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Feverfew
17:55 / 23.03.06
I’d like to start a small, background project here – but this is my first Temple thread ever, so please shoot me down if this has been done before and I’ll quietly slink away.

I would like to make a thread that could be a Positive hub movement, where people can post things that make them feel positive happy that fit or don’t fit into either of these threads, but also primarily a drive towards positivity and the energy that comes with it.

I'd like to qualify a little; I am not saying that

I) Barbelith is not a positive place
II) Barbelith’s posters are not positive people
III) Or that there is a lack of positive feeling around here.

On the contrary. I find that Barbelith hums with positivity some days, and makes me laugh a lot of the time at the sillier things (more notably in conversation) and smile at others. I would, however, like to make an attempt at founding this thread as a place for sharing positive, affirming, happy experiences and trying to get a flow of the associated energy going. It would be, ideally, like building a large fire - but it needs the spark to start with, prosaically enough.

My feeling, and it may be entirely individual, is that the world is a strange and dark place a lot of the time at the moment, and I think it would be good to try to redress the balance somewhat. It's my fault, really; I’ve tried springing “Say something Positive” onto several people and they’ve been singularly unable to reply, even when given time to compose themselves. Which is, yes, a silly thing to do - but I wanted to test the theory out a little.

So, a brief qualification of what might be most appreciated –

- Recounting of positive experiences that may inspire other people
- Happy memories that you may want to share
- Techniques for bringing ‘Good’ energy into the world and into lives
- General news or news stories that are positive or may raise a smile
- Forwards to other threads that are fun, happy or positive.

I see that this has been briefly mentioned In the past in terms of techniques, and also in conversation twice. But when I mention this as a "Project", I'd like a sort of quasi-'working' background to all this - my ideal end result is to bring the positive to the front of the stage, blinking in the lights, to prove that it does actually exist, even if it may have had a little stage fright.

For instance, for me, something comes to mind at the moment to start off with;

I find myself thinking of my Grandfather right at this moment – I miss him since he passed on, but he was an intensly positive man without a bad word to say about anyone he met. Indeed, when I knew him he was so personable that he would go to the shops five minutes down the road and return two hours later, having met at least three or four people to talk to.

He also had a saying for many occasions, the most memorable being “I’m here; and to prove it, I’ve arrived” mostly whenever he went somewhere. He taught me a lot, and I miss him, but I smile when I remember him. He was a great, positive influence on my life, and if I could channel a little more of that, I might be, well, happier.

So; would anyone out there like to help bring a little more light or throw wood onto the fire? Or shall I wander off back into the darkness, never to sully Temple again?
 
 
*
18:06 / 23.03.06
It is an extremely beautiful day right now, and I get to walk in it.
 
 
sn00p
20:20 / 23.03.06
I just had sex and it was fantastic.
LOVE IS THE SECRET OF THE UNIVERSE.
 
 
FinderWolf
23:58 / 23.03.06
I have made several new friends through Barbelith over the course of the last several years, and that makes me happy.

The Snakes On A Plane thread over in the Film section makes me smile broadly and laugh out loud.
 
 
ORA ORA ORA ORAAAA!!
00:01 / 24.03.06
I'm really looking forward to today.
 
 
Hawthorn
00:48 / 24.03.06
Interesting challenge, okay...

I've just got over the flu and it feels fantastic
I'm going to finish my documentary film this term, goddamnit, in two weeks, and it's going to be impressive

My Teacher just had his house robbed in the past few hours, and the calm, collected, in-perspective way in which he is dealing with it is inspiring to me. I guess that doesn't sound too positive but it has been transmuted, I think, really
 
 
Isadore
02:03 / 24.03.06
I'm going to be in northern California next week visiting family and friends, and I'm really excited! It's going to be a blast in all sorts of ways.

Also, there's a very delicious-smelling pot of soup on the stove, and it'll be ready to eat as soon as it cools down a bit.
 
 
SMS
03:49 / 24.03.06
Life is better for me now than it has been in almost nine years. That's the truth.
 
