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Advice for a break-in

 
 
Mono
14:32 / 06.12.05
I'm double posting this in Convo, but want specific magical advice, Mods feel free to bump anything around...

So,here is the background story:
My house was broken into through the garden on Sunday night while everyone was home and asleep (except me, of course...gotta love insomnia, right?) I heard the person(s) come in and sneak around for a while before i realized it wasn't just another housemate getting a midnight snack or something. I wokr the SO and we went into the stairwell, turned on the light and heard footsteps and the frontdoor slam. Not too much missing (my bag was trshed & bank card gone, SO's digital camera was stolen)

Needless to say we're all a bit freaked out at the moment, waking up at every noise in the night and generally feel a bit voilated.

anyone have any advice for some simple space clearing/house protection rituals? special incence/herbs/oils to have burning? anything would be a real help!

thanks,
m
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
15:10 / 06.12.05
I'm so sorry--that sounds horrible.

Smudging the area down with sage is a good start. You should be able to pick up some sage smudge from any New Age/magicky type shop near you. (Try and find white sage--garden sage is fine, but tends to provoke allergies.) I would use the smoke to trace protective signs in the air: the Algiz rune is good, as is the hammer-sign (an upside-down capital T). Or you might know of another symbol that's more meaningful to you.

You can also buy cleansing and protecting room-sprays in aerosol form.

You might also try a floor-wash. Hyssop is a good herb to use; infuse it in the water. You could also use salt or buy a cleansing floor-wash. Scrub using a scrubbing brush, working from the back of the house towards the front door.
 
 
Mono
15:31 / 06.12.05
Thanks MC! i was actually planning to hunt down some good sage tomorrow...the floor scrubbing idea is great, too.
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
15:35 / 06.12.05
Available for house cleansings, heavy protection mojo, attempts to retrieve stolen goods, weddings and bar mitzvahs. Prices reasonable and negotiable.
 
 
trouser the trouserian
15:50 / 06.12.05
Get some friends round and do something fun! I've found it helps to 'reclaim' the space with a fresh infusion of happy vibes.
 
 
EvskiG
17:14 / 06.12.05
Trouser's "do something fun" idea sounds like a good magical housecleaning.

To prevent a burglary you don't have to make your house impregnable -- you just have to make the burglar think it would be less trouble to rob another house instead.

Accordingly, anything magical that makes a burglar think twice about robbing your house might be helpful -- for example, the protective sigil of your choice on the doors and windows. Here in the U.S., a common sigil is a sticker that says "Member of the National Rifle Association," "House protected by Smith & Wesson," or "Never mind the dog -- beware of owner!"

Of course, the best PRACTICAL steps are as follows: (1) strong locks on the garden door and any other entrances, (2) an alarm system, and (3) a dog of any kind (provided that it barks). Any of these should help you and your housemates feel more secure.
 
 
tigergirl
19:36 / 06.12.05
i'm so sorry to hear about your unfortunate circumstances, glad no one was hurt!

the advice already given to smudge with sage and cleanse with hyssop is right on! i am also a strong believer in taoist magick and feng shui as i have seen incredible results manifest in my work since practicing. according to feng shui practices place a rhinoceros image or figurine near your front door looking out, or in your living room area to prevent robbery and accidents from happening in the first place, this also works well for your car too.
 
 
Cat Chant
10:00 / 07.12.05
Me and Tangent clean bad influences out of our house fairly regularly, since we both have a tendency when depressed to come home trailing low-level malevolent, um, things (we call them 'black dogs'). We use a ritual her friend taught her. I don't know that much of the thinking behind it, but it usually works (in the sense that I generally feel lighter and lighter as the ritual goes on, and sometimes feel a huge rush of euphoria at the very end).

You need a knife (I guess you could use your magical knife if you had one, we use our everyday knife because that makes more sense to us) and some salt in a little container (you'll have to guess how much salt you need - you throw the last bits out of the front door/main entrance to the house or flat).

Put your shield on at the beginning and the end of the ritual, in whatever way works for you.

Pass the knife under running water 3 times to clean it/dedicate it. Then go round every room of the house, in whatever order makes the most sense for you to end up at the front door. At every potential point of entry into the house(windows, doors, fireplaces/chimneys, vents, computer/TV screens, any particularly significant pictures etc - I do toilets and sinks as well because they scare me), do this:

stand facing the window (or whatever), a few feet back from it (or wherever you can reach). Draw a line in the air, running horizontally from one side of the window to the other, with the knife, then throw a pinch of salt at the window. Say 'In the name of the maiden, and of the mother, and of the crone' while you do this.

