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Okay, sorry, the person who wrote this damn thing has a grudge against humanity. Everything in it is horribly harsh and judgemental.
I present for your perusal:
Your Existing Situation
Avoids excessive effort and needs roots, security, and peaceful companionship. May be physically unwell, in need of gentle handling and considerate treatment.
Um, yeah, like every human being alive, then I guess...
Your Stress Sources
Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that he has a right to anything he might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against him. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees himself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince himself that his failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others.
This is just wrong. But it's so plausibly written that I believed it for a while.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are forcing him to compromise, to restrain his demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things he wants.
Conditions are such that he will not let himself become intimately involved without making mental reservations
How did they know that I'd given up hope of being a male model or an astronaut? God these people are smart... And, really, am I cautious about getting involved with people? Does that make me repressed, or just smart? Arseholes.
Your Desired Objective
Desires protection against anything which might exhaust or tire him. Seeks a life of security and physical ease, free from any problem or disturbance.
Which must be why this test annoyed me so much.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He tries to escape from this by withdrawing and protecting himself with an attitude of cautious reserve. Moody and depressed.
TotalWoman.com, you are so correct. But I guess if I tick the right box you'll send me some spam email about something I can buy to make me feel better, huh?
Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation, irritation, and acute distress from which he tries to escape by refusing further direct participation. He confines himself to a cautious approach and a concealed determination to get his own way in the end. |
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