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Cry, Baby.

 
  

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D Terminator XXXIII
22:35 / 25.02.05
Hangover time makes me all emotional. I can cry and laugh and cry with Finding Nemo.

But my recent find - rediscovery, ack-sher-lleh - is City Lights. When Chaplin smiles at the blind girl at the end, I can no longer excert any physical control and just have to weep deeply. Repeatedly. - More when I'm slightly less tired.

What makes you cry. Details as to why, please.
 
 
Brigade du jour
23:05 / 25.02.05
Spider-Man - the scene in Sam Raimi's car where Cliff Robertson offers Tobey Maguire a fatherly hand of friendship (kindly disregard all the double entendre noncery possibilities of that expression) and Tobey basically tells him to fuck off.

It's the look on Cliff's face, though, he is totally crushed. I'm sure I've done that to people when I was a snivelling adolescent (as opposed to a snivelling adult) and the guilt all comes flooding back through my recalcitrant ducts.
 
 
Billuccho!
23:19 / 25.02.05
No one will believe this, but, Stuck on You, the Farrelly Brothers comedy aboot conjoined twins Damon and Kinnear, by gum, it made me well up with all the separation and melancholia and all that. I never saw that coming.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, in parts, because, dammit, everyone should feel that in a romance.

And yes, certain episodes of Buffy: she kills Angel, Jonathan gives her the award at the prom (gets me *every* time, and I've seen that one a dozen times), she dies...
 
 
Brigade du jour
23:46 / 25.02.05
Funny you should mention the Farrelly brothers - Me Myself & Irene actually got to me once or twice. Early on when he's bonding with his sons, that made me gooey. Mind you, I'm sucker for father-son tearjerker moments.

(threadrot)I think the Farrelly brothers are as good as the Coen brothers, but no one ever takes me seriously ...(threadrot)
 
 
PatrickMM
00:33 / 26.02.05
In that prom episode when Angel comes back, even the first time watching it, I pretty much knew he'd be there, but when it happens, ah, it gets me every time. Also, in The Body, Anya's speech.

Some of these aren't actual crying, but pretty close. In Leon, when Mathilda is knocking on his door and he has to decide whether to let her in or let her die. Just seeing her crying...

Edward Scissorhands, the ending. The Office, in the last special, when Dawn comes back. The end of Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Cowboy Bebop, when Faye and Spike talk in the last episode.
 
 
D Terminator XXXIII
09:48 / 26.02.05
With a lil' more time between typing hands, let me modify just why the end of City Lights breaks my heart. The poor Tramp - and here the word poor can be utilized for his situation in more than one way; shocking, I know - has endured an abusive, alcoholic friend, taken on dead end jobs (the boxing match being the comedic highlight), and has spent time in the jail, quite wrongfully -- all of it for the sake of the blind girl. She thinks he's a rich socialite, we know he's not. The girl can now see, because of the Tramp's determination and help, and has started up a fancy flower shop that the Tramp happens to go by.

As he catches a glimpse of her and delivers one of the most heartbreaking and heartwarming smiles, she takes pity on the Tramp and goes out to give him a flower and a coin. As she takes his hand, she notices the hand that she has held so often while blind and realizes that the wealthy socialite is the Tramp.

Cinematic romance doesn't come much more intense; the idea that he's willing to sacrifice so much of himself for her smile and well being entices my butch, butch tears. I had forgotten how brutal the Chaplin universe can be, and how twisted and perverse it occassionally is - if the socialite party isn't an allegorical orgy, I'll eat my shorts.


Vera Drake and Dancer in the Dark are two disgustingly visceral experiences. When the latter was over, I was so disorientated from grief that I forgot to take my bag with me from the cinema. Devastating.

And have you seen In America lately? I defy you not to cry.
 
 
Foust is SO authentic
11:58 / 26.02.05
Dead Poets Society. Oh captain my captain!

Admit it. You bawled like babies.
 
 
Brigade du jour
22:07 / 26.02.05
The bit in The Exorcist where detective Lee J Cobb is questioning movie star Ellen Burstyn about a murder, which probably occurred in her house. It's quite late in the film and he clearly senses that she's upset about something, but then she tells him her daughter's 'really sick' which just makes the whole thing more uncomfortable.

Sublime acting from these two, and when he asks for her autograph, all nervous starstruck shoegazing and turning his hat over in his hands, and they spend five minutes looking for a pen, and then she finally finds one and asks who to dedicate it to. "I lied, it's for me!" Should almost be sort of creepy, but it's just so sweet. Aww bless!
 
 
Spaniel
08:23 / 27.02.05
Admit it. You bawled like babies.