When you do internal doors, 'seal' them from the inside, so that you chase all the bad stuff out of the room.

Do the front door/main entrance last and throw all the remaining salt out.

Then eat some chocolate.

Like I say, I don't know much about how this works, but it always seems to work for me. I hope whatever you do it works well - what a horrible experience. Good luck.
 
 
beautifultoxin
10:56 / 07.12.05
Sorry to hear this -- and glad you & yours are safe if not a bit shaken.

For good sleep, the bowl of water under the bed where the pillow would be trick really does work for me. Offer the water to the garden when it starts to feel "used up" and refresh -- rosewater for that might add even sweeter sleep. I'd charge some small token objects and plant them at the four corners of your home/land and offer some liquor or a cig for Whoever Tends the Garden to lift their spirits, too.

(And eat chocolate, and sing some Cocteau Twins.)
 
 
Chiropteran
12:31 / 07.12.05
Mono, that's awful about the break-in. The loss of peace of mind can be shattering, but it does get better with time.

You're in a house, yes - not just an apartment in a larger building? For a good, traditional 'perimeter defense,' see if you can get ahold of four packages of Red Devil brand lye (it used to come in boxes - I think it's plastic canisters, now). Bury one (sealed) container at each of the four main corners of the house, with the devil image facing outwards. Lye is strong stuff, and especially recommended for fending off intruders.
 
 
Imaginary Mongoose Solutions
00:30 / 08.12.05
Many good ideas here, but I fall into Trouser's camp. Have fun, throw a party. There are few better ways to reclaim a space in my opinion than to have a good blow out.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
03:18 / 08.12.05
I remember once years ago moving into a new flat, and the girl I was moving in with wanted to do some kind of cleansing ceremony, to which (I think it was) Tango-Mango replied "well, if the point's just to fill the house with nice energy or whatever, why not just invite all your mates round and have a nice evening"? Which seemed to make an awful lot of sense. So yes, I'm with Trouser on this one.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
20:43 / 08.12.05
I've been trying to come up with a way of combining various purifying agents with bubble-mixture. Perfect for this sort of sitch.
 
 
Royal McBee
20:50 / 08.12.05
What an awful thing to happen. Fortunately nobody got hurt…

I agree with Trouser – Best thing to do is claim the place as yours. Have fun, make an opening, a party, a jam, a RPG session, something like that.

But, if you may use my own experience as a suggestion, I had problems with security when I lived in a house and then my kung fu teacher gave me a state of Kwan Gong (a protective saint from China, or its War god, if you prefer). I’ve made an altar for him, and started offering incense every night. I had no more problems since then. So that I kept Kwan Gong with me - even when I moved to an apartment.

So, I recommend you to get some kind of protective deity and worship it at your home. Hinduism has Lord Nrsimadeva (the lion god) as ultimate protector. Brazilian candomble has São Jorge (Saint George?), the dragon-slayer.

Find a icon that is familiar to you (if it works, use it) and do some praising. This may help.

Hey, putting together both suggestions, you could get an altar and have a party to inaugurate it.
 
 
gravitybitch
19:27 / 11.12.05
This may be a little late, but I thought I'd throw in my two cents' worth of ritual for cleansing and brightening a space.

I go around the perimeter of the place three times anti-clockwise, starting just past the main door. The first time through is with a bell or cymbals (tingsha are great if you've got 'em) - noisemakers to wake stuff up and get any stagnant energy moving. Second time through is with a white candle to chase the shadows away, and the third time through is with a sweet incense - something to invite in good energy. (And for those times that my lungs aren't up to handling the incense, I go round with a feather fan - it's brightly colored, decorative, has beads and ribbons and ittybitty bells on it; serves to bring in the pretty just as well.) If you can, leave the door open a crack so that the stuff you move with the bell and candle has an exit; if that's not possible due to pets/ small children/ whatever, you can open the door for a couple of seconds and herd the stuff out or just declare the door to be open energetically/ the perimeter to be permeable right there, and then seal it up again when you're done.

A friend used to cut lemons in half, stand them cut-side-up in bowls of salt, and leave them in the corners of the room for a couple of days to a week...

Good luck!
 
  
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