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In my experience (shut up) sisters, assuming they get on well together, look out for eachother. I think that's a bloody good thing, actually, as I've seen it used as defence against particularly odious blokes in the past- not that I or anyone else is exactly perfect, but I'm talking about situations where a woman's sister warned her off a real monster, and without that input she'd have ended up in an abusive relationship.
The close family bonds form a whalemouth-like seive to filter out the bastardo but sometimes a bit of perfectly healthy, tasty plankton can get left outside (I'm struggling for analogies here)...sometimes it seems that decent people, as I'm sure Triplets is, can get the cold shoulder because of this defense mechanism. J's sister has maybe somehow picked up the idea that you're not a good bloke.
What I'm saying is that if this is the case, and you end up not seeing J, at least you know that she's less likely to be going out with complete fucking cretins.
On the other hand, there's also the possibility that her sister envies her or is manipulative/nasty in some otherway, in which case you've got the reverse, negative effect. You're obviously the one in a position to try and make this distinction.
Also, what sort of ages are we talking here, if that's not too much of a prurient question? Because this sort of thing happens all the time among my gang of young shits and at 19 the turmoil's not neccesarily bad, just a byproduct of everyone working out who they are and what they want (and all that crap, why don't they worry about bills etc). Things can be on/off like a flickering bulb, and that's natural. Whereas the more "mature" the people involved are, the more serious it seems. Possibly. More experienced people might disagree, please go ahead. |
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