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The Homosexual Agenda

 
 
SMS
01:43 / 13.12.04
I get the impression that folks here don't actually believe that the homosexual agenda exists, but this seems plainly false. What I have assumed is that the term tends to be used by opponents to gay rights and that, out of fear of associating with such people, advocates have mocked the term.

Below is what I perceive to be the homosexual agenda.

Item 1
Creating a fair and free environment for all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation.

Item 2
Educating the public. Homosexual partners, as often as heterosexual partners, live in loving and caring relationships, and that they are neither immoral nor unhealthy because of it (homosexuality is not something to be treated or cured).

Item 3
Educating the public. People who are gay are also (as often as people who are not) hard-working, contributing members of society. They pose no danger to children, and neither their orientation nor their choice to act on this orientation poses any danger to the fabric that holds society together. They are not necessarily liberal or conservative.

Item 4
Ending violence and hatred towards people based on sexual orientation.

Item 5
Stringing as many consonants together as possible.

Item 6
Fighting AIDS

One last thing I probably have to say is that I wholeheartedly support items 1 - 4 & 6 of this thing.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
07:19 / 13.12.04
You know, I just have no idea what this seeks to achieve...
 
 
Nobody's girl
07:25 / 13.12.04
Item 7 A 25 minute dance remix of the national anthem.

(One of my favourite jokes from "Queer Comics" at the Montreal comedy festival, I couldn't resist.)
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
09:27 / 13.12.04
Here's your homosexual agenda.

Lionel, what makes your 'homosexual agenda' a gay thing. Surely these are objectives that all sensible non-bigoted people could agree on, regardless of orientation? Agenda has a sinister ring to it.
 
 
LykeX
09:44 / 13.12.04
I think the problem with agenda is that it implies some sort of conspiracy. That all homosexuals are part of some secret organisation working in the shadows.
It's like saying "the Barbelith agenda". Sure, we could probably find some thing that all, or almost all member could agree on, even something we were all actively working towards, but that would still not make it an agenda, since that would require an organised formulation of goals.

And like Our Lady says, the agenda you propose should be the agenda of any intelligent and open-minded individual. To say the "homosexual agenda" implies homosexual vs. heterosexual; something the loonies on the right would love us to believe. It's just like saying "you're either with us or you're with the terrorists." It puts forth a false choice, hiding the fact that there are other options, such as a simply sexual agenda.
 
 
Ganesh
10:47 / 13.12.04
You may find the scarequotes irritating, but they're necessary because use of the phrase without scarequotes suggests that one has, by dint of being attracted to one's own sex, somehow 'signed up' to a wider sociopolitical aim or movement. This is, at best, rather silly stereotyping (hence my 'didn't get the memos' pisstaking on other threads); at worst, it's a sinister way of stoking the siege mentality/fear of the Other that allows one to dehumanise whole swathes of the populace and treat them as second-class citizens. Or worse.

Hence "Homosexual Agenda".
 
 
Ganesh
10:57 / 13.12.04
Oh, and no, I don't think there is a "homosexual agenda" any more than there's a "heterosexual agenda". There are pressure groups lobbying for some of the things already mentioned, sure, but that doesn't necessarily generalise to all gay people. I'm not sure how many, for example, give a shit about "educating the public" - and "fighting AIDS" is, I suspect, neither here nor there.
 
 
alas
11:04 / 13.12.04
I agree with OLHLAH (which, now that I've acronymized it, I gotta say looks kinda like "ooh lah lah," but perhaps would be pronounced like "Hola!"... Hey, is this a strange coincidence or part of some subtle but nefarious multicultural agenda, Our Lady, by you and your ilk?).

But I do want to take the question seriously, because I think it was posed with sincerity. But it's hard, because it almost feels like to even pose the question is to come from a very different view of the world than the one I take. So I'm not sure this is going to work very well, and I'm prepared to be splattered with rotten fruit ....

