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Meeting an online Domme IRL

  
 
NotBlue
11:51 / 20.02.04
So, in an attempt to further my exploration of life and stop lying back and letting the world happen to me, I have been wandering about online and met and gottten to knoe a lovely Domme in some chatrooms and via e-mail, and she would like to meet me.

My normal reaction would be to run screaming from any kind of contact from reality, but Im forcingmyself to meet her. Given that Im new to the scene and even new to meeting people fron online in real life, are there any sage tips or advice that can be offered.

Although I have figured out that letting her tie me down and go to town would be radically unwise for a first date.
 
 
Unencumbered
12:45 / 20.02.04
I'd suggest that you meet somewhere public and that you arrange with a friend to phone them at a specific time to let them know that you're OK. You can't be too careful.

Having said that, don't worry so much that you end up not having a good time.
 
 
Bill Posters
13:04 / 20.02.04
meet somewhere public and that you arrange with a friend to phone them at a specific time to let them know that you're OK

definately, I do this at every Barbiemeet I attend. There are some real fuckin' weirdoes on the net, or so I'm told.

Er, seriously, what ze said. And have fun.
 
  
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