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Probably not the best time to be responding to this (foul mood) but one thing that occurs to me (and the original point is an important and useful one) is that if you've always felt relatively comfortable/secure, then it takes a massive effort of empathy to respond to the injustices perpetrated on others... precisely because they're *so* other to you...
I've often talked about this with people in terms of seeing society/the world in terms of centres and fringes... (yep, it's time for plums' 'the world is flat' theory) the fringes being habitually insecure places to exist (for example as openly queer in an extremely homophobic society, as someone geographically/socially sited somewhere where starvation/war are daily fears/realities etc)
The closer you are to the fringes, the more likely you are to appreciate the struggles of others... and that sometimes events show you that you're a lot closer to the scary fringes than you'd think, eg Genoa.
Although this doesn't in any way guarantee
this. eg I know lots of rampantly homophobic Asians... I just think what's frustrating you, Rosa, is that you're expecting that people around you (in whatever context) will have this sensitivity...
But being relatively secure, from a western nation (assuming this, about barbelith people at least, obviously i don't know about your other social circles) etc is likely to position you right at the stable centre of things? which is the last place the ripples are usually felt/seen. hence the effort of empathy. which is tiring, difficult and often low on the list of priorities for most of us. It doesn't seem to be be about us, so we don't care.
I say this, as it surprises me when people are surprised by stuff like the Genoa thing.. not that i'm some hoary old cynic (well, not entirely!) but because I've never felt that 'oh but we live in a democracy' thing so I guess when appalling things happen I'm not surprised.
Which in my case (permit a bit of experiential bumph here) probably comes from being raised by asian parents who lived through the Enoch Powell period and bashed into me what that was like....
I guess I have elements of that 'it could all fall apart any second, the state is reasonable as long as it gets what it wants' mentality built in, so now matter how comfortable/sited in stabiliy i/my family appear to be we feel on the fringes at least as often as we feel settled and secure.
rambling, and not sure if this is relevant. will come back when I'm in a better mood.
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