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I kind of admire someone who is a virgin into their 20s, if it's through choice. It might make them more attractive to me in some ways, although it does also put ideas of cobwebby genitals into my mind, and give me a flinching notion that they might be incredibly uptight and underconfident in bed. The concept of someone like the younger Britney Spears, or Alicia Silverstone as Cher, or a Mills and Boon heroine (back in the day at least) or an Austen protagonist being a virgin because of her morals is even almost sexy: you could imagine like they're all pristine and saving themselves for YOU, and start fantasising about the incredible moment when you're the first person to do all that stuff with her on the perfect night you had to set up to get inside her knicks. NB. she might also be really good at foreplay because she's been concentrating on hand and blow jobs instead of actually going the full home run.
But if she's like Miss Bates in Emma, the virginity bit just enforces her lack of appeal, like underlining how unattractive and asexual she is and making you wary of even touching her in case bats fly out.
So: if the virgin is sexy looken, hot in bed up to 3rd base and has great morals -- GOOD
If the virgin is unattractive and is desperate to lose it, or is a virgin because seriously lacking in confidence -- more or less offputting.
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