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Pros and cons of owning a pet

 
 
Jack Denfeld
14:44 / 08.04.05
I kind of want a little puppy dog. I like cats, but I'm allergic. What are the pros and cons of owning a pet? The one main reason I have never seriously looked into getting a pet, is that I'm afraid it would die eventually while I was still alive, and I think that would suck.
 
 
Aertho
15:06 / 08.04.05
Never get just one pet. Happy pets need each other, and no amount of your time will suffice. My advice to anyone thinking of getting a pet, "get another".

Also: assess the run-around capability of your home and property. If you think you have a suitable yard for a medium sized breed, get a smaller one. I personally think that though large dogs are wunnerful(I was raised on big monstrous black Labs), no one should own them if they have less than five acres and/or a shitty neighbor. Animals need to explore and roam, and interact with the neighborhood kids.

I say get a small dog and treat it like it's a big dog. Terriers are only terrible if you let them be so. My parents have two Jack Russels that are the most carry-me docile things I've seen.
 
 
Jack Denfeld
15:43 / 08.04.05
Are there any tiny bulldogs?
 
 
ibis the being
17:02 / 08.04.05
Yeah, they're called pugs.
 
 
Aertho
17:25 / 08.04.05
Exactly right. Get a pug.
 
 
Jack Denfeld
17:54 / 08.04.05
Don't they have icky eyeballs?
 
 
Jack Denfeld
18:01 / 08.04.05
What about a french bulldog? They look smallish, don't have icky eyes, and don't look slobbery like a regular bulldog.
 
 
Mr Tricks
18:53 / 08.04.05
Boston Terriers are slightly bigger than pugs, a bit more robust and less prone to as many health problem later in life.


However, as an owner of one huge dog AND her (even huger offspring) I must caution you that this is something you should not enter into lightly.

It's a total lifestyle choice that will effect EVERY aspect if your life. If it doesn't, then it may be, you'd be doing something incorrect.

While I personally don't have as large a yard as was recommended above, where I live has a park across the street and plenty of access to hiking and dog friendly parks & beaches for the weekends. I would recommend researching such factors in your area.
Are you a home owner?
If you're not then keep in mind that even the smallest dog may well cut your apartment hunting options down to as much as 30%.
Size isn't everything; a Jack Russle Terrier (made famous in films like THE MASK) would probably do more damage to one's apartment that a Golden Retriever that's about 3 times its size. Research the temperament of your potential pet's breed so you're not surprised by a destructive little pet that ends up rejected. Personally I think it's tragic that people will pay hundreds of dollars for a specific breed while local shelters are faced with the decision of killing animals they can't GIVE AWAY, on a daily basis.

Resolve yourself to the fact that this pet, you love, will break your heart. You will outlive it. You must eventually face its mortality, not just the "hit by a car" type of loss but also the gradual slide into old age and the choices associated with it. With that in mind you can also expect to bask in a unique inhuman kind of love.

You'll be challenged on many levels. A pet will observe you keenly and "push your buttons" in ways few if any others could. Socially you may be faced with choosing whether to exclude your pet or not, planning your vacations, visiting friends, going to the movies, etc. they will (or should) all be affected by this pet. Even the "cleanliness" of your home will be affected by shedding fur or muddy paws. Then of course there's picking up Dog shit as well.

There's money factors as well. There are the costs of vaccines, food and perhaps training. When it came time to buy a new car I had to factor the dogs my girlfriend was faced with the same decision when it was her turn. Things will come up that you wouldn't even imagine.

Still, after all I've said, I love my dogs greatly and there's nothing like a camping trip with them, or a walk on the beach, or just spending a sunday morning watching them tear their latest toy to pieces in the living room. Good luck, the world of dogs needs more good humans and less foolish ones.
 
 
bitchiekittie
18:55 / 08.04.05
are you sure you're not allergic to dogs, too? I have two cats, even though I'm allergic (it's worth it! ...though my meds bills are starting to get a bit steep). I didn't seem to have much trouble being around dogs, until I went to the house of a friend-of-a-friend. though their house was very clean and the furniture was visually free from dog hair, within minutes I found myself pitched into one of the worst allergy-related asthma attacks I've ever had in my life. they had recently vacuumed, so I went again at another time, and it was nearly as bad.