 
Feverfew
05:33 / 24.03.06
Thank you all for adding these comments in.

To keep things going, I should add that this and this are, on the surface, also positive.

Also, since joining Barbelith, I have discovered the joys of basic HTML, which makes me feel good, somehow.

Thanks again, everyone - keep it going for a little while longer!
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
05:48 / 24.03.06
Uh...either I get called into work tomorrow, which means I get money, or I get to spend the late morning hanging out with my best friend, listening to the CBC. Fun! And, either way, I'm having a saucy date with my SO tomorrow evening. So, happy.
 
 
ESOZONE : Oct 10 - 12 PDX 2008
06:30 / 24.03.06
I feel damned sexy. And you know what? Its fucking true.
 
 
My Mom Thinks I'm Cool
11:04 / 24.03.06
last night I got home from work 3 hours late and didn't know it because I was having the best conversation EVER with someone I thought didn't even want to hang out with me any more. I missed dinner and didn't even notice. Do you know how many times I've missed dinner in the last 29 years and not been pissed? zero. well, one now. do you know how many 3 hour conversations I've had with people and not wanted to shoot someone or myself? probably also one.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm and my face hurts from smiling.
 
 
Quantum
13:01 / 24.03.06
(lovely thread!)
I just read someone's Tarot and they said upon leaving it was as though an enormous weight had been lifted from her shoulders. Magic is brilliant!
 
 
FinderWolf
16:39 / 24.03.06
I caught up on sleep last night and am going to 2 parties this weekend which should be awesome. There's been a lot of progress and achievement in my acting career lately...after months of mostly no acting work, I just did 3 indie short films and 2 voice-over projects, all quality pieces with good connections attached to each.

And Sat. afternoon I'm going with my little cousin to Midtown Comics in NYC...very fun to have an 11-year old who lives nearby who's into comics; I can show him all the good stuff.
 
 
Dead Megatron
18:39 / 24.03.06
Yesterday there was a going-away party for an old College friend who's gonna spend some time (at least six months) in NY, capital of the world. Despite the fact we're all verging into our thirties ad most of the once long-haired guys are now regular-haired, everything was exactly as it used to be in 1996, which means:

- good illicit, albeit ligh, substances being shared in a fraternal way.

- frenetic dancing to the sound of old rock'n'n'roll and Brazilian folk music (aka "samba"), alternatively

- capoeira dancing/fighting

- very good conversation

- hot exibitionist lesbians

- friends gallore

- sex

Plus, now is friday evening, and for the first time in months, no work to be done before monday.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
19:24 / 24.03.06
Nice idea, Feverfew.

Hard to put my finger on anythin' specific... had a lovely walk on a warm Spring day, followed by tasty homemade curry... but that's not the only thing giving me a lift right now. Right now what's giving me a lift is the thought of the workings I've got lined up for various punters and the prospect of hanging out with one or more magic types in the very near future, which has triggered a reflection on how magic has stopped being something that I hid behind and become something that helps connect me to the world. It's funny; so much of what I do now is about stepping out of this world for a while and communing with intelligences that are sometimes fabulously alien, but instead of making me more distant from the (scarequotes) mundane, I feel more open to other people than I used to. It's like every step I take these days has the effect of bringing me into a closer sympathy with those around me, helps me become more able to connect with my own... humanity, I guess.

Yeah, that's it. Slowly but surely, inch by inch, magic is humanising me.
 
 
Dead Megatron
21:58 / 24.03.06
Just reading MC's post does it for me. It really does.
 
 
Earlier than I thought
11:05 / 25.03.06
At 2:00AM this morning I was wandering the streets with a gorgeous friend having this enormous shouty conversation about how fucking fantastic the world is and how Macbeth could be a great role model if only he'd stop killing people's kids. It's so rare that I get to hang out with anyone who talks as much shit as I do and it makes me go all "awww". And that.
 
 
Benny the Ball
19:50 / 25.03.06
I'm in love, completely and totally in love, spiritually, mentally, physically in love.

I am a success.
 
 
nyarlathotep's shoe horn
15:58 / 26.03.06
I was having a bad day...

