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Advice on a job

 
 
matthew.
03:13 / 17.05.06
Warning: long post ahead with lots of details.

Here's the situation. I need to pay to go to France, as some people may know I'm going there to teach, and I just bought a new car, which some of you mocked, thank you very much.

I'm currently supervisoring at this independent restaurant called "A" for the sake of anonymity. They paid me 9 dollars an hour. I asked for a raise. They gave me another .75 cents. Well, another cook who I am supposed to have authority over is making 11.25 an hour. Well. So, I asked for more. They said no. Okay, I made this very clear: I have to get a second job that will pay more and will become my first priority. Okay, the bosses have my blessing.

I got a job at restaurant "B," a large chain staffed by numerous acquaintances and a fun place to work. I'll be cooking for about 9 an hour. It's a pay cut, but wait til you hear all the details.

I got a job at a call centre for a large bank, job "C". They pay a salary which works out to be 13.10 an hour, plus benefits and bonuses. It's incoming only, thank heavens. I deal with customer complaints, information and basic client services. I had to do a test to get in, and my scores were "excellent" according to the woman hiring. This job is not entry level. I had to jump through some hoops.

Now here's the rest of the details. At job "A," where I have been for almost seven years, it's slack. I do what I want, when I want. But I hate babysitting kids, 'cause that's what I'm doing: watching children and making sure they don't eat the cinnamon buns. Yay. The schedule is extremely flexible and they work around my school stuff. I'm not going to school, however.

Job "B" is across the street. The boss at "A" doesn't want me working there because it's too close and information might be shared. First of all, "B" doesn't give a shit what "A" is doing. They're in different leagues! BUT I don't like to be told where I can or can't work. That's bullshit.

Then, I hear that the bosses at "A" don't think I'm ready for this. They say, "Fine, let him go work somewhere else. It'll be a slap in the face how hard the real world is. He'll come crawling back." I hear these words from a reputable source. I've made it crystal clear to the bosses at "A": pay me more and I won't get another job. And barring that, I'm going to train another supervisor to take over. I won't be able to do it. Only cook, I will, during the days and cook at "B" at night. Okay? Well, the bosses at "A" are just digging themselves deeper. They are handling this so badly.

Unfortunately, the job is guaranteed and easy. Not an easy decision to make.

Job "C", I'm probably going to hate. Job "C" means no socializing, no fraternizing, no coupling in the supply closet (joking!). Job "C" means a lot of money and bonuses for referrals (500 bucks cash for a referral). Plus, it'll look fabulous on a resume. It's also a gateway into very well paying positions at the bank. I'd be like Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins. The schedule is fixed, also.

Job "B" is famously fun, with lots of great looking and smart people, who party every night (no jokes). I know a good amount of people working there already and it's very close to "A" so that means less gas than Job "C". Unfortunately, it pays less and it's working for a chain; it's a McJob almost. The scheduling is rigid, which means I probably won't be able to combine "B" and "C".

I have three jobs as of Wednesday, and I have to close the door on one of them. I may have to stay at "A" and work either "B" or "C". I don't know.

There's more details, I'm sparing you.
 
 
Bard: One-Man Humaton Hoedown
05:48 / 17.05.06
I'd honestly say A and C. I can't say much about A and B options given I don't know which restaraunts, in what city, and for what sort of cuisine.

The people at A sound like a bunch of twats, but since you're basically recouping the pay for working at C, the money doesn't sound like it'd be that much of an issue (though I can't be sure, since I suck at math). B sounds like fun, but chain restaraunt gigs blow when it comes to work fun, and the conflict between A and B and B and C seem to make B the weak link in the chain.

...plus you're getting paid more at A. Maybe only by .75, but that's still better than what B is offering.
 
 
Not in the Face
15:29 / 18.05.06
Also your main goal is to save money, and not in a retirement kind of way that you might never see, but in a very real going to France kind of way. Option B pays less so will make this plan harder to bring about and also as attractive as lots of fun with good looking restaurant staff every night sounds, I imagine its also good for eating into your pay cheque.

So A and C may be the shittier options, work environment wise, but if you only have to suck them up for a short while before you go and do something thats better than AxBxC, then its probably worth it. Higher pay and less social opportunities means going to France is sooner and easier
 
 
Jake, Colossus of Clout
16:18 / 18.05.06
Yeah, A and C. Although if I could just pick up more hours at C, I would quit both A and B. Job C may suck, but it's the most lucrative, and it's worth less fun in the short term to be able to get to France ASAP.
 
 
Triplets
17:04 / 18.05.06
When are you aiming to go to France, matt?
 
 
matthew.
17:22 / 18.05.06
September of '07.

By the by, thanks for all the advice everybody. Much appreciated.
 
 
ibis the being
18:07 / 18.05.06
What Jake said.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
18:14 / 18.05.06
And jobs that look good on your resume can only help in the long term. I wished that I had more of those for a very long time.
 
 
matthew.
04:42 / 24.05.06
Are you ready for another twist in the story?

Job A (the first one, the longrunning one) fired me for getting a job at the other restaurant. Wow. After six and a half years of loyalty, they fire me for that. Okay. So it looks like the decision has been made.

Just got back from my first day at the new job and the management is very pleased with me. They were very jazzed to acquire me as an employee.

Very tiring. Very smelly. Going to shower now.
 
 
Jub
06:55 / 24.05.06
so, are you at the bank as well as the new restaurant? If you're saving for France, work at the bank!
 
 
matthew.
15:59 / 24.05.06
This morning, I acquired the bank job. Yay. Things are looking up.
 
 
doozy floop
12:11 / 08.02.07
Dear Barbelith

I also need job advice.
(It seems I only come here to ask questions. 'Tis because I hold you all in such high esteem, don't you know.)

I am gainfully employed in a job that I like, for an organisation that I like, with people that entertain and infuriate me in equal measure. However, I have been in this job for a Very Long Time and I grow weary / don't want to become the freaky all-knowing longest-serving employee / would like to get paid more.

I do one very specialised thing and one very generalised thing. I'd rather go into the generalised thing, but the pay seems lower and I've applied for about a million jobs in that line with no luck. I have just been head-hunted for a great position for lots more money, but doing the specialised thing only.

Wah! Will I go potty with boredom just doing the specialised thing and nothing else? And will it become impossible for me to ever move on and cease with the specialisation? Will I ever forgive myself if I turn this down and nothing else comes up, ever, except a few hundred more rejection letters? How can I possibly refuse the money when the Dearly Beloved is facing a hefty pay cut to pursue an amazing career?

Take the job, or hold out?
 
 
Kit-Cat Club
12:18 / 08.02.07
Could you try it for say a year without ruining your chances of returning to the generalised thing if it turns out to be rotten?

I suppose it depends how dull your specialised thing is. My PT job at the moment involves doing one specialised thing, and it is very dull - but it's only PT and I work from home so I don't mind. But you must have a good idea about whether it will drive you potty or not. Also, whether it is possible to have any kind of career progression with the specialised thing (e.g., could you move on from doing it to project management, etc. etc.).
 
 
Ticker
12:28 / 08.02.07
Also to throw in, if the Dearly Beloved is taking a pay cut increasing your income is a good way of making sure money doesn't become a stressor in the relationship. It sucks but sometimes it is true that in a partnership one party has to do the responsible thing while the other goes out on a limb. Hopefully it's not a forever sort of situation and you then get to switch and be the bold one with your partner throwing some monetary nets under your butt.

KKC makes a great suggestion about the 'try it for a year' option. If you can surf it for a year it tends to plump up the CV/resume nicely. Your other more generalized options may improve at that point.
 
  
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