Ok, so laying bare/articulating my assumptions, I hope not too simplistically: orientation seems to be something that just kinda devolops in all of us as we move through life, partly active agents in our self-creation, partly (largely, in my view) acted upon by historical, social, hormonal, developmental, cultural, and etc. forces bigger than us and still pretty mysterious. And all this "being acted upon" and individual choice-making eventually, in pubescence and later, mysteriously results in differing sorts of desires and attractions and actions.

Most of the struggle around orientation on an individual level, then, happens during adolescence, which is experienced by many if not most queer kids as a terrifyingly vulnerable time. At that point, survival is key.

(And at the same time, you're also developing into a piano player and/or a stage actor and/or a maths whiz and/or a slacker and/or a video game player and/or someone who wastes a lot of time on the Internet .... )

So at this level it's just kind of weird to speak of a "homosexual agenda." (I will put it in scare quotes, because it feels like a word I need tongs for.) For a bunch of reasons. But partly because becoming queer is not typically experienced as a political indoctrination, as this term seems to imply, and that a first step in changing the political structure of the formerly blessed America, the World, the Universe bwah hah hah hah.

On the other hand, I don't think anyone here would deny that the experience of claiming a queer identity is intertwined with political implications. No matter what one's orientation or sexual activity, one typically still wants to be accepted as a human. As a piano player a football player, an accountant, a whatever . . . A shocking desire, to some people's way of thinking, it turns out.

In fact, if residing in a representative democracy, Citizen Queer probably still wants to be treated as a citizen, with all the rights of citizenship--in the words of the U.S. Constitution, things like equal protection before the law, the right to free association, etc.

The people who use the term "homosexual agenda" do not see same sex desire as anything except "sinful." They see the world in strictly religious terms, typically. So murder is wrong not because it deprives another free citizen of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness but because God Commanded Us Not To. So these folks use terms like "homosexual agenda" to frame queer persons as nefarious political agents, whose every action in the culture is suspect and, in fact, a priori, illegitimate. And that labeling has the effect of erasing everything else--the piano playing, the ability to work with numbers, the whatever...

So no, there's no "homosexual agenda." But that is not to say that claiming a queer identity has no political implications in our current social frame. But it's no more tied to any clearly definable groupthink / political agenda than the act of claiming a "straight" identity and acting on opposite sex desire. In fact, some might say there's more obviously a "heterosexual agenda" at work here... (But, seriously, that's problematic, too, in its reductiveness....)

And it's not just the word "agenda" that's problematic. It's the "homosexual" term, which has a troubled history, since it named same-sex desire and activity as a psychological disorder.
 
 
alas
11:20 / 13.12.04
(Obviously, my post is written from a slightly American-centric perspective which I intended to flag more clearly, but I hope it still translates. And, I was struggling to be even rudimentarily articulate while Ganesh was posting quite succinctly. Alas.)

Here's what I think I'm trying to get at: would it be helpful to read this question as an attempt--if perhaps a clumsy one?--to explore the relationship between sexual identity and politics? To what degree is claiming any sexual identity a political act?

(And, to reframe a question that kind of arose in the thread on homophobia in the black community: can one engage in any sexual activity and not be, essentially, required to claim an identity, or at least frame one's identity, based on that activity? )
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:26 / 13.12.04
I heart Alas.

Again, I don't see a homosexual agenda, or a "gay and lesbia agenda". I'd be interested to know why Lionel Wallace thinks:

I get the impression that folks here don't actually believe that the homosexual agenda exists, but this seems plainly false.

An agenda is, strictly speaking, a list of things that need to be done. I simply don't think that there is a list of things to be done that every gay man and lesbian wakes up and thinks "Oh, yeah, better work towards ticking that off today". There is a, or rather are many, political agendas advanced by groups the members of whom may be lesbians or gay men, which is a different thing. I think that's what makes me profoundly suspicious of Lionel's list. To wit.

Item 1
Creating a fair and free environment for all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation.


I don't identify as homosexual, and I'd advance that as a goal. I don't see anything specifically "homosexual" about it.

