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I just want to say that... I know I've been a bit wrong lately in the way I've expressed certain things and interacted with certain people. Specifically Ganesh. Normally when people say things like "Ooh, it's very easy to become entrenched and combative and it does nobody any good" I find that even after examining everything again, I still feel exactly the same way. But recently it has been pointed out to me that carrying on with letting my irritation at past discussions get the better of me is not doing anyone any good, and this time I think there's a lot of truth in that.
It's not that I've changed my view of What Happened With ShadowSax etc. - although I'm wondering if I ever expressed that view properly. I suppose I've known for a while that what I actually need to do is write some long and thought-out and relatively calm posts in, say, the ShadowSax Aftermath thread. Rather than just seething and letting that out in not particularly useful ways.
And yes, this is partly motivated by seeing your post in the Do Dirt thread in the Gathering and asking myself "Do you really want to stay annoyed with someone to the extent that you can't take a compliment? Would you really want someone to stay away for that reason?" (not that anyone might not have other reasons!). Funnily enough, I nearly added an addendum to the first post in that thread saying "Even if we have online beef, come along and we can make peace" - I suppose that applies more widely as well. And not just 'cos I want the numbers. |
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