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Mourne Kransky
15:39 / 05.07.03
I don't like them much but they are a necessary evil, unless you're Lady MacCartney or Douglas Bader. My idea of Hell would be working in a shoe shop or as a podiatrist. Or a reflexologist, Jesus, NO!

Yet, when I visit seedy websites, it's clear that foot fetishism (or podophilia, careful how you say that... ) is a fairly common enthusiasm. Doesn't incite any lust in me, although I did like the hobbits' feet in LOTR, big and furry and not constrained in the prison of footwear.

I can't bear for anyone to touch my own feet, so I can see the surfeit of sensors there could make them interesting on a physical level to many. I had a thing with a guy once who couldn't even tolerate people seeing his naked feet though, so feelings on the matter seem interestingly polarised.

I've had a look about (purely for academic reasons, you understand) but most of the stuff to be googled is just porn links. This site had some good information and on another, full of pictures of feet doing tricks with genitals, I read:

"Foot fetishists," [psychotherapist Neil] Oldham explains "tend to be sophisticated, well-educated, and wealthy. Sexual foot worship has been a common vice among European royalty in the past, and the fetish can he traced back to 7th Century China's wealthy upper classes."

Don't recall that feet featured prominently in the fascinating catalogue of BarbeKinks we had a while back but I wondered how you all felt. I don't like encountering fetishes or perversions that I can't try out, at least once before I die. Go on, torment me with tales of getting turned on by toes...
 
 
Mazarine
15:52 / 05.07.03
I must admit being fascinated, though I'm not sure I'd say turned on, but my own feet. They're just so far away, and small, and the toes are just nifty. So many bones, so many ways to move them, they're just cool. Babies have the right idea about feet. They should be played with.
 
 
8===>Q: alyn
16:00 / 05.07.03
There's a Borjes article about the stupidity of feet--our second-most pampered appendages, and they never stop shitting out this lousy, outmoded armor.

I think it's normal to get all obsessed with a lover's feet as a part of their body that few others get to share, but foot fetishism, as in running around trying to lick random feet just for thrills, is a little silly... possibly Sick. But then, I am extremely boring in the sack.
 
 
gingerbop
18:58 / 05.07.03
I dont have a particular aversion to nice feet, but they can be *vile.* Not especially fond of my own, and i just find people sucking my toes absolutely rank. But I do see that in having so many bones, they are quite cool- i mean, thats 1/4 of all your bones.. its crazy! Its just the outsides of them I find ick.

Long toenails give me the creeps (partly because for being cut several times by small people's who im lifting/supporting). And can you imagine chol's intimate foot-love with long toenails? Ouch
 
 
Cosmicjamas
19:40 / 05.07.03
I've worn stilettos, wedges, platforms, winkle pickers, cornish pasty sandals, granny shoes, Kickers, Docs, bike boots, you name the shoe fetish - I've worn it...and I've always had passably attractive feet. And they have given pleasure, a la Cholister. But in the last couple of years I've been wearing trainers. Behold, I now have nasty feet. Why is this? I was referred to the "Community Chiropodist" about a year ago but still waiting for an appointment. One day, one day, they will be restored to their former glory but until then I'm not letting anyone see them.
 
 
Shrug
20:18 / 05.07.03
As long as they're clean. I've put worse things in my mouth I'm sure.
Anyway. I love walking through grass barefoot in the early morning and kind of hate shoes and socks but a necessary evil I suppose.
 
 
w1rebaby
21:01 / 05.07.03
*shrug*

Feet, I dunno, they're just not particularly interesting to me. I don't get off on elbows, either. I'd suck someone's elbow if they liked it and I wanted to them to have a good time, but I'd be thinking "this is a bit silly" all the way through.

I can see things like hands (expressive things) and parts of the face, but I can't quite empathise with the foot thing.

My feet are not particularly pleasant and used to be actively poisonous, though they're a lot better now I've got into the habit of taking my shoes and socks off whenever I can. I just thought you should all know that. I can take a picture of them if you want.
 
 
w1rebaby
21:04 / 05.07.03
Oh, and as far as body parts go, I came across this site recently... pinnocchia.com. You can probably guess what the theme is.

Mostly work safe, a couple of the galleries are a little dodgy.
 
 
pointless and uncalled for
10:58 / 06.07.03
I'm not one to overly fetishise one part of the body, well maybe the small of the back and don't I just love this summer's fashions, and have no aversion to feet as a general.

Like many things, when well presented and clean, then they can be quite enjoying, bit if dirty and sweaty then I attach no attraction to them at all. As a body part I think that they do have a proper place in sex, this place being dependant on your tastes obviously, even if its just to stop you slidding off of your surface of choice during periods of extreme rigour.