Item 2
Educating the public. Homosexual partners, as often as heterosexual partners, live in loving and caring relationships, and that they are neither immoral nor unhealthy because of it (homosexuality is not something to be treated or cured).


Again, this strikes me as part of a liberal political agenda. If you're gay or lesbian and out, you may well also find it in your interest to support this, but there's nothing essentially homosexual about it.

Item 3
Educating the public. People who are gay are also (as often as people who are not) hard-working, contributing members of society. They pose no danger to children, and neither their orientation nor their choice to act on this orientation poses any danger to the fabric that holds society together. They are not necessarily liberal or conservative.


I kinda shouldn't have gone through this one by one, because my response to them all is the same... so, same for 4...

Item 5
Stringing as many consonants together as possible.


Is just silly - although this thread may be of interest.

Item 6
Fighting AIDS


Again seems to be just part of a sensible political agenda, although YMMV. HIV and AIDS are terrible things, but there are far more reasons to want to fight the spread of HIV than gayness. I'd go so far as to say that identifying AIDS with a specifically homosexual agenda is really pretty dicey.

So - gay men and lesbians do not, as a group, have an agenda. Political and activist groups *do* have agendas, and work towards them. Citizens, as Alas says, should have equal treatment before the law, equal rights and other civic concerns on their agenda. Many politically engaged people, activists and citizens will be gay men or lesbians. But an overarching homosexual agenda... not buying.
 
 
Sean the frumious Bandersnatch
11:33 / 13.12.04


I've seen a lot of 700 club and the like (don't ask why), and they don't seem to consider the homosexual agenda as being exclusively the domain of homosexuals. In many cases, it seems to be used as a synonym for the liberal agenda.

Their reasoning seems to be that the liberals support the gays and all gays are liberal.

I was going to write something about how the only thing that all gay people agree on is that they want to have sex with people of the same sex...but then I realised that they can't agree on that, either.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:46 / 13.12.04
I'd probably say "don't" rather than "can't"...
 
 
Ganesh
11:48 / 13.12.04
What percentage of gay people voted for Bush in the last election, again? 21% or thereabouts? Elsewhere - and off the top of my head - there was Pim Fortuyn, there's the Gay Conservatives and there's bundle of political confusion that is Ivan Massow. I'm sure there are other examples of non-liberal gay people (or, to follow Jack Chick's sterling lead, Gays).

I think the concept of one's sexual and political identities being synonymous was (in the UK at least) more true in the past than it is now - and any given "homosexual agenda" can now, to a certain extent, be reframed (by those cynical enough to do so) in terms of narrow self-interest. I wear a red ribbon on World Aids Day, but am I really interested in "fighting AIDS" in any committed sense - other than trying not to catch it myself, I mean?
 
 
alas
12:18 / 13.12.04
And that's the frustrating thing for progressives. Gay people who voted for Bush are, I think, deluded. And Black folks who voted for Bush are deluded. Women who voted for Bush are deluded. People who don't have an income of at least $200,000 who voted for Bush are deluded. White men who aren't CEOs or heirs to a fortune who voted for Bush are deluded. And all for the same reason: his and his party's policies are directly opposed to the survival interests of all those groups.

It really does bother me that people who have positively benefited from the activism of previous generations--the generations of people who died or were threatened and mocked for standing up for the rights of women, of people without property, of gays and lesbians, of black people, of Jews--often, particularly when they achieve some level of individual wealth/financial security, say, "I want low taxes." And turn their backs on everything else. And suddenly they frame their privileged status as an individual achievement that erases the work of those who made their privilege possible.

But this is the way the world seems to work. I DO think there's a powerful-people's agenda. It's called "hegemony." No? And by retaining any group status, by claiming there's still a role for pressure groups, and for group identities, the left gets labeled as being run by a feminist and/or homosexual agenda. Which used to be the communist agenda...
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:00 / 13.12.04
Gay people who voted for Bush are, I think, deluded.