I also recently got rats, and didn't realize until they were bigger that I was horribly allergic to them. I can barely hold them, because I react so severely to them.

my pets bring me great joy, though. so if you DO get a dog (or another pet), please make sure to spend a good deal of time with it before you do, just in case!
 
 
Jack Denfeld
19:11 / 08.04.05
are you sure you're not allergic to dogs, too?
Positive. When I was very little, my nose was always runny, and eventually I went to an allergist who gave me a ton of shots and we found out I was allergic to cats, dust, and mildew.
 
 
Jack Denfeld
19:12 / 08.04.05
Resolve yourself to the fact that this pet, you love, will break your heart. You will outlive it. You must eventually face its mortality
That's the scariest part. That might be the deal breaker more than anything else. It just sounds awful.
 
 
Triplets
19:30 / 08.04.05
I dunno, you sound like someone who can handle it.

For me it was a very blue on and off two months, but; it's like any other relationship you start up: at some point it's going to end, possibly in a mortal way. Such iz life.
 
 
Jack Denfeld
19:55 / 08.04.05
Do they make vampire dogs?
 
 
Pooky Is Just My Pornstar Name
22:13 / 08.04.05
No, but there are vampire bunny rabbits. Behold Bunnicula!.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
22:41 / 08.04.05
These are the best pets in the world:




Dogs- pah, get a cat-dog aka siamese.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
22:42 / 08.04.05
Of course, it rather depends on the severity of your allergies...
 
 
Alex's Grandma
23:42 / 08.04.05
Well if it's a girl you'll just worry all the time, and if it's a boy, it will want kill you and sleep with your wife,
 
 
Olulabelle
00:20 / 09.04.05
Yes, get a pet, but get a dog. Dogs have families, cats have staff.
 
 
Aertho
00:30 / 09.04.05
Oh Lula, that's brilliant. And so, so true.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
00:36 / 09.04.05
Totally true.

Ask yourself- can you make this dog the most important thing in your life? As if it was your child, or your brother? Cos if you can, it's well worth it, for both of you.
 
 
Olulabelle
00:59 / 09.04.05
*Sadly thinks of Biscuits and wishes Stoatie felt ready to get new, different but just as lovely dog.

Looks at own dog. Dog wags tail due to look. (Just look, no conversation.) Dog leaps out of bed, bounds over, puts one paw on lap, skitters off, runs to dog-flap and puts head (just head) outside. Then pulls head back in due to obvious freezingness, gets back in bed and sighs.
*

Dogs absolutely rock.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
01:08 / 09.04.05
Absorockinglutely.
 
 
Liger Null
01:22 / 09.04.05
Have you considered getting something smaller and working your way "up"? You know, start with a goldfish, graduate to a gerbil or a parakeet, etc. Once you get used to the idea of having animals that depend on you, get a nice mixed-breed dog from the animal shelter(had to throw that in, so many homeless pups, so few homes)
 
 
lekvar
21:43 / 09.04.05
Get a plant. A spiderplant. Indestructable, easy to take care of, non-allergenic. Won't claw your furniture or piss in inappropriate places.
 
 
astrojax69
05:00 / 10.04.05
what about a lizard? or tortoise?

pet spiders will freak out all your friends until you don't have any, so don't get one of those (unless you either have no friends already, in which case the status quo is likey to be maintained, or you don't like the friends you have and want to find a way to dispose of them)
 
 
Triplets
09:50 / 10.04.05
If you get a spider and post pictures I will kill you, to death
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
12:19 / 10.04.05
Seconding Triplets and adding: "IN THE FACE".
 
 
ibis the being
15:43 / 10.04.05
Have you considered getting something smaller and working your way "up"? You know, start with a goldfish, graduate to a gerbil or a parakeet, etc.

Let me just say that the idea of fish as low-maintenance is patently false. Dogs would be low maintenance, too, if you just bought one, let it die after a few weeks of haphazard care, and ran out to the pet store for a new one. Sure, get an easy pet - but don't get a fish unless you want to become an amateur chemist. Trust me.
 
  
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