- then I stumbled on this thread -

I'm having a rather cheerful day, of a sudden...

--not jack =)
 
 
Feverfew
16:36 / 26.03.06
Good! I'm glad!

I've been away in T'City for the weekend, but I'm happy to come back to see posts here.

For my part, my train of thought runs on simple tracks at the moment in terms of positivity. For instance, today I'm happy because I have been out and bought, for the princely sum of just under £10, a mini-propagator and four pots in which to try to grow some herbs (legal, culinary).

I'm determined to grow something from seed, which I haven't managed to do yet. From cutting or shoot I'm fine, but I've not managed it by seed yet. Hopefully, soon, I will have shoots of Mint, Marjoram and, yes, I have two pots devoted to trying to grow Feverfew. Just because.

It was, however, all around, a strange weekend - but I do have this to show for it, at least.

Also, walking from London Bridge to the Strand between 7:30 and 9:30 with no-one around was definitely interesting.

So, thanks again to all who have posted. I'm considering moving this idea towards specific topics for a short period of time - three days of searching for the positive in the media, two more of personal experience - but then again, it might work better as it is. Any thoughts, anyone?
 
 
electric monk
17:10 / 26.03.06
It makes me extremely happy to see new posters posting in the Temple (established members and new). The place feels fresh, rejuvenated, and it's humming with a vitality that pleases me every time I stop by.

Yay, us.

And have I mentioned lately that Barbelith is a most aesthetically pleasing place to be? I fall in love a little every time I browse it, esp. with the Safari browser. Kisses, Tom, for your thoughtful and beautiful sense of design.
 
 
electric monk
17:13 / 26.03.06
Feverfew - Do what thou wilt.
 
 
illmatic
17:24 / 26.03.06
One from me - learning how to complicated ba gua moves, and the awareness that I'm getting slighly better. Regular pracise really does work. The jump in my co-ordiantion and dexterity since I took up martial arts has been fantastic, though one only sees this with a couple of years perspective.

Also, the weather (ish). Even if it rained today, spring is coming...
 
 
Dead Megatron
21:16 / 26.03.06
Hey, nice to see Illmatic does the Ba Gua Zhang too. One piece of advice, though: the most important moves are the simplest ones. In fact, it's great just to walk in circles for as long as you can. You'll feel the energy build-up quite soon.

Do you do the Yi Quan too?

This site may be useful.

In loss, try to stay balanced
Nothing that is Material is real and permanent in life
Your spirit, your will and your effort are real and truthful
Pretend there’s no poverty
Sincerity and truth are real and permanent
Enjoy the effort of the search for the nothing.


Now, I'm happier than a minute ago, yay!
 
 
xytar with a Z
03:02 / 27.03.06
Having just a wonderful day.
just retuned from a close friend's
open house at her new yoga studio
more light
to all
 
 
Feverfew
17:19 / 28.03.06
This is all good.

I realise now that my statement of intent in the initial post was frighteningly vague in it's statement of intent. This may have worked in it's favour for getting things rolling, but I feel I owe a little further explanation to you all.

My life is not bad. Really. Not bad at all. Immediately on typing those words I'm reminded of constant parental advice that "It could be a lot worse", and I'm very, very aware of that. The possiblity of negativity is an ever-present, well, threat, and I'm grateful for every second it does not intrude into this life.

But - and it's a little but, so to speak - there is an abject lack of forward motion in my life at the moment. Which is not to say that I particularly want to be catapulted into the next life-stage just yet, but a little push might come in handy.

And hence (and yes, I've just been on a Plain English course, and I know it's shocking but apparently according to the Crystal Mark campaign starting sentences with And and But is perfectly acceptable! I was shocked) my intent was to generate / drum up positivity here.

I've been honoured and impressed by people posting (and taking relatively seriously!) my first temple thread. My thanks to you all for chipping in should not be understated.