Well, not necessarily. If you are gay, have a high income, don't feel that you are part of a gay community, don't want to read books or magazines that acknowledge the existence of homosexuality, live in a guarded community where you'll be protected from random homophobic violence, don't want to adopt children... you might see a Bush presidency as an opportunity to salt away some more cash and assume that someone will replace him before it gets to losing the vote or being put in camps. Or, patriotically, you might believe that national security is more important than your rights as a citizen, and that Bush is the man for national security. You'd be on crack, but you might believe it. Just as Ganesh says, there are lots of reasons why individual gay men and lesbians might choose to act in ways not in the best interests of gay men and lesbians in general, because their concerns are not those of lesbians and gay men in general. That's just a thing.
 
 
alas
15:38 / 13.12.04
Oh dear! Just when I had you hearting me, Haus of heart and home!, now you tell me that there are other possible explanations beyond delusions for this behavior! I feel so rejected!

You say "on crack" I say "deluded," let's call the whole thing off and sing some show tunes, ok?
 
 
alas
15:39 / 13.12.04
I do, actually take your point, however. Most submissively.
 
 
SMS
04:43 / 14.12.04
Haus: You know, I just have no idea what this seeks to achieve...
Mainly, to put an end to what alas noted.
alasThe people who use the term "homosexual agenda" do not see same sex desire as anything except "sinful."
Because I think the only reason that
Our Lady Has Lost All Hope: Agenda has a sinister ring to it.
and
LykeX: that it implies some sort of conspiracy.
and
LykeX: [it implies] that all homosexuals are part of some secret organization working in the shadows.
is that the people who use the term get to frame what the agenda is. If the only people who are using it are those who oppose it, surely this is going to make it sound bad. But I wrote this yesterday, sometime after a committee meeting. Everyone was handed an agenda, and no one thought it was the least bit sinister. Some of us didn't care about most of the items on it, and I know I would rather have been watching football than looking at financial reports. I will admit that the term agenda does imply a list of things to be done, but it hardly implies that everyone involved really gives a damn.

Ganesh: "fighting AIDS" is, I suspect, neither here nor there.
I included it in the list based on history, but, like the rest of the list, intended no essential connection between the fight against AIDS and homosexuality. But I do get the impression that, because of the history, it has a kind of special importance among gay advocacy or support organizations. It's only an impression, though. If you say it has no such special importance, then I will concede.

alas: partly because becoming queer is not typically experienced as a political indoctrination, as this term seems to imply,...
I'm not sure how to address this, except to say that it just seems very strange to me. It doesn't seem to imply anything of the sort to me.

alas: The people who use the term "homosexual agenda" do not see same sex desire as anything except "sinful." They see the world in strictly religious terms, typically.
A little bit off topic, but ... A couple articles I read in the New York Times last year said that, in China, homosexuality was considered very taboo and that such a culture contributes to the spread of AIDS. I would be curious to know whether this results from a strictly religious outlook. It is certainly possible, since, despite all of communism's efforts, religion doesn't seem to go away, but I'm not so quick to blame religion on this one. It might be interesting, in another thread, to consider the sexual imagery of God used by religion to emphasize intimacy and how such a theology would affect sexual morals.

alas: So these folks use terms like "homosexual agenda" to frame queer persons as nefarious political agents, whose every action in the culture is suspect and, in fact, a priori, illegitimate. And that labeling has the effect of erasing everything else--the piano playing, the ability to work with numbers, the whatever...
I think the main problem with what people call labeling is the identification of a complex concept with one of its simpler elements. The concept of a miserly rich person is a perfectly fine concept, but we make a mistake when we identify it with the concept of a rich person. (The word labeling seems to me more like naming, and I'll be damned if there's something wrong with naming). I started this thread called "the homosexual agenda," but I probably had to make that disclaimer at the bottom of my post. That was, unfortunately, because I don't trust barbelithers not to make the conclusion that I'm anti-gay if I use the term. Well, maybe that's an unfair feeling towards this board. Anyway, I've no doubt that many people do use the term "homosexual agenda" in a way that identifies complex concepts with their simpler elements, but the best corrective to this, surely is not to agree that a gay agenda would indeed be a sinister thing but deny that any such thing exists. Again, our disagreements may stem from completely different understandings of the meaning of the term itself. You folks seem to agree with the radical right that it means something bad.