I hope you're joking.
 
 
Tamayyurt
17:01 / 27.02.05
Dancer in the Dark
 
 
Triplets
17:34 / 27.02.05
Terminator 2, when John Connor has to say goodbye to the greatest dad he never had!.

"I HAVE TO GO NOW"

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*thumbs up*




T2 really connected with the "Ultimate Father Figure" archetype, didn't it?
 
 
Bastard Tweed
20:17 / 27.02.05
That last rainy battle in Seven Samurai always gets me. How as it all goes on and everyone becomes more mudstained and less recognizable they just drop all pretension of any higher purpose and meaning for the fight (For the samurai and the bandits, I mean. They do it because they HAVE to do it). Particularly the fencing expert; when he's been shot and uses his last ounce of strength to throw away his sword. Such a potent image.

I dunno. Maybe an emotional reaction shouldn't be that abstractly specific. But still, that last fight always gets a few tears out of me.
 
 
Yotsuba & Benjamin!
20:50 / 27.02.05
And have you seen In America lately? I defy you not to cry.

OMFG. When she's all "I've carried this family on my back for over a year," I was knocked out of my couch. That girl was astoundingly good. Even made "Desperado" the sweetest song of all time.
 
 
Haus of Mystery
09:53 / 28.02.05
Ther last two films to have made me cry in the last 10-15 years wer the elephant Man and Menace II Society. Both at the end - The Elephant man just had me in floods of tears with the sad nobility of Merrick's death, whereas Menace's uber-bleak ending gutted me so much that I ended up choking back tears. I'm not sure, having seen other Hughes bros films, whether it was merited, but at the time I found it incredibly sad.
 
 
Brigade du jour
12:14 / 28.02.05
The Elephant Man, of course! The bit where he goes for tea with Hopkins and Hannah Gordon prompts a wobbly lip, but yes it's the end that really spins open the cry-taps.
 
 
Benny the Ball
17:00 / 28.02.05
MacGyver, you star! As a child I watched ET and told my sister to stop sniverling over a stupid puppet. Then watched Elephant Man and cried like a, well, the child I was. That film gets me everytime. I just have to think about the ending and I'm off.

I had the goosebumps but not the actual tears in the following;

Cool Runnings - when they pick up the bobsleigh
Conspiracy Theory - this was an odd one, as I wasn't really even enjoying the film, but the bit where Julia Roberts starts crying out for help because she thinks that Mel's bought it, that got me for some reason.
 
 
grant
19:14 / 28.02.05
That Terminator 2 thing reminds me of the real deal:

Iron Giant

for the line "Su-per-man".

Damn, I'm getting weepy at my desk.
 
 
Liger Null
23:08 / 28.02.05
Gosh, so many...

That scene in Hero where Snow kills Broken Sword and then herself. The scene in Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon when Zhang Ziyi arrives too late with the antidote, and Chow Yun Fat dies. Kate Winslet's death in Quills.

But what never fails to get me is Dumbo, when he goes to visit his mother in the mad elephant jail, and she rocks him to sleep.
 
 
Spaniel
06:33 / 01.03.05
God, there's some horrid films on this thread, but I'd like to congratulate everyone on their honesty.
 
 
Jack Vincennes
10:46 / 01.03.05
there's some horrid films on this thread

That was the worst thing about In America for me, I didn't even like it very much. I was weeping like a little child, and all the while trying to point out that "I don't *sniff* normally *fnnarrr* get worked up about *urgle* manipulative, sentimental...". Truly undignified.
 
 
Hattie's Kitchen
11:24 / 01.03.05
The ending of Midnight Cowboy always sets me off, when Joe Buck and Ratso are finally on their way to Florida and Ratso dies just before they get there.

Another nod to Dumbo. Those little elephant tears are heartbreaking.

And, weirdly, the bit in Fatal Attraction when Michael Douglas and his wife are in a screaming match after she's found out about his affair, and they stop and see that their little kid has been watching the whole thing.
 
 
Haus of Mystery
11:45 / 01.03.05
I'd cry if Michael 'saggy-arse' Douglas was my Dad.
 
 
Spaniel
12:01 / 01.03.05
Vincennes, I'm not suggesting anyone should feel guilty. Shit films are more likely to make us cry 'cause they're usually sentimental and manipulative and, well, there's just so many of them. Basically the odds are stacked against us.

The last film to make me cry was Together, but in a *good* way.
 
 
Jack Vincennes
13:26 / 01.03.05
Oh, by no means taken as a call to guilt! Your post just reminded me of the fury I felt over such copious weeping at a film I considered mawkish, when I so rarely cry at movies I find genuinely sad...
 
