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Dead friends, bad bankers, and no love-life.

Oresa delta 20

18:40 / 11.05.04

In the last few months, i've lost a close friend to suicide, my bank has decided to screw me harder and deeper than i've ever been screwed before, and the girl i was trying to rescue from her bastard boyfriend has chosen to believe that she actually loves that domineering, oppressive cunt. I'm pissed off at the world, and i think some of you probably are too. So, please feel free to post all your spleen-splitting vitriol here. If nothing else, it will help you to get over it better than i have. Peace and love to all like-minded barbekids.

Whisky Priestess

22:30 / 11.05.04

Graah! Sharing does help. In fact, I'm gonna bump the untamed hate and anger thread for you, which is exactly the place to go ...

Ganesh

23:02 / 11.05.04

That's girls for you. They just won't sit down and be rescued from the domineering, oppressive cunts they love.

If it's catharsis you're after, you could do a lot worse than checking out the 'Untamed Hate and Anger' thread, as Whiskey suggests.

Lilly Nowhere Late

05:39 / 12.05.04

Look JC, I'm not in any bad corners anymore, but just to encourage you I'm going to give a really brief glimpse of a bad BOX I was in, merely 5 years ago. Profile:
Then:
Suicide husband, best friend betrayals, despair, gloom, agony.
Husband's secret debts, financial ruin, another attempted suicide, inspired by dead husband, blamed on me. No hope.
Now:
Sane and lovely husband, beautiful perfect child, growing business, and all the future available for action.

I don't know exactly how it all happened, but things can be turned around. My first step was a desperate attempt at avoiding it all by taking a trip far far away. Trips always change one's life. I recommend them for healing and inspiring.

Point is, everything changes. You will feel better. I hope it is very soon.

STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK

06:25 / 12.05.04

Yeah, just hang on in there. And yes, vent like a motherfucker in the Hate/Anger thread. Believe me, it works.

foot long subbacultcha

07:36 / 12.05.04

the trip far away idea is an interesting idea. does it work better if you go alone, lily?

Lilly Nowhere Late

06:45 / 13.05.04

I think if one travels alone, it does open one up more to strange new things. There is something very different between the option of lone travel and traveling with a mate. Lone travel forces one to be quiet and observe closely, and it forces one to engage when one might opt not to. I think it's probably the best thing if one is trying to create a cathartic occurance or be open to one.
Still, everytime one travels, unless you are a nunce, life changes.

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