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I think one also has to be very careful attributing meaning to even the most compelling of apparent omens. Runs of bad luck, nasty coincidences, unusual phenomena may all scream "SIGNIFICANT!", but what exactly they mean can be harder to unravel.
I agree. I tend to thinks there are no coincidences, but not every message out there is directed at me.
In my experience, when I feel like something is going wrong, I fix that thing. When I feel like everything is going wrong, I fix MYSELF.
If you feel like a lot is going wrong around you, I suspect it's more likely that you are out of synch with your world, and, as just about everyone else has said, you need to work on yourself first.
When it comes to love specifically, it's a fairly simple truth that what you cannot find in yourself you will not retain from another.
I think that [sigils] work by virtue of the power of forgetting
My father used to tell me I needed to forget my intentions for a working to get anywhere, and I could never do it. I've gone back to bitch at him a few times over that one, because it blocked my work for the longest time that I would fret over my inability to simply forget.
I finally realized that the problem wasn't one of forgetting, but of letting go. There's two major ways to do this, both of which Thomas is trying or has tried, but isn't following through as far as I can tell.
1: Give it to Somebody Else, and then trust them.
2: Do it yourself, and then trust yourself. Forget the work, give up entirely, or be completely certain it will work as it is. Ultimately, it doesn't matter what mechanism you teach yourself for letting go. What's important is that your Will not still be engaged to your Intent when your doubt kicks in. If you keep pushing, every fear and whim that goes by will be applied to the work, and you end up with a big, useless mess.
i asked to help me was venus. she told me that i would have to bleed and i gave her blood. then she said everything would be fine.
So trust Her? You're having difficulty with a relationship. You gave a proper sacrifice to a Goddess of Relationships. She said it's going to work out fine. She knows what She's doing.
Part of the problem may be that you're not trusting Venus and Ganesha's judgement about what you should actually be recieving. Don't get me wrong, I don't think the gods are infallible, but if you trusted Them enough to specifically request Their help, you need to let them do the job Their way.
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