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Gay Hanky Code

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Dead Megatron

15:46 / 29.01.07

Fathers do get those strange notions about "gayness tell-aways" (for the lack of a better intelligent-sounding euphemism) like that. Believe it or not, when I was a kid, my dad used to joke that I

grant

15:48 / 29.01.07

HE GOT HIM!!

Dead Megatron

15:49 / 29.01.07

[sorry, wrong button]

...that I was not supposed to tuck my penis to the rigth or down, because that was gay. I'm pretty sure he was just messing with my head - he loved to do that, kinf like Calvin's dad from the comics - but even then my reaction was "say whaaa???? why????"

I mean, how many degrees to the right constitute gay? And if you tie the aforementioned scarf in the front - or God forbid, the back - does that make you bi-curious?

go figure...

Our Lady Has Left the Building

16:29 / 29.01.07

When I was young my dad told me that sucking another man's cock was a sign of being a 'bit poofy'.

Char Aina

16:34 / 29.01.07

it's no pole if yer only smokin it!

Ganesh

16:51 / 29.01.07

I think the right side was frequently considered 'bent' - see also the 'earring in the gay ear' - presumably on the grounds that 'gay' = 'passive'.

Ticker

17:15 / 29.01.07

there was a lot of hanky action this weekend at the Fetish Fleamarket. Mostly I spotted young lesbians and self identified boys sporting them but that's probably just where I was a-looking...

Lot of hunter green and mint green hankies in that crowd on either arm/hip across gender presenting lines. One young woman was in formal attire with the hanky wrapped around her right arm. I was also present when someone asked another what the hanky in question indicated. Seems perfectly fine to just quietly ask.

Char Aina

17:23 / 29.01.07

what if it's on pirates?
take prisoners/leave corpses?

Ticker

17:25 / 29.01.07

now now toksik, pirates do other stuff too you know!

pillage/pillagee for example.

Janean Patience

07:25 / 30.01.07

Ganesh

07:27 / 30.01.07

Cocktease.

Less searchable M0rd4nt

07:28 / 30.01.07

So do pirates indicate preferences with what shoulder their parrot sits on?

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