One of the things that I have enjoyed is the time. Podial dexterity will never match manual dexterity and therefore, even with lots of practice and training, using the feet will need to be a more exacting and slow action. That's quite a thrill in itself although not one that is individual to the foot.

Visually I do't find them erotic but they are a very beautiful thing in terms of structure and form.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
17:46 / 06.07.03
Verrrrrrry eenteresting…

Fridge, I find those nose fetishists much easier to fathom because I’m always aware of people’s noses. The size and shape of the nose is one of the first things I would notice about someone new, when we first meet, and I’m much more likely to be able subsequently to describe someone’s nose than tell you their eye colour. And 100% more likely to be able to identify a nose of my acquaintance, in a theoretical line-up, than someone’s feet.

I don’t know that there is a body part I feel fetishistic about, which is perhaps at the root of my puzzlement at the foot fetishists. Some bits I like more than others or would check out first. As well as the usual erogenous zones, probably forearms high on the list but I expect that’s just because they’re often publicly displayed.

potus: they are a very beautiful thing in terms of structure and form
Lots of people must think so. I think they’re generally quite ugly. Particularly my own: short, fat and high on the instep, with stubby little toes. I have also had to deal with many ugly feet professionally. They take a lot of punishment, I guess, so it’s not surprising they suffer. Generally not seen by others also, so probably not prioritised for cosmetic care by most folk. And I get the impression from the fetishists’ sites that most of them prefer them when they have the connotations of dirt, heavy use and contact with the soil. Makes sense, in fetish terms, I expect.

cosmicjamas: you name the shoe fetish - I've worn it
I can sure see the interest in a finely wrought shoe, more so a well made boot, and I can see the intersect there with sexual desire. I’ve often taught people interview technique and how to give presentations and it seems a common perception that you can tell a lot about someone from studying their footwear. I don’t know that I would be turned on by x or y kind of shoe but I can think of times when I’ve lost interest in someone otherwise intriguing on finding them wrongly shod. I can definitely see the point of a shoe fetish but a lot of the perv sites indicate a strong link between foot and shoe lust.

Elephants use their feet in unexpected ways: communicating stuff with them, perceiving distance and other data, even expressing emotion in some circumstances. Maybe our primitive ancestors did the same, before the invention of the enclosing, stifling shoe.
 
 
William Sack
17:57 / 06.07.03
Okay, I'll take the plunge. My feet are vile. I have in the past had verucas, ingrowing toenails that I don't bother getting seen to but just rip out myself, and something called Plantar Keratolisis (sp?) I think that latter 'diagnosis' may have just been a polite way of saying that my feet are disgusting. Apparently they sweat inordinately and provide a nice warm moist environment for all sorts of nasty stuff you probably don't want to be thinking about of a Sunday dinnertime. My crowning achievement is that I actually have split up with a girlfriend over my feet. Poor girl couldn't hack it any more, and I can't say I blamed her. I can't even plead trainers as being the cause of my foot problems as I never wear them. Understandably my feet have never played any role whatsoever in my sex life other than getting me dumped once.
 
 
D.H. Lawrence
19:11 / 06.07.03
Man trods upon his feet, that is true. And also woman. She also trods upon her feet and in turn is trod upon by the feet of man, but it is a gentle trodding, a trodding not physical but spiritual, it leaves marks upon not the body but the eternal spirit, a trodding that joins the base function of the foot, the foundation of man in all his revealed majesty, as pure spirit and not mere wearer of comfortable footwear or patron of various foot-powders and ointments. But what are these ointments, if not a salve, a momentary break from the plane of existance where one's feet might hurt, hurt like the dickens after walking aimlessly around the East Village in +90 degree heat, anachronistically so, but being such not less real, real than this quotidian existance from which meaning must be wrenched through sheer force of will, or a crowbar, meaning that can be seized, ravished, by a mere glimpse of some other soul's feet, be they freckled, veiny, or coarse in some yet-to-be-determined fashion, but still, because of the true essence of feet, that juncture between body, earth and spirit, can momentarily bridge the dark abyss between souls.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
09:15 / 07.07.03
because of the true essence of feet, that juncture between body, earth and spirit

I wondered about feet as a metaphor for the vile, base, earthly part of us. This, presumably, is what's behind the taboo of showing people the soles of your feet in many Muslim cultures. That would square with some urge to sexualise the forbidden, rather than simply fetishising the unsightly.

Feet have a fair bit of importance in ritual displays of spirituality too. Queens and Archbishops would have washed the feet of the poor and footsore on Maundy Thursday, once upon a time, instead of just handing out some coins. All in imitation of the washing /anointing of Christ's feet at various points in the gospels.

Did Rowan Williams, new(ish) Primate of the C of E, not do that very thing this year, spinkling Bodyshop peppermint foot lotion on the lower extremities of the great unwashed as an act of piety and humility. (Hope he checked they were the feet of heterosexuals first.)