 
Spaniel
13:42 / 01.03.05
Yeah, Lilya Forever really upset me - freaked me out horribly - but there were no tears.

It seems to me that crying is often an exercise in self-indulgence; Some things are just too genuinely distressing for tears.
 
 
Rev. Orr
22:39 / 02.03.05
To be honest, the answer is 'Cyrano de Bergerac' but to mention only a subtitled film does sound like I should be wearing a black polo-neck. Basically, in the right mood, any old shit can get my face leaking. I cry over fanfic, for fuck's sake. However, for some reason, ol'warthog-face stumbling around in the gathering gloom challenging Death to face him like a man punches me in the guts every single time. It's not the romance or the tragedy, it's the magnificent folly, the grandeur, the sheer fucked-up glory of spitting in the face of reason. The man's Begbie with a florid turn of phrase, so emotionally stunted that the only women he can cope with are nuns and yet, somehow, at the end, he makes it work.
 
 
Spaniel
08:10 / 03.03.05
...but to mention only a subtitled film does sound like I should be wearing a black polo-neck.

You really don't have to justify yourself.
Most people around wouldn't be stupid enough to judge you for watching - shock horror - a foreign film.

I mentioned two subtitled movies.
 
 
PatrickMM
21:09 / 03.03.05
Here's another threadon basically the same topic as this one.
 
 
ibis the being
16:02 / 04.03.05
I go to the cinema to see movies more than I watch at home. So for me, it's "likes of which make me corral my self-control in order not to blubber in a theater."

Monster. Oof.

Million Dollar Baby. Look, I didn't like that I wanted to bawl me eyes out, but it was this close to impossible not to. I was actually meditating, with superhuman effort, on the idea that Hilary Swank was an ACTOR, ACTING, just so I could hold it together to the end.
 
 
Benny the Ball
16:35 / 04.03.05
I went to see Transformers the movie at the cinema alone. Surrounded by a load of excitable kids, I felt the wave of their pain as Optimus bought the big one. I think there is something beautiful about crying alone. In the dark. With other peoples children.
 
 
Triplets
21:23 / 04.03.05
Should I watch The Iron Giant? I wasn't able to handle someone's robot dad dying T2. Dicey. Definitely one to watch alone without the Shame Eye Overwatch.

Aw no, I just rememered. I cried when those guys beat the shit out of Johnny 5 in Short-Circuit 2. He's fucking BEGGING them to stop, HE'S ALIVE! Gah... here we go.

Robot abuse is uncool, my friends.
 
 
Benny the Ball
23:02 / 04.03.05
The Temptations tv movie. When Melvin buys it.
 
 
D Terminator XXXIII
20:42 / 13.03.05
The last two movies which caused me to tear up a little share the same kid actor, incidentally. I saw Finding Neverland with a friend - we've been in search of a mutual filmic high for some time now, and although the Merchant of Venice came close, we still haven't found it. I am too lazy to fully articulate why I found Finding Neverland a lacking experience, but until the end, I certainly was bored (even though it served as an interesting coda to Heavenly Creatures*). After the death of Winslet's character, the kid and Depp share a conversation on a park bench. The kid had such an articulate face, such a convincing nerve in his portrayal that I couldn't help myself cry a little. But then, neither could most of the crowd.

Last week, I got my regular batch of new movies from a friend. Among them was Deux Freres. The uneven but sweet tale of a couple of separated tigers, charmed me enough to shed a tear when things got bad. And the kid was there yet again, with a badly synchronized french accent. I tell you, whenever the tigers are on, the proceedings are electrifying.



* = OMG! Peter Jackson's masterpiece... However could I have forgotten thee? The scenes leading up to the murder are brilliantly structured. The nervous, slightly hysterical tone (tick tock!) followed by a mesmerising calm before the storm situation, and punctuated with a potent melancholy while the girls and the mother walk through the park is gee-neh-us. Enhances the cruelty of the ensuing murder, the end result being horrified tears on my face.
 
 
Aertho
21:27 / 13.03.05
Just saw Iron Giant.
 
 
The Prince of All Lies
22:44 / 13.03.05
can I do tv-series, please? Movies don't have that same effect on me..
But the one tv episode that makes me cry my eyes out each and every time is that E.R. episode in which Mark Green (Anthony Edwards) dies in Hawaii. That's the greatest piece of tv drama I've seen: his relationship with his daughter and the hawaiian version of "Over the Rainbow" always make me weep. And I'm not the sentimental type
Also, the final 2 episodes of Cowboy Bebop make my eyes humidify a little...
 
  

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