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I'm a part-time research student, and am supposed to be working half-time on my job and half-time on my thesis. Ha ha. In order to make ends meet, I have ended up taking on a great deal of extra paid work - so much that I have been at work late several nights a week ever since January, and still have to take holiday to get any academic work done whatsoever. This is frustrating, as I end up getting home at nine or later, eating, and not getting anything done before my eyes start shutting...
I would say that financial security is absolutely vital. Money is a huge source of stress, so I think it is good that you are both continuing employment. Your tutors will understand the pressures that this causes. It's also good that you are both doing it because you will be able to be mutually supportive - I think the need to spend vast amounts of time with one's head down can put a strain on relationships. It's really important to keep plenty of time for yourselves, even though the guilty feelings 'I should be doing work now' are quite strong... you need time to cook properly, do the housework, get out of the house, etc. Otherwise you can go potty and get very miserable.
So I would advocate setting a basic timetable and trying to stick to it. But it should be flexible enough that, if you fancy going to the pub at a 'study' time, you can rearrange things to suit. Allocate a number of hours each week to it and try to make sure you do those hours (I am really, really rubbish at this but it is still a good idea). And it is worth remembering that, when studying, one always feels as though there is so much more one should be doing, no matter how much time there is. So don't strain because you 'feel you should be doing more'. There is always more you could do, but if you try to do it all you won't succeed. No point making yourselves ill!
I am really bad at all this and should learn to take my own advice. |
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