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Ordination/Performing Wedding Ceremonies

 
 
Seth
16:25 / 12.07.03
A friend of mine wants to get married, and have a specific friend perform the ceremony. This friend is not ordained or part of any organised religion as far as I know.

Question is, how does one get ordained in order to perform the ceremony? I've heard online application at the Universal Life Church is sufficient. Are there any particular laws that have to be observed, besides having a registrar? I recall that there were certain phrases that had to be used by the minster at my wedding, but I can't honestly remember what they were and whether they were applicable outside my religion.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
18:14 / 12.07.03
To make a wedding *legal*, I believe you need a registrar. After that, I believe that if your church gives you the right to deliver a marital blessing, then you can. The marital blessing is what C of E priests give on top of the legal marriage, which is why among other things some c of E priests will not remarry those who have divorced - because they made a commitment to God to stay together, received the blessing and then rescinded on their promise.

So....I'm not sure your friend *can* perform the ceremony, in the sense that he cannot legally declare two people married. However, if you have a word with the registrar he should be able to do a speech, reading, blessing, whatever else is superfluous to the legal act of putting their names in the book...

He's not the captain of a ship, is he?
 
 
Seth
16:43 / 13.07.03
Well yeah, you need to have the registrar regardless. What I'm talking about is conducting the ceremony itself - as far as I know you need to have a couple of specifics said in order for the registrar to make it legal. In registration office affairs they'll do it themselves - in this case, my fried wants a specific person to do it.

No joy on the sailor thing.
 
 
Jub
08:06 / 14.07.03
Didn't Robbie Williams get
Ordained a while back. He did a wedding ceremony for his mates, no?
 
 
spidermonkey
08:57 / 14.07.03
For our wedding we did the legal bit in a registry office in the morning with just parents, that way we could do whatever we liked for the actual ceremony.
 
 
The Return Of Rothkoid
12:16 / 14.07.03
Well, I'm a reverend. I'll do all the goods for a bottle of good gin and some turnips.
 
 
Seth
19:57 / 14.07.03
How'd you get to be a reverend, Rothkoid? Was it an online jobby? Do tell...
 
  
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