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Science has never been my strong suit; I have even read a couple of books about genetics but most of it sailed over my head, and what didn't failed to stick. So, I can't add anything on the science front, but I can speak a little about identical twins and personality.
I have identical 2 year old twin boys. As I understand it this means that they are absolutely identical when it comes to their genes and DNA. Their nurture has been, if not identical, then extremely similar.
But over the course of the 2 years we have noticed differences in their personalities - one, for example, is a little more self-contained than the other and will happily be absorbed in playing on his own, while his brother will seek out company. One is readier with smiles for strangers while his brother is a little more shy. One is a reckless climber while the other keeps his feet on the ground. One will happily try new food, while his brother is a conservative eater. Obviously, this is fairly broad brush, and I can't be certain that I am not describing differences in behaviour rather than personality, but the totality is that I have 2 quite different little boys.
These personality/behavioural differences became apparent in the first year of their lives and I just can't for the life of me work out what accounts for the differences. Friends of ours also have identical twins around the same age and have noticed personality differences in their own children. For them, as practising Christians, they are proof of the existence of the soul, and, to be honest, I don't have a better answer. |
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