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Songs that attach themselves to life-events

 
 
Ganesh
02:35 / 17.09.04
I'm thinking of the piece I associate most strongly with my father's death, in 1992: Albinoni's Adagio in G Minor. I'm not even remotely a fan of classical stuff - I don't tend to listen to it for fun - but this is what was playing on the 'plane's headphones when I flew back from Australia to Scotland for my Dad's funeral. Suddenly, listening to it, I burst into tears, greatly distressing the woman in the next seat, with whom I'd been enjoying a pleasant (if rather superficial) exchange.

I can barely listen to it these days. It always makes me cry - which is sometimes good/cathartic, sometimes embarrassing.

Which songs do you associate with massive life-events?
 
 
The Falcon
13:59 / 17.09.04
My first kiss will forever be associated with the magnificent Chavez album 'Gone Glimmering' and, um, 'Wonderwall'.

Both of which were playing at the teen delinquent party that night. The first was mine.
 
 
De Selby
01:28 / 18.09.04
PJ Harvey ft. Thom Yorke - This Mess We're In

When I broke up with the girl I thought I'd love forever.
 
 
Cat Chant
09:58 / 18.09.04
I was living in Bahrain in 1990, when (as older readers might remember) there was a war on. Most nights there would be scary Blitz-type whoo-oo air raid sirens and we would all get out of bed, grab our gas masks, and pad into our "safe room" (parents' bedroom w/ ensuite bathroom) where there was lots of bottled water & the air-conditioning vents were taped up so that the chemical warfare gases couldn't get in, and we would listen to Radio Bahrain "for further information". Every minute or so, the radio would play a massive cacophonous fanfare and shout BAHRAIN IS ON ALERT!!, to get our attention; in the intervals, it would play "soothing" James Galway flute music.

Which now makes me panic.
 
 
Cat Chant
10:00 / 18.09.04
Actually, it was 1991. Never mind.
 
 
Char Aina
12:13 / 18.09.04
although its not the greatest song of all time, the vegan straw that broke the back of my carnivorous camel was a song by ska-core band 'slow gherkin'.
a song that was called 'mutually parasitic', and specifically the line "you stubbornly hold on to your defense that eating meat is worth 'cause it's tasty", but really it was the whole song.

long live the livestock!
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:21 / 21.09.04
It's almost always about journeys for me. Albums I listened to on journeys and remembering where I was at at that particular point in my life.

A couple of examples:

First Stone Roses album: minibus journey to Kathmandu at night. Can't really do this one justice without sounding like a terrible cliche. Suffice to say that although there was a sense of wonder and adventure, I was also horribly homesick and exhausted and not sure I'd ever see dear old Blighty again. Unforgettable, really.

Tindersticks, Curtains: Oxford to Edinburgh and back by train in the space of 48 hours. Sleep-deprived on the way up, sleep-deprived and horribly hungover on the way back. At the time I had too much money, was just starting to become self-confident, still felt fairly angsty and shouldn't have been listening to an album that made me secretly find alcoholism glamorous. Ah well.

RZA's Birth Of A Prince will always remind me of a) being on a bus crossing Battersea Bridge on the way to see my brother just under a year ago, and b) Jack the Bodiless' Halloween party around the same time. Yeah, if you want music to be associated with one time, take pills and listen to it, that'll do it...
 
 
I'm Rick Jones, bitch
19:18 / 25.09.04
Crap Beeb cover of Lou Reed's perfect day (for children in need) came out just before my grandad died. It's still heartbreaking to this day.
 
  
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