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Near Death Experiences and a New Lease on Life: Malarky!

 
 
Bastard Tweed
17:43 / 20.02.06
Last night I was in a car crash which was shortly followed by a second car crash. If I'd been standing three feet to left I, in all likelyhood, would have been killed/maimed/crippled for life.

People always talk about how they've had near-death experiences giving them a newfound appreciation for the joys of life but the only thing I feel is pissed off, terribly inconvenienced, and a bit sore. So how near does this death experience phenomenon have to be anyway? Inches rather than feet? Is an out of body experience or one's heart stopping for a minute or two a prerequisite? Just what magical ingredient am I missing here?
 
 
ShadowSax
17:50 / 20.02.06
i think yours qualifies, but it doesnt always happen all at once. give it some time.

i had a near death experience that took a full year to result in something like a new outlook. it might be that the closer you come to death, the longer it takes to get over the fun supplemental feelings such as anger and the soreness, before you get to feeling new and all that lifechanging stuff. so you might want to prepare for a catharis some time in 2013. i think thats about right for 2 car crashes.

p.s. congrats on making it!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:53 / 20.02.06
Hang on, Saxy... you mean you weren't a misogynist until you had a near-death experience? Did you narrowly escape being eaten by a huge, terrifying, devouring vagina?
 
 
8===>Q: alyn
18:10 / 20.02.06
http://www.emedicine.com/med/topic1900.htm
 
 
All Acting Regiment
18:32 / 20.02.06
Haus! Stop it! Don't talk about Robert Kilroy like that!
 
 
Tuna Ghost: Pratt knot hero
19:26 / 20.02.06
The few near-death experiences I've had all involve impending car accidents (unless you count drug induced periods of fear and paranoia during which I thought I was going to die). None of them led to a greater appreciation of life and its mysteries.

I have been told fairly frequently to appreciate life "'cause it could be gone like that! [snaps fingers]". When I came inches from being crushed between two cars or driven into a concrete wall, I just thought "I guess that's what they were talking about". It was all over so quick I can't really say I learned anything from it. Except about cars. And drivers, I guess.
 
 
Spyder Todd 2008
15:35 / 21.02.06
I'm clearly a cynic, but I've had four or five instances where I was about a half second from being horribly killed. And honestly? It never really bothers me much. Sure, at the time, it's a bit intense. But I've never had a "oh, life is beautiful and I must change my ways" kind of experience. But I fear not the sting of death. Because I am HARD. Like a turtleshell.
 
 
Smoothly
15:43 / 21.02.06
I know what you mean, Spyder.

If I'd been standing three feet to left I, in all likelyhood, would have been killed/maimed/crippled for life.

Pah! You’re that close to death every time you catch a tube.
 
 
Icicle
15:50 / 21.02.06
Aren't there two types of near death experiences, those in which someone comes close to death, and those in which someone literally dies, i.e their heart stops, and have some sort of spiritual experience, before they are brought back to life.
I've read about people who've actually died who totatally changed their lives, and outlook, but perhaps coming close to death isn't always this intense. Though at times, I'm sure it can be.
 
 
Smoothly
15:51 / 21.02.06
People have "actually died" and come back to life?
 
 
ShadowSax
15:59 / 21.02.06
People have "actually died" and come back to life?

"died" is such a tricky term. hearts stop beating, lungs stop breathing. i think the generally understood event is when someone flatlines and is then revived on the operating table, things like that. they sometimes come back describing white lights and other visions. or, they may have "out of body" experiences, where they claim to see themselves lying there being worked on by medical staff, for instance. they could be explained as dissociative events.

then, there are the near death experiences where one "sees their life flash before them". some sort of human lightswitch flipped at the moment of incoming death realization that triggers something like a "is this all there is?" pattern in their heads that instantly remembers milestones from their lives.

i've heard that some dreams are nearly instantaneous, memory events, not sleeping narratives. sort of like that.

"near death," basically, is whatever one makes of it. if a person felt their life was in danger, any resulting feelings or conclusions about life or philosophy can be attributed to having had a near death experience.
 
 
Malarki
19:42 / 21.02.06
Did someone call?
 
  
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