Haus: I don't identify as homosexual, and I'd advance that as a goal. I don't see anything specifically "homosexual" about it ... this strikes me as part of a liberal political agenda. (Emphasis hirs)
It is especially pertinent to people who are gay and lesbian (and the like). I, like most heterosexuals, have no fear of being rejected if my heterosexuality is discovered. I have never had any fear of being physically harmed because of it. I do not have to hear anyone seriously call me unnatural for fancying women, or thinking I need to be cured of it. This is why it isn't merely an agenda pertaining to sexual orientation but one pertaining to homosexual, et al, orientation.

I wouldn't call it a liberal political agenda. In my initial post, I tried to frame something that isn't necessarily political at all. At least, none of the items needs to be related to the government, at all. But that it is part of a liberal agenda I won't dispute. It certainly isn't identical with a liberal agenda, though. I mentioned nothing about the poor, the minority races, the dangers of militarism, the dangers of religion, publicly controlled healthcare, or any other issue that might be considered liberal or left-wing.

As far as the question of how I, a straight man, would sign on to the homosexual agenda, well...

Sean the frumious bandersnatch: they don't seem to consider the homosexual agenda as being exclusively the domain of homosexuals.

and I don't either.

Haus: [Item 5] is just silly, although this thread may be of interest.
It may, but the link is broken. This one should work, though.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
07:29 / 14.12.04
You don't appear to have answered any of the issues raised, though, either with the idea or the contents of a "homosexual agenda". You're starting your argument halfway up the pole. For instance:

It is especially pertinent to people who are gay and lesbian (and the like).

Hoover was gay and lesbian (and the like). I doubt it would have much resonance to him. Roy Cohn, likewise. As Ganesh mentioned above, Pym Fortuyn, Ivan Massow... these people are unlikely to want either to sign up to a common set of precepts or a common cause with the many gay men and lesbians (and the like).

So, I don't think "we people" agree with the radical right that the homosexual agenda "means something bad". I for one believe it to be as good or bad as fairies or Santa Claus. It doesn't exist. Put another way - you have conceded poinbt 6, point 5 is just bollocks, points 1-4 are not just standards of liberal politics but also broad statements of human equality which could be applied to any group equally - gay men, lesbians, transgendered people, rubber fetishists...

So. I don't think you needed the caveat for fear of being thought "anti-gay". I would have to ask whether you actually know any gay men or lesbians, and if so whether you have had this discussion with them.

What you are saying here is "look, here are some things that gay men and lesbians might want to do. I'd like to do them as well. So, as it happens, would pretty much everyone who identifies as left-wing or politically liberal". That's very sweet, but it's not a homosexual agenda.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
10:00 / 14.12.04
Lionel Wallace. Again, our disagreements may stem from completely different understandings of the meaning of the term itself. You folks seem to agree with the radical right that it means something bad.

I would thinkhope that the Radical Right and I think it's bad/unhelpful for different reasons, the RR thinking it's bad because it includes the word homosexual and me because it contains the word agenda which I feel the Right have hijacked in a similar way to the queer community taking gay (oh, and queer ) to mean something quite different to the original intention of the word.
 
 
Ganesh
11:51 / 14.12.04
I wrote this yesterday, sometime after a committee meeting. Everyone was handed an agenda, and no one thought it was the least bit sinister.

Well, sure, but as has been (I hope) established, there's a difference between a group of people sitting down to a formal committee meeting and disparate individuals who happen to share a particular sexual orientation. In the first case, the people involved have, in effect, 'signed up' in the sense that they've made a conscious choice to attend a formal meeting; in the second, they've made no such decision. You might choose to attribute them with a common purpose because they share a common sexual orientation, but that would be stereotyping, at best.

I know I'm repeating myself here, but that's because you don't seem to have engaged with the points I've made (other than conceding that, simply because many homosexual people - like many heterosexual people - are HIV+ve, it doesn't follow that gay people will have a general interest in "fighting AIDS").