My day today at work, however, has convinced me that this is not a project to abandon - it was not a negative day, in fact it was very positive, with three of the people I work for taking me out to lunch to celebrate the end of the working year - but when I say convinced me, it was the degree at which people there are getting overheated and worried, the way in which we are being treated (oh, don't ask, really don't ask - just gloss over the cut budgets, the lack of proper HR, and the increasing workload without any respite in sight for at least another six months) that convinced me that, on a purely personal level, I'd like to keep this idea going.

No offence is taken if don't post - but I do believe that right now that having a thread of logs to be thrown on the collective psychic bonfire to keep the terror of the night away would not be a particularly bad thing.

So, on Monk's advice (which, as a law, I don't agree with whatsoever, but that is a thread for another place, time, and maybe life), I'd like to narrow down the criteria for the next two days.

Until Thursday midnight, GMT, I would like to restrict this down to examples of positivity in the World Media - this could be links to News websites, second-hand reportage of the day's news stories, anecdotal news - anything that's positive and proves that that the world is not always, and not everywhere, in shadow.

It doesn't have to be happy positive, either; it can be weird positive, silly positive, funny positive, Religious positive, even the Ananova Quirkies; it really doesn't matter. Post your links, tell your stories, stay positive, whatever!

Then, on Friday, I'll try and come up with stage 3, if it's still welcome. (Can you tell I'm still nervous?)
 
 
Quantum
10:50 / 29.03.06
Someone notices the importance and urgency of saving the environment?

Kyoto had been an "extraordinary achievement", Mr Blair said, but when it expires in 2012, a new agreement is needed that must be as "revolutionary almost as the internet was for information technology

Love the message, hate the messenger...
 
 
FinderWolf
16:58 / 29.03.06
Some people (over in Egypt, particularly) have been talking about the spiritual energies that are flying around because of the eclipse that happened over the pyramids -- perhaps there's a lot of positive energy out there in the past few days from that celestial event.
 
 
Olulabelle
20:35 / 29.03.06
The summer is coming, the air is warming up, I had the kitchen door open today. I recognised the sound of a wood-lark.

Someone else has been here in my head, for a while.

But the crocuses are out and I finally feel like me again, I feel good again. I haven't felt like that for sometime.
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
20:53 / 29.03.06
No wood-larks round here. Just crows and sparrows.

I started taking St. John's Wart and it seems to be improving my mood and ability to handle stress and anxiety.

I got to sleep in today and have a shower with somebody special.

I get to work with fun people tonight, and I've got a pile of books to read.

Been receiving messages from the 'verse again, as well. Feeling more in tune or something.
 
 
xytar with a Z
02:58 / 30.03.06
SAN FRANCISCO (AP) -- John Suhrhoff found a Louis Vuitton bag on a Sausalito park bench.

Inside, police say, were a 12-carat diamond ring, pearl and emerald jewelry, a Cartier watch and roughly $500 in cash. The contents were worth $1 million.

But the respiratory therapist didn't think of heading to a pawn shop - he took the bag to police Monday afternoon.

The bag is now en route to a Toronto family who had been in northern California for a wedding.

"Every person I know or associate with would have done the same thing," Suhrhoff, 56, said Tuesday. "I'm glad to be able to help."

Sausalito police said Suhrhoff had thought the bag contained costume jewelry.

It was unclear whether the family offered him a reward.
 
 
xytar with a Z
03:02 / 30.03.06
CURITIBA, Brazil — Brazil announced plans to expand protection of the Amazon rain forest at the opening of 11-day Global Environmental Conference.

Brazil's Environmental Ministry said late Sunday that 84,000 square miles of the Amazon rain forest -- an area about the size of Kansas -- would be declared a protected zone over the next three years.
 
 
Dead Megatron
09:06 / 30.03.06
And, incidentally, the first Brazilian astronaut has just been launched into space for a week in the International Space Station yesterday. This may not seem positive per se, but we Brazilians are quite pround.

Brazilians in space. Who'd know?
 
 
xytar with a Z
11:27 / 30.03.06
A moment of silence in grateful thanks.

I heard this morning that Jill Carroll Was released in Iraq.

I continue to pray for others held hostage, and all souls put in harms way.
 
  

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