As H.I.R exemplifies, there are solid practical reasons for disdain of the foot too but many people and many cultures seem to negate those considerations. I'm thinking of all the Latin cultures where nobody thinks anything of it when people spend all day stomping grapes with their bunioned, hard-worked peasant feet and then the product becomes a highly desirable consumable, traded at great expense.

Symbolising one's inability to use feet for any purposeful activity, like tramping grapes or walking from A to B, presumably lay at the bottom of the practice of intentional deformation of the foot (the bound foot or the lily foot) in some oriental cultures. To judge by these little bootees, some poor woman had barely any plantar arch left at all.



I watched Will and Grace the other night and Grace decided to dump an otherwise entirely acceptable bf because he confided that he had six toes. Despite my dislike of feet, I doubt that would bother me in the slightest, despite the Anne Boleyn /witch connotations.



The more I read about this subject, the more I want to be an unshod hobbit. Seem to be quite a lot of advocates for going shoeless in all circumstances, to let your feet breathe and prevent them suffering for fashion reasons.
 
 
Lurid Archive
09:24 / 07.07.03
I quite like feet, I think they can be very appealing. I also like boots and shoes more generally, though I don't usually connect the two. I don't have a fetish for either, but I find fetishing feet easier to understand than reviling them.

Perhaps I haven't seen any gross feet? Or perhaps I just don't get disgusted very easily at all? It just seems to me that a foot is much like another part of the body, whose beauty you can appreciate when appropriate.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
09:48 / 07.07.03
(The ideal bound foot was btw called the golden lotus and was no more than 3 inches long.)

Let me put this simply- there is a reason I like shoes so much. They cover feet up and I can't bear anyone touching the soles of my feet. It disturbs me and dammit, it makes me squeal.

I have incredibly flat feet because they fall inwards, I have falling arches, long toes and I'm a (UK) size 8. I don't hate the way my feet look but I don't like them either... actually I don't care as long as they're not touched. I would especially never touch anyone's feet with my hands or any part of my face. The idea of sucking toes is repulsive. I understand that shoes can be a sexual thing. Shoes are sexy, ignoring that whole pleasure-pain thing that's going on with fetish heels they just look good but yukky horrible feet don't.

Perhaps they concern me so much because I was insecure about my own for so long. I think every adolescent girl wants average size feet and I was a tall, thin girl with long, thin feet. Luckily they don't look so strange now I'm not so horribly skinny. To be honest they probably never looked strange but that hardly matters when you're 14 and middle aged women (teachers, parents etc.) point out that you have massive feet for- a- girl all the time. Yuk. Feet.
 
 
that
11:02 / 07.07.03
I'm the exact opposite - I think part of the reason I've grown to appreciate feet in general is because my own feet are the only part of me I consistently like.

I've never been into shoes though. I like my shoes flat-soled and inconspicuous and, above all, *comfortable*. I like my feet too much to fuck them up by wearing heels, and, anyway, I generally don't wear clothes that cause me to worry about only having one pair of good proper shoes.
 
 
The Return Of Rothkoid
12:22 / 07.07.03
Feet, I like. Aesthetically-pleasing ones are just lovely. I'm not fully fetishistic about them, though, they just look... nice. Mine, however, ache like bastards, constantly.
 
 
Whisky Priestess
12:22 / 07.07.03
I have my grandmother's feet. In the freezer. No, seriously though, she has feet that are very wide at the toe end and so do I, creating a sort of rhomboid effect rather than the narrow rectangle thing most feet seem to go for. This means that while I love wearing high heels and boots and glam shoes of every description, they are more likely to rub the bejeezus out of my wider-than average plates of meat. Not that this stops me at all. They're great for swimming though, creating a sort of flipper effect.

I've had a few toe-sucking experiences, giving and receiving, although nothing along the lines of Deep Throat (is it?) where I think someone is foot-fisted in a rather impressive and alarming way. I have to say that although I wouldn't let people get anywhere near my feet unless I'd had a chance to wash them first (and vice versa) toe-sucking especially is surprisingly pleasant - in the same way that finger-sucking can be (try it now, you'll see what I mean) - mainly because it's an unfamiliar sensation on a surprisingly sensitive part of the body. I am particularly partial to having the back of my neck kissed, which makes me go all shivery, and the toe thing has much the same effect.

I think the main thing though, as with receiving oral sex, is not to get paranoid about how weird/horrible it must be for your partner and concentrate on enjoying it.
 
 
grant
15:07 / 07.07.03
For every hour in heels/restrictive footwear, spend two hours barefoot.

Your feet will thank you.

Yes.

naked feeeet.
 
  
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