And no, I don't think you're "anti-gay" (a touch naive, perhaps, but not "anti-gay"). And yes, I'd go with the second position - that there exists no readily-identifiable "homosexual agenda". The fact that certain sectors of the Religious Right choose to frame their own objection/fear of the homosexual Other in such a way doesn't, in itself, make the concept meaningful - and it doesn't follow that gay people should contrive an alternative 'common purpose' simply in order to reclaim the (frankly rather useless) term. Most gay people are, I suspect, insufficiently naive to attempt this.
 
 
SMS
14:20 / 14.12.04
there's a difference between a group of people sitting down to a formal committee meeting and disparate individuals who happen to share a particular sexual orientation.
Right, but I don't think that the term "homosexual agenda" implies a common purpose.
You might choose to attribute them with a common purpose
I don't and never have, though. I never said there was a common purpose.

You're starting your argument halfway up the pole.
It sounds like I'd have to make some kind of argument about the meaning of the term. This is probably impossible. You present examples of gay people who would not "want to sign up to a common set of precepts or a common cause" as evidence that what I wrote above is not especially pertinent to gay people. I cannot follow that line of reasoning. Apparently, those of you answering me can't (without being dishonest) hear the term homosexual agenda without hearing something about a common purpose and I can't (without being dishonest) find this bit about a common purpose, even with Ganesh's efforts to educate me on how people at a formal meeting have effectively signed up to its causes. I do understand what Ganesh is saying, though, in case he worries that I might need more explanation.

And, if I conceded item 6, I want to be clear about why. It is not because some gay people don't care about fighting AIDS. I don't concede it on that point. Rather, I concede on the basis that it does not have "a kind of special importance among gay advocacy or support organizations."
 
 
ibis the being
14:25 / 14.12.04
I get the impression that folks here don't actually believe that the homosexual agenda exists, but this seems plainly false. What I have assumed is that the term tends to be used by opponents to gay rights and that, out of fear of associating with such people, advocates have mocked the term.

Well, in the first place "The _________ Agenda" is a term that conservative pundits like to use to scare listeners into believing that certain supposed groups, or perhaps demographics, of Americans are getting together to destroy everything that [the listeners] hold dear. I don't know if Rush Limbaugh coined the term, but I'd venture to say he popularized it. It's a negative term because, due to its origin and common usage, that's always what it means when you use it. Deciding to change the meaning or connotation of it is - though less difficult, less controversial and less culturally weighty - more akin to "redefining" the N-word than to simply pointing out "hey, an agenda is just a list of things to do!"

Secondly, as others have pointed out, assuming that this grouping of human beings - everyone with a certain sexual orientation - are some kind of brother/sisterhood is pretty silly and can be offensive. Forgive me for using a race analogy again, but it's sort of like what well-meaning ignorant white people would say to their "black friend" - "I was talking to [another black person] in the supermarket - do you know him?" It's presuming because they are not like you then they must all be in cahoots or know each other or live in the same neighborhood or something.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
14:40 / 14.12.04
It sounds like I'd have to make some kind of argument about the meaning of the term. This is probably impossible.

It's sctually quite easy. You just look up the word - or read on.

Apparently, those of you answering me can't (without being dishonest) hear the term homosexual agenda without hearing something about a common purpose

Agenda (noun) - a list of items of business to be discussed at a meeting. Thus, a list of matters to be addressed.

That rather suggests to me that a "homosexual agenda" describes a list of matters to be addressed by all homosexuals. An agenda is not a list of "things that are pertinent". It is a list of business that needs to be done (Latin agenda - meaning "the things that need to be done"). Essentially you don't seem to be quite getting what an agenda is, which is not helping your case. I ask again - do you actually know any gay men or lesbians, and have you run this idea of the homosexual agenda past them, possibly after having looked up the word agenda?

