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You did not pick to be who you are, you can simply be just who you are. Names are somewhat connected with that thought, that you did not chose to be born, but you were born and people have identified you.
Call it the final act of creation. It has been created by the union, nutured and birthed by the mother and now it is named. The parents have the power of creation and in naming their creation they allow it out into the world. They have defined it and the creation may then defy it or deify it.
Feel free to argue that the nature of the surname has been traditionally to impose masculine dominance over a family line.
That's what names are all about, aren't they? Power.
Of course, this is all taken from a Western stand-point. Ideas about birth names, adult names, chosen names, ritual names, earned names and so forth vary wildly from culture to culture. |
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