...we tend to reduce other people’s complexity. Rather than see them as a whole person subject to the same variety of thoughts, feelings and confusions as ourselves, we simplify them, and begin to view them solely as an agent generating this fear/pride/anger/whatever.
I agree with this statement. I believe that when a person is born they are more or less a blank slate (aside from whatever karmic inheritances they've carried into this incarnation). But basically a child is empty and as it grows and experiences life, it takes on personalities, memories, emotions, scars, complexes, fears, hatreds, etc... all dependent upon the experiences of Hir life. Trauma, abuse, neglect, violence - all these things can turn a simple child into an angry, ill-tempered, malign adult.
Every person you hate or loathe or fear is ultimately a result of their own life. This is not to say they aren't responsible for who they are - anyone can change. But, as Illmatic noted, it is common for us to see people only for the traits they expose to us, ignoring the complexities of their own personal history.
For these reasons, among others, I think it's best to enchant for enlightenment of the individual rather than their destruction. Or at least to seek the most benign route to averting their negative impact on your life, like Warewolf's servitor. But, IMHO, to will negativity towards others is to invert the pentagram (though some bastards sure seem to deserve it...). |