Ok, so, at least someone wants to know how I do it?
(This feels a little like the scene in Annie Hall when woody allen asks an older couple how they stay together, and they reply, "We have a large, vibrating egg.")
Quite simple, really, the "Hitachi Magic Wand" from this PROBABLY NOT WORK-SAFE SITE (although that page seems relatively mild, to me), with this nobbly "pleasure dome" attachment for said magic wand.
(FYI, The blowfish catalogue is my favorite--very funny writing and spot on, usually, in terms of the product's performance).
I was, obviously, talking about full-on ejaculation in the question. Not simple orgasm. I had one "big one" that I was aware of years ago, and I was embarrassed because I thought I had urinated. I could feel it "coming" so to speak and I let it happen. It wasn't until several years later that I found out this was a relatively undiscussed but fairly widespread phenomenon. It has to do with the female equivalent of the prostate gland, actually.
Well, ever since I started using this lovely Hitachi product--with or without my partner, who likes to watch--well, it's been easy. There are two speeds; start low, and then move high. It works every time for me. Every time. I do recommend a folded up towel, however, if you are in bed and planning to sleep there afterwards.
Some women can produce about an 8 oz. cup of ejaculate / orgasm, which I believe, based on personal experience. Men, by contrast, typically only produce about 2 oz., max, of ejaculate. According to The Clitoral Truth, by Rebecca Chalker. She also reports that it's quite likely that all women with an intact prostate equivalent produce at least a little ejaculate when they have orgasms, but it's lost in the fluidic shuffle, so to speak...
So I'm a believer. (And, hell, its certainly a god-dess worth believing in!) |