a dumb question, but that they think/fear they would, in the same way as the old stand-bys "Is Barbelith Dying?" and "Is There A Barbeclique?" reflect as much on the person asking the question as they do the actual state of events.
Why these opinions and points keep being raised, and how the issue can be addressed - these are the interesting questions. Historically, people have posted defensively on the subject once it comes up again (boiling the general responses down, "if you can't stand the Head, stay out of the Shop/Barbelith is not boring, it is you who is the boring one, ahhhh/there is no Barbeclique, see, all my cliquebuddies agree with me"), and then claimed the subject had been discussed previously, something which always struck me as completely self-defeating if the actual aim was to stop having the discussion. It's factually correct, and completely wrongheaded. If people are so clearly expressing a sense of disenfranchisement, in however small a way, then telling them they're imagining the whole thing and to stop being so needy/insecure/paranoid is hardly behaviour conducive to stopping them. In the same way, Haus starting posting to this thread with the sentence "If you are not prepared to think about things, you'll come unstuck" is hardly designed to reassure people anxious about posting to the Headshop*, as Haus is known (and knows himself to be known) to have a Ginormous Brane and the impression the vast majority of people here have is that Haus has a higher standard of thinkingmanship than your average poster to this board. While "Haus loves you. Come to bed" might be too far through the reassuring right into the scary miss mary, I hope you can see my point.
*Haus has clarified his point subsequently and in a non-snippy way - I'm just selecting a convenient, one-sentence example of the slight thoughtlessness I was describing. |
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