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Ain't no time fa nothin' (where does it go)

 
 
illmatic
07:52 / 29.05.06
How does Barbelith manage time? Specifically post (or pre) work time, tied in with projects and so forth? Obviously, in work time, you're on here...

I was having a discussion with a visiting trans-Atlantic Bareloid yesterday, and ze stated some of the similar dilemma as myself - that is, having so many little projects and stuff that one wants to work on that you feel like you get none of them done. The worse thing is when one is attached to them all at the same time and so can't let them go...

I think this is most true for those of you who're artistic. But it also counts for TeH maJickz, or any other area where one is seeking proficency. Projects have a way of spawning side projects and other interests... take martial arts for example. I decide I'm not good enough I also become conscious that my cardio is not what it could be so I improve that. I'm then made aware that my strength isn't what it could be, so I hit the gym, "yeah but I'm not doing enough sparring, maybe I should do another art" - Where does it end? (This is hypothetical btw, more my thought processes than what I've actually done, I'm not the highly trained killing machine I'd like to be).

So - do people have any strategies for managing this. Perhaps "watch more telly and relax" would be a good one? The only solution I've come up with so far is "you can have anything, but you can't have everything" i.e. remember that you can acheive a lot in any one field if you focus, let tthe other stuff go, and prioritise with whats most important to you. It's just not as satisfying as being a renaissance man style polymath but there you go.

Any thoughts
 
 
Brunner
12:38 / 29.05.06
Mmmm - I'd really like to hear other people's solutions as well. Personally, I often find it is sheer laziness that prevents me achieving certain things. Often, there may be a few competing tasks that need doing and I'll pick the easiest, for the sole reason that it is easy or perhaps because it feels less like a chore. It's sad that I often find things I think I want to do (usually when I definately cannot do them) so hard when I have the opportunity. I invent no end of excuses to divert my attention and then as if by magic, the window of opportunity is gone....

Time management is not my greatest skill but I have had reasonable success in for instance, getting fit by exercising at the beginning of the day before competing interests get in the way. Getting up at 6am for a 6 mile run can be difficult but it is more or less a habit now and I feel guilty if I don't achieve it 3 or 4 times a week. However, this is only one small succeess and I'm unmotivated to get up early for any other reason.

I think sometimes you have to give yourself a good kick up the arse and think about where you will be in 5 years time if all the inaction is continued....
 
 
Tryphena Absent
15:12 / 29.05.06
Illmatic, you have to live the life you were born to live. you may have to climb ev'ry mountain, search high and low, follow ev'ry byway, ev'ry path you know. Climb ev'ry mountain, ford every stream, follow ev'ry rainbow, 'til you find your dream.

A dream that will need all the love you can give. Ev'ry day of your life for as long as you live. Climb ev'ry mountain. Ford Ev'ry stream, follow ev'ry rainbow til you find your dream.
 
 
illmatic
15:20 / 29.05.06
But, Anna, what if you're so busy climbing the mountain, you haven't got time to ford the stream? Should you chase the rainbow instead?
 
 
iamus
15:34 / 29.05.06
Ah, but mountains, streams and rainbows all flow into one another y'see.
 
 
Quantum
17:19 / 29.05.06
I'm trying to live three people's lives at once at the moment so I know what you mean dude. And I keep seeing these rainbows I just don't have time to chase.
 
 
Ninjas make great pets
17:32 / 29.05.06
Had this crisis 7 years ago for 5 years! Never got round to all the projects I had in my head. I have stories to write, pictures to draw, photo projects to complete, classes to join, gadgets to buy/play with..

a while ago I gave up on worriying about it (cause deep down Im a lazy sod who procrasternates too much) and decided 'feck it' I'll just concentrate on getting out of the house more instead of anything else.

Has worked a charm! All the projects you never get round to are no longer as much of a sore spot.. I realised it was more the time I feared wasting than the projects not being done. But getting out - meeting friends or even a walk along the river - makes a memory. Fills a moment. makes more contentment with time spent. Also made about 30 new aquiantences and 4 good friends over it
 
  
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