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Okaaay...
I hear what you're all saying, and I agree that the same recurring debate can be dull and demoralising for 'older/longer standing/more active' posters. But I also think that 'new' people should be allowed the chance to figure out their own opinions and get the chance to feel their way through 'difficult but frequently discussed' issues that they have obviously been thinking about and wish to debate.
It's just no good to go, "Well, we've all been alive for a while now and we've been posting on this board for almost all that time and we've had these discussions already, so let's just agree that we're all right and you should learn from us."
That's akin to parents saying to teenagers, "Honestly, it's a bad idea, don't do it. I did it, it was wrong and I don't want you to make the same mistakes I made."
Given that the influx of new people is growing everyday, and that lots of those people will be just beginning to search through their political opinions and ideals and philosophies, wouldn't it be a far better idea for long standing posters to ignore threads that are debates which have occurred over and over again, and let the new people talk about it amongst themselves?
We/you don't have to contribute to a thread about a subject if we feel it's been discussed before, and surely just letting it go on amongst new people who do wish to discuss it and who haven't already done so is better than saying, "Sorry, we've already talked about this, shhhhh."
For every new poster using the term Feminazi (or whatever) there is another willing to argue against it, and say why it's not acceptable. Are they not allowed their own chances to do that?
Obviously I am not advocating that threads which are obviously problematic be left unchecked - I just mean that the same-old, same-old threads which bore people who have been here a while since it's all been said, but which are not unacceptable to Barbelith should be left to run their course without the intrusion of 'older' members pointing out that we've already talked about it several times.
If we do that sooner or later there will be nothing left to talk about since every thread that ever gets started will find someone holding up the red card saying, "No can do, we talked about that on the 24th of last month in the year a long time ago." |
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