How about a collection of various nuggets of good advice that Barbelithers have collected over the years? I'll start. I recently took my dog to see a dog trainer. Since I split with my ex, two years ago, my dog has been getting more and more agitated when we are approached by anyone on the street or in the park, especially men. My ex was abusive (I feel horribly guilty for letting my dog grow up in that situation) and although he never hurt my dog, it's pretty clear that my sweetheart has developed a mistrust of men, and a desire to protect me or anyone close to him. So he barks, growls, and tries to attack. The dog trainer suggested that we take him out early in the morning so that he can have a nice walk without us stressing that he's going to bite someone, or him stressing about protecting us. We've been doing it for a week now, and the effect has been miraculous. He's always been funny about food, but now he eats enthusiastically at least once a day, and always takes treats. It's truly amazing - he's a much happier dog, and that makes me happy because he's my best friend and it's so good to see him feeling less anxious. Best advice ever.
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