Relax folks, I'm throwing out an (admittedly far-out) academic possibility rather than impuning anyone's right to sleep with their chosen selection of lifeforms (or not). I'll clarify, say you've got two scales, one which increases to the left and represents attraction to guys, one which increases to the right and represents attraction to girls. One scale above the other, both the same length. You (yes you) occupy a position somewhere between the far left and right with the first being fully attracted to guys and the latter being fully attracted to girls. If you're in the middle you're bisexual.
But where's the middle? where does the middle end and the ends begin? If sexuality is a scale the term 'bisexual' is meaningless because the vast proportion of the population will be bisexual and only the rare few will be completely gay or straight. If chemical attraction is a scale, bisexuality doesn't mean anything. It's like saying you're not albino.
Unless there is some idea, some archetype, of bisexuality to which people can identify, as there are for straight guys and girls, and gay people of either gender. I realise that these archetypes have definite effects on socialisation, but that isn't to say that that archetype is based on cold, hard, chemical fact, because it may not be*.
If chemical attractiveness is continuous, rather than discrete, bisexuality as a useful scientific term ceases to exist. Which I think would be kind of liberating and inclusive. And by the way...
...I'm definitely -not- albino.
ok?
*although we could get into how socialisation enforces behavioral change and how that might effect brain chemistry. |