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For reasons which will not become clear,* I am reading And God Created the Au Pair by Benedicte Newland and Pascale Smets. It's about the day-to-day life of two upper-class mothers, told in emails. The title has given me lots of thoughts about my Theory of Heterosexual Triangularity, but it was this bit I wanted to talk about (and this thread's for you, Flyboy):
Charlotte, the mother of Maddie, is discussing Maddie's upcoming birthday. Here are some extracts.
I'm having a little dressing table with fairy lights round the mirror made for her. Have been very crafty all week threading brightly coloured love beads onto florist wire, to make flowers to go round light. Looks lovely so far but have loads more to do & v time-consuming.
I have abandoned all pretence of looking after children & doing housework in favour of getting ready for Maddie's birthday party this w/e... in between making sodding wire flowers (why did I ever start?) I've been sewing 2 royal dresses and a prince's outfit for Hugh... Am now on the home run, making drawstring satin party bags while bewildered Ana Frid has been instructed to substitute ironing with cutting out golden crowns from cardboard for children to decorate with stick-on jewels when they arrive.
Maddie absolutely thrilled with her dressing table... The flowers looked lovely, until we turned the fairy lights on. Unfortunately as I am not a great inventor in ilk of James Dyson had not foreseen that when the lights are left on for more than a few minutes at a time the heat from the bulbs (which is v efficiently conducted via the central metal washers) melts all the glue holding the petals together... Came down to find... mixture of hot melting glue, florist wire & love beads dropping off metal washers onto the dressing-table top.
What struck me about this episode is that our sympathy and self-deprecating identification is evoked (unsuccessfully, in my case) almost entirely through very classed markers. Would it be possible to get sympathy for a mother who 'abandoned all pretence at looking after her children' in order to waste a huge amount of labour on procuring a birthday present which immediately falls apart? I suspect if the objects in the passages above were replaced with objects associated with a working-class aesthetic, the episode would be far more likely to signify the fecklessness and incompetence of the mother.
So, apart from just wanting to bitch about how annoying I find upper-class characters in books, this is a thread to talk about how class affects our identification in reading (maybe as a companion to the thread on gendered identification). I suppose there are two main questions here:
how are classed markers used by writers to (successfully or unsuccessfully) solicit the reader's sympathy/identification?
how do we, in practice, identify with/read writing which is strongly marked as classed? What examples are there of books which have turned people off - or on - specifically through class?
Just to kick off briefly (if people are interested, I can talk more about these), a couple of examples: I'm constantly alienated by the way Ruth Rendell shapes her dialogue with her audience through classed markers (for example, assuming a shared knowledge of Renaissance painting but slowing down to explain what ketchup is). I feel I'm being addressed specifically as a member of the upper-middle-classes. Which I suppose I am, but because my areas of knowledge and practice don't map onto Rendell's classed assumptions, that address is both noticeable and unsuccessful.
Melissa Lukashenko's book Steam Pigs, on the other hand, opens with a brief section about the experience of getting a car on hire-purchase which is just stunning, and which made me re-think the classedness of my own experience of money and possessions, moving the question away from discourses of 'fecklessness', thrift, etc and resituating it very economically and beautifully in terms of, well, class.
*Okay, this is the reason: I read books that annoy me when I'm depressed and/or stressed. They create just enough white noise in my brain to drug me through the stressful times. |
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