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Cass, yet again, has rendered a long rambling post that I was composing utterly redundant. I will therefore deign to share my Schopenhauercakes with him, and then we're going to sit in a corner and make sarky comments about everyone else's eyeliner. So there.
On the subject of gothic androgynity and its tending to favour the femme over the butch: I think the reason that there are more girlygoths than there are butchygoths could be loosely attributed to two factors.
One is the t-word: transgression. Goths in general are big on being transgressive; for many people it's a pretty important part of gothdom. And before you all start sneering and quoting Poopy Zzzzz. Bites-- I know very, very few the male goths who haven't been physically assualted and even hospitalized for the way they look.
The other is factor in selecting a femme look is, I belive, a rejection of violence and machismo. In a satin ballgown, it's hard to be hard. I wouldn't say it's in any way universal, but a lot of the more feminine male goths I've met have talked to me about how their look is partly about turning round and saying "NO!" to the expectations that society places on them as men.
I dodn't know about bi guys on the scene. I was friendly with a few back in the day, but they weren't exactly commonplace. Out-and-out gay men... one or two, one or two. Bisexual goth women: dude, throw a rock! Some of 'em were bi-tries, to be sure, but most had had at least one serious relationship with a partener of each sex.
I only knew one transperson*, an FTM guy. His look was sligtly girly for Gothdom (massively girly to the rest of you). He did have this cute little goatee, tho'.
My look when I'm all dressed to get messed is fairly butchygoth. I tend to favour big ol' boots, spiky accessories, and pseudomilitaristic bits and bobs (such as my much-admired bullet belt). I guess I'm feminine by the standards of the ordinary world, but in Gothdom I'm seen as unusually blokey. I get a varied reception, but generally it's positive.
*One out transperson, that is. Hell if I know how many other transfolk I might've been rubbing shoulders with. |
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