Not all homosexuals are going to want to go down your list working to "sort out" these issues, or indeed agree that these are the things that need to be sorted out. Some homosexuals may prioritise buying a new car, for example, over educating people that gay men and lesbians in general are no threat to their children. Likewise, I might find living in an _equal society_, which is all that the 4 points of your agenda now under consideration really entail, as they could, as I said and you failed to address, be swapped in and out with pretty much any minority group, more important and pertinent to me than it is to either Ivan Massow or J Edgar Hoover.
 
 
SMS
19:01 / 14.12.04
It's sctually quite easy. You just look up the word - or read on.
I've been consulting a dictionary all through this discussion, including before the initial post. If you would like to discuss my intelligence, and whether I could possibly understand what the dictionary has told me and still write such things as I have written, I suggest a separate thread for it.
I ask again - do you actually know any gay men or lesbians, and have you run this idea of the homosexual agenda past them, possibly after having looked up the word agenda?
I refuse to answer this question.

I doubt continuing this discussion will be very productive. If anyone disagrees and would really like to hear more of my response, I might give it a go, but this conversation is affecting me emotionally far more than it probably should. Also note, (and Haus can feel free to make a smug remark about this) my further responses would not be all that much better than the previous responses. If I haven't made any good points so far, I probably won't.
 
 
Ganesh
20:51 / 14.12.04
Let's go back to first principles.

From Chambers:

homosexual noun a person who is sexually attracted to people of the same sex. adj 1 having a sexual attraction to people of the same sex. 2 relating to or concerning a homosexual or homosexuals.
ETYMOLOGY: 1890s.

agenda singular noun (agendas) 1 a list of things to be done or discussed. 2 a written list of subjects to be dealt with at a meeting, etc. on the agenda waiting or needing to be dealt with.
ETYMOLOGY: 20c: Latin, meaning 'things needing to be done'.


So... we're essentially looking at a list of things to be done or discussed by people who're attracted to people of the same sex, yes? Yes?

Okay, so let's look at this in practical terms. Your previous use of the term 'agenda' involved a "commitee meeting" in which "everyone was handed an agenda". You may dispute my assertion that these people had a common purpose, but the mere fact that they were in the same geographical area and it was possible to hand them the same piece of paper indicates something more than is suggested by the term "homosexual agenda" - because (and I can't quite believe I'm explaining this) the entirety of the subgroup of 'homosexuals' are not in the same geographical area, and they're not being handed the same piece of paper. Already, the former grouping (individuals in the same geographical area, at the same meeting) has more 'common purpose' than the latter (individuals all over the place, who haven't a fucking clue what you're talking about).

If you're disputing 'common purpose', how do you choose to interpret the "list of things to be done or discussed"? Is an individual born homosexual presented with such a list? Is the list presented when they first express desire for the same sex? Or when they first actually have sex (whatever that means) with the same sex? Who does the presenting? Who keeps the minutes?

You may refuse to say whether you've discussed this with gay people but, to me - a gay man - it's evident that you haven't. You may have talked about it with one, or even two, gay friends, but I don't believe you've run this past more than a handful of gay people. I say this because your reasoning, while undoubtedly well-meaning, is almost hopelessly naive. I think you need to think about where positive discrimination (gay people want the best for everybody) shades into stereotyping (gay people all want the best for everybody).

I think it's wrong to suggest that Haus has prevented you from making a good argument. Your argument stands or falls on its own merits. To me, it falls.
 
 
SMS
02:16 / 15.12.04
I think it's wrong to suggest that Haus has prevented you from making a good argument. Your argument stands or falls on its own merits. To me, it falls.
I never said anything of the sort. I wasn't being nice to Haus, granted, but I cannot ever recall, in my entire life, implying that someone has prevented me from making a good argument. I'm not even sure that such a thing is possible.

I am frustrated that I seem not to be understood (and this is not because folks disagree with me. I promise you that I am quite capable of grasping the concept of understanding my point of view but disagreeing with it), but this is almost entirely a failure on my part to communicate effectively. I am making a conclusion that my further points on this subject will also fail to communicate well --- again, my own failure. But I do hope that it is clear that I never accused Haus of preventing me from making a good argument.
 
 
Ganesh
02:40 / 15.12.04
Fine. Now try engaging with some of the points I - and others - have raised.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
08:09 / 15.12.04
I am frustrated that I seem not to be understood.

That's just it. I think you *are* being understood. You want to reclaim the idea of "a homosexual agenda" from the far right by listing all the lovely things you think are on the homosexual agenda. Others think your attempt is misguided because it falls at the first hurdle of assuming there is such a thing as a homosexual agenda, when the phrase, unless you assume a gay groupmind, makes no sense, which in turn is why only the far right use it. As I said, halfway up the pole.

If you want to say "look, these are the sorts of things gay men and lesbians are really worried about, not corrupting the children of America", then cool, but that's not an agenda. It's a set of concerns which anyone, gay or straight or bi or whatever else, can feel and sign up to.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
09:24 / 15.12.04
Hey, as a bisexual would I have to follow only the odd number points on the Homosexual Agenda or the even ones?
...Sorry.

Ganesh: there's a difference between a group of people sitting down to a formal committee meeting and disparate individuals who happen to share a particular sexual orientation.
Lionel Wallace. Right, but I don't think that the term "homosexual agenda" implies a common purpose.

Then it's not really an agenda is it? To use your boardroom analogy, the agenda may contain many disparate elements, from the starting of new products to worker's pay-freezes to the Christmas dinner but they all have one common purpose, the succesful continuation of the business. If your 'homosexual agenda' has no purpose then wouldn't that be self-negating?
 
 
Ganesh
10:11 / 15.12.04
I am frustrated that I seem not to be understood (and this is not because folks disagree with me. I promise you that I am quite capable of grasping the concept of understanding my point of view but disagreeing with it), but this is almost entirely a failure on my part to communicate effectively.

But y'ahh, Blanche, y'ahh.

I think you're communicating perfectly clearly, but what you're communicating is essentially an insupportable argument. You're using the example of the agenda at a work committee, where people have explicitly committed themselves to, at the very least, discussion of a list of points. Suggesting that it's possible that the entire global subgroup of gay people have done something equivalent with Items 1 to 6 is frankly ludicrous.

I understand that your motive here is benign, that you're seeking to counter or redress that bundle of paranoid assumptions contained in the popular right-wing usage of the term. This doesn't, however, change the fact that your argument is insupportable. Gay people are not a hive-mind, and have not committed themselves to mass discussion of anything.
 
 
Ganesh
10:34 / 15.12.04
On the subject of "fighting AIDS":

I included it in the list based on history, but, like the rest of the list, intended no essential connection between the fight against AIDS and homosexuality. But I do get the impression that, because of the history, it has a kind of special importance among gay advocacy or support organizations. It's only an impression, though. If you say it has no such special importance, then I will concede.

Yes, there are several gay organisations involved in combatting the spread of HIV. You seem to be missing the more central point, however, that those organisations do not necessarily equal gay people generally - any more than charities devoted to breast cancer awareness constitute part of any sort of wider "female agenda".

To reiterate, though (and I'm sorry I have to keep returning to this): the concept of a "homosexual agenda" is a silly one because it just doesn't happen. At no point in the gradual self-realisation of my sexual orientation was I approached with a piece of paper and told, "this is what we have to discuss; Elton says don't be late". Didn't happen. Doesn't happen.
 
 
Ganesh
10:42 / 15.12.04
Hey, as a bisexual would I have to follow only the odd number points on the Homosexual Agenda or the even ones?

Not sure, but I think you'd fall under "the like".
 
 
LykeX
15:42 / 18.12.04
Sorry to bring this up again, but I just stumbled over this, which speaks to the matter. From Rude Pundit:

Now, as near as the Rude Pundit can tell, the homosexual agenda generally consists of shopping, dancing, and fucking people of the same sex. Not so much of an "agenda" as it is a "desire to live life without stupid fundamentalist assholes isolating and condemning them."
 
 
Ganesh
14:35 / 19.12.04
Not so much an "agenda" as a "popular stereotype", that one